Cheating ex upset 'cause I met someone. Why?
Cheating ex upset 'cause I met someone. Why?
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MitchT

Original Poster:

17,089 posts

232 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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GF dumped me start of March.
End of March I find out she's been seeing someone.
Me devastated.
I meet someone start of June.
Ex GF finds out late July.
I see ex today and confirm her suspicions.
Ex devastated.

Why? Noone forced her to finish it!

ineedagallardo

1,601 posts

255 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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MitchT said:
GF dumped me start of March.
End of March I find out she's been seeing someone.
Me devastated.
I meet someone start of June.
Ex GF finds out late July.
I see ex today and confirm her suspicions.
Ex devastated.

Why? Noone forced her to finish it!
Good Good and Good, Girls always want what they can't have,

Now you can relish in her misery biggrin

Slagathore

6,183 posts

215 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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'cause she's mentally challenged?

Tycho

12,126 posts

296 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Don't give your ex a second thought. She is out of your life now by her own decision.

Mobile Chicane

21,820 posts

235 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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MitchT said:
GF dumped me start of March.
End of March I find out she's been seeing someone.
Me devastated.
I meet someone start of June.
Ex GF finds out late July.
I see ex today and confirm her suspicions.
Ex devastated.

Why? Noone forced her to finish it!
You're well shot of her. So why worry?

Jasandjules

71,983 posts

252 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Just because she doesn't want you doesn't mean:

1. She wants you to be happy
2. She wants someone else to want you

Has she, perchance, also split up with the fellow she dumped you for? IF so, that means she may also have been hoping she could string you along again, until she found someone else (no offence, I am surmising her actions, as some people are want to do).

War Pig

1,527 posts

215 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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SWT

GTIR

24,741 posts

289 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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But secretly your happy she is upset and its all a bit of a game as she dumped you.

Come on, you dont really like this new girl do you?

Move on friend, move on. smile


Eta if she finished it start of March and started seeing someone end of March why is she cheating?


Edited by GTIR on Thursday 6th August 21:56

Famous Graham

26,553 posts

248 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Because she's a cheating harpy that wants her cake and eat it.

Ignore the self-centred bh

GTO Scott

3,816 posts

247 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Ignore her. She is just trying to fk you about.

TimmyHolland

661 posts

218 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Send the ex a sex tape of the you and the new missus?
Funk the cheating bh!

glazbagun

15,149 posts

220 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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This isn't an advice thread, you just wanted to gloat, didn't you. biggrin

Teppic

7,921 posts

280 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Slagathore said:
'cause she's a woman?
EFA

308mate

13,758 posts

245 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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MitchT said:
GF dumped me start of March.
End of March I find out she's been seeing someone.
Me devastated.
I meet someone start of June.
Ex GF finds out late July.
I see ex today and confirm her suspicions.
Ex devastated.
Finally, some happy relationship news in the Lounge.

ShadownINja

79,334 posts

305 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Tell her to grow the fk up. This could go one of two ways...
1) She suddenly respects you for being a man and realises she is being an idiot; regrets dumping you but ultimately realises that she has to find happiness elsewhere

or

2) http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

biggrin Good luck!

MitchT

Original Poster:

17,089 posts

232 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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I get the impression that women do this a lot. Why? It isn't just my ex. It seems to be every women who dumps a bloke. Surely if they don't want something anymore then they don't mind someone else having it... or am I being too logical?

RobDickinson

31,343 posts

277 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Tell the Ex you've only been 'official' with the new girl since July but physical since January...

VX Foxy

3,962 posts

266 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Time to go back for a mercy shag yes

Edited by VX Foxy on Thursday 6th August 23:18

wendyg

2,071 posts

266 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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Please let me give you a womans perspective on this -

She'd feel better if you were still pining.

From a rational person's view, ignore her, don't let her muck about

GTIR

24,741 posts

289 months

Thursday 6th August 2009
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wendyg said:
Please let me give you a womans perspective on this -

She'd feel better if you were still pining.

From a rational person's view, ignore her, don't let her muck about
mysoginist only on this thread please.

smile