Women, cant kill them and always your fault???
Women, cant kill them and always your fault???
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Dupont666

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22,522 posts

215 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Arranged with the OH to go to a museum today but she was under orders that I have to see friends at 4ish due to it being one of theirs 30th which she has known about for 3 weeks

OH told me she wanted a lie in and she would ring at 11-11:45am to sort it, at 11:50 I ring her and she is fast asleep and get whinged at for waking her... WTF... I remind her that i have a friends 30th to go to at 4pm and wouldnt be late as i have been bked for turning up hours after i should have before.

Fast forward to 1pm and she rings to tell me her friend wants to go now but is not up and wants to go for breakfast first.

Then at 14:25 i get the phone call to get on the tube and meet them at moorgate she is bemused when i explain i now cant go... How the fk she thought I was going to do that i will never know, its 35-40 mins for me to get to moorgate, then need to go to barbican to the museum and then need to get back down to SW london for 4pm.

So now im in the bad books for saying no i cant make it but wanted to THIS MORNING as i need to be in SW London in 90mins and dont see the point of going to a museum for 20mins before going back.

Apparantly I should have woken her up earlier (was warned not too) and should have mentioned the meeting at 4pm more... she will now join me if she 'has the time' later.

Other than being Male, how is this my fault and why should I be made to feel guilty for something that she put off til 3pm??

SoapyShowerBoy

1,775 posts

218 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Crikey, your OH sleeps until 11:45!

Anyway I digress. The fact is she does not want you to go at 4pm.

metro lover

553 posts

210 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in

TheEnd

15,370 posts

211 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Stick to your guns, you did all the leg work, and she messed up by being lazy, then inviting some other hungry little friend along, so let the pair of them can have breakfast at lunchtime, and tell her to be more organised.

Dupont666

Original Poster:

22,522 posts

215 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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metro lover said:
TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in
That one confused me too....

It meant TJ was in fact female and has just found blokes???

metro lover

553 posts

210 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Dupont666 said:
metro lover said:
TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in
That one confused me too....

It meant TJ was in fact female and has just found blokes???
Or just a typo...

Dupont666

Original Poster:

22,522 posts

215 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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metro lover said:
Dupont666 said:
metro lover said:
TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in
That one confused me too....

It meant TJ was in fact female and has just found blokes???
Or just a typo...
Bloody big typo not to notice that one before posting..... either that or pisched at 3pm

metro lover

553 posts

210 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Dupont666 said:
metro lover said:
Dupont666 said:
metro lover said:
TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in
That one confused me too....

It meant TJ was in fact female and has just found blokes???
Or just a typo...
Bloody big typo not to notice that one before posting..... either that or pisched at 3pm
Must have things on his mind.... or.... i'll leave it there

Cotty

41,887 posts

307 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Dupont666 said:
pisched at 3pm
You called drunk

Well not drunk but I certainly wouldn't attempt driving.

H_Kan

4,942 posts

222 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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metro lover said:
Dupont666 said:
metro lover said:
TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in
That one confused me too....

It meant TJ was in fact female and has just found blokes???
Or just a typo...
Post later said his flatmate posted under his username.

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

248 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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H_Kan said:
metro lover said:
Dupont666 said:
metro lover said:
TJ has just started a forum you may be interested in
That one confused me too....

It meant TJ was in fact female and has just found blokes???
Or just a typo...
Post later said his flatmate posted under his username.
Yeah yeah, that old chestnut biggrin

Dogwatch

6,365 posts

245 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Dupont666 said:
Other than being Male, how is this is all my fault and why I should be made to feel guilty for something that she put off til 3pm
Edited for real life. You haven't quite got this male/female thing yet have you?

Racefan_uk

2,935 posts

279 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Dupont, ditch her now, she's clearly more hassle than she's worth!

stefd

290 posts

251 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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She sounds truly awful mate. I've been out with her type before - completely self absorbed. You'd be much happier without her, plenty of less selfish fish in the sea.

Strangely Brown

13,784 posts

254 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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Mrs. SB says that she is a psycho and you should ditch her. She is, apparently, a disgrace to the sex.

King Herald

23,501 posts

239 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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You have made the simple mistake of trying to understand womens logic! yes

Don't even try, as you'll just dig your hole deeper and deeper. nono


Mars

9,916 posts

237 months

Saturday 1st August 2009
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This is easy, and it doesn't matter what type of person she is. This becomes about *you*:

PLANS: Make them. Agree them. Stick to them. Anyone who deviates is in the wrong. Accept no excuse.

bertie

8,568 posts

307 months

Four Cofffee

11,838 posts

258 months

Sunday 2nd August 2009
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Happened to my Bil a while back. In the end he went to the cinema with a friend and she called when he was in the queue to say 'she was ready now'. He politely told her that he had no intention of picking her up as he had waited most of the day and she would now have to wait until he and the girl from work he was in the queue with had finished watching their fil. It was 12 months before she spoke to him again.

When back together he had the bare faced cheek to tell her she was driving with the handbrake on (twice) and she hasn't spoken to him since. I think he should have taken the cinema episode as a warning and ditched the selfish, uptight, disrespectful high maintenance 'lady' and saved himself 2 years of anguish and shed loads of cash.

But I do hate people who have no respect for my time by being late.