When was the "L Bomb" first dropped in your relationship?

[MitchT]

How long were you seeing someone before the big scary "L Word" was used? Been seeing someone for two months, really like her and think it has long-term potential, but don't think it's quite time for that word to be used yet. Think the time will come though. Just curious as to what others' experiences were.

[Four Cofffee]

This sounds corny but I didn't hear it, I saw it in her eyes one day. So I asked her and she coughed the job. This forced me to divorce my wife. But to answer the OP question, 2-3 months in.

[NDA]

I think a bit of lesbianism is fine.

[ShadownINja]

NDA said:

I think a bit of lesbianism is fine.

[Uncle Fester]

She knew the day we met, I think I did too, but it took a few weeks to find the courage to admit it to myself.

Silver Anniversary next year.

[Steamer]

MitchT said:

..but don't think it's quite time for that word to be used yet...

Stand Firm! Don't be the one to blink first.

[MitchT]

Steamer said:

MitchT said:

..but don't think it's quite time for that word to be used yet...

Stand Firm! Don't be the one to blink first.

Ha ha! Actually, I have never been the one to blink first... though "blinking" has only happened in two previous relationships!

[Yoshiwaan]

Bout 3 days ago. We were just over 6 months in. I don't like to say it until I really, really mean it.

[crofty1984]

My ex went fking spare when I suggested she try liposuction.

[dickymint]

Four Cofffee said:

So I asked her and she coughed the job.

My mind is running riot

[Baked_bean]

I actually dropped it two days ago in my relationship. But to answer the question, 8 months in.

[Oakey]

I always tell girls I love them right away, you know, to get them into bed quicker.

I'm joking, just in case that isn't clear

Edited by Oakey on Saturday 8th August 11:25

[buggalugs]

Its usually been 2-3 months for me. I had one girl tell me in German - I didn't speak german. She was too nervous to say it in English I guess. That was sweet.

[Four Cofffee]

dickymint said:

Four Cofffee said:

So I asked her and she coughed the job.

My mind is running riot

Oddly, there is a Freudian slip in that.

[Steamer]

buggalugs said:

Its usually been 2-3 months for me. I had one girl tell me in German - I didn't speak german. She was too nervous to say it in English I guess. That was sweet.

As sweet & innocent as that sounds... 'Ich liebe dich' could easily be mis-construed in the throws of passion.

[ShadownINja]

Steamer said:

buggalugs said:

Its usually been 2-3 months for me. I had one girl tell me in German - I didn't speak german. She was too nervous to say it in English I guess. That was sweet.

As sweet & innocent as that sounds... 'Ich liebe dich' could easily be mis-construed in the throws of passion.

[f-fuxake]

First date surely?
DesperateHeads...Insecurity Matters!

[pogster41]

NDA said:

I think a bit of lesbianism is fine.

This thread is hopeless without photos

[buggalugs]

ShadownINja said:

Steamer said:

buggalugs said:

Its usually been 2-3 months for me. I had one girl tell me in German - I didn't speak german. She was too nervous to say it in English I guess. That was sweet.

As sweet & innocent as that sounds... 'Ich liebe dich' could easily be mis-construed in the throws of passion.

Not far off!! We were spending NYE together and decided to try and have a simultaneous orgasm at the stroke of midnight - sadly Dale Winton came on the telly at the wrong moment and made us a bit late... I do miss her sometimes!

[BrabusMog]

Uncle Fester said:

She knew the day we met, I think I did too, but it took a few weeks to find the courage to admit it to myself.

Silver Anniversary next year.

Longest relationship someone on PH has managed to maintain?