What a (seemingly) unnecessary shame...
What a (seemingly) unnecessary shame...
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BrabusMog

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21,377 posts

209 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Just found out that the OH's cousins' boyfriend (no Jeremy Kyle piss takes please!) has lost both his legs and also an arm out in Afghanistan.

Really does make you think when something terrible happens to someone you know/care about that this "war" is just so costly. I never really felt too bad when I read about wounded soldiers returning from action, but seeing how this is going to affect the young lad has really made me think.

I just hope there is a swift withdrawal from the fighting, I would not wish this horror on my worst enemy.

ezi

1,734 posts

209 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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What a shame frown

craste

1,227 posts

230 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Was it caused by one of those improvised explosive devices?

They are fking cowards mate - they wouldn't have the balls to fight toe to toe.

Don't know what else to say mate but thats gutting news and really our boys should be home.

BrabusMog

Original Poster:

21,377 posts

209 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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craste said:
Was it caused by one of those improvised explosive devices?

They are fking cowards mate - they wouldn't have the balls to fight toe to toe.

Don't know what else to say mate but thats gutting news and really our boys should be home.
Don't know, I have only heard it from the MiL but she said to me that they had only received minor details about the injuries as they don't want lots of reporting on the current operation they have going on out there.

evenflow

8,839 posts

305 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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The poor f*cker.
He's in my thoughts.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

248 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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frown

I note that your location is UK as a whole - drop me a PM if he's based in Scotland.

There is a huge amount of help for veterans available throughout the UK, as long as people know that they can ask for it.

jp1982

300 posts

222 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Just hoping that people will remember what the poor lad has given for this country.


Lord Croker

7,345 posts

212 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Truly appalling. I've never really understood from day one what our soldiers are doing out there. I understand the theory that it's to keep the Taliban at bay, but I go along with the view that the war is only serving to help them recruit more members and gain more support.

I while ago I saw a program where a reporter followed troops on their manouvers. Basically they left their base at say 0600, made their way towards a farmsted, fought of and kept at bay Taliban soldiers until say 1400, then went back to base. As soon as they left the farm the Taliban went straight back. Repeat for weeks/months on end, with a few casualties along the way... Great.

B17NNS

18,506 posts

270 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Poor bd (but I imagine the last thing he wants is sympathy or pitty, probably just to be back in the thick of it with his mates).

Never fails to amaze me the work that these guys do.

Made of different stuff bow

Tycho

12,116 posts

296 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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B17NNS said:
Poor bd (but I imagine the last thing he wants is sympathy or pitty, probably just to be back in the thick of it with his mates).

Never fails to amaze me the work that these guys do.

Made of different stuff bow
+1 Don't support the reasons they are out there but the troops on the ground have 100% of my support.

Zippee

13,927 posts

257 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Famous Graham said:
frown

I note that your location is UK as a whole - drop me a PM if he's based in Scotland.

There is a huge amount of help for veterans available throughout the UK, as long as people know that they can ask for it.
Holybush?

To the OP - Really sorry to hear that, IMHO its time our boys came home, they have my full respect though doing a great job in terrible conditions.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

248 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Zippee said:
Famous Graham said:
frown

I note that your location is UK as a whole - drop me a PM if he's based in Scotland.

There is a huge amount of help for veterans available throughout the UK, as long as people know that they can ask for it.
Holybush?

To the OP - Really sorry to hear that, IMHO its time our boys came home, they have my full respect though doing a great job in terrible conditions.
Poppyscotland.

Olf

11,977 posts

241 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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7 guys killed this week and over 50 injured. We're not hearing enough about the injured. That could be (and probably is) 50 mutilated men who you can bet are not getting the best that Tony and Gordon promised them.

Driller

8,310 posts

301 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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I'm not taking anything away from the soldiers who are courageously going through hell, but if you had a foreign army in your county which you perceived as an invader, wouldn't you do what ever it took to fight them, IEDs inluded?

Take the French resistance for example.


Working Class

8,974 posts

210 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Your OH cousin's boyfriend is a legend, brave man.

160steve

727 posts

215 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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History shows victory in the 'stan is impossible. As soon as the occupying forces pull out civil war erupts. This has been going on for hundreds of years.

see this - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HbK76okexVk for an illustration of why the plan to train the police/army to take over is doomed to failure. (i know it says iraqi)

Sorry to hear about another hero coming home broken. Ihe guys out there deserve more (equipment, aftercare etc)

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

248 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Shifting to the political aspect for a minute, wasn't Afghanistan mandated by the UN?

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

216 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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Brave people to be out there just now...how many have been killed this week alone...7 is it? frown


Taita

7,921 posts

226 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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The headlines mention the men who are killed in action, with not enough airtime giving to Help4Heroes or the injured.

Elskeggso

3,100 posts

210 months

Wednesday 8th July 2009
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frown Heartbreaking stuff