Bit of help please.....
Bit of help please.....
Author
Discussion

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Right the OH was suspended from work pending investigation about a 6 weeks ago.

3 weeks ago she had a meeting with her boss and union rep as a witness.

After the meeting she was absolved of all charges and her boss is in deep water for wrongfully suspending her.

She has now applied to move to another office doing the same role, as she has no faith in her boss at her current office.

The trouble is she has recieved a letter from her (potenially) new regional manager saying that her case will have to wait as he has changed his annual leave and will have to wait till 15th Sept!

The OH is getting really stressed about this, she is on basic pay and has been diagnosed by the doctor as having stress directly caused by this incident.

Now I don't know what route to tell her to take? My opinion is go the whole hog and get legal on them for
a). causing undue stress
and
b). loss of income due to being wrongfully suspended, granted she is on basic pay bu this is not the same as if she was actually at work.

This is a VERY large company that is Government funded and not in the private sector if that is of any relevance.

Over to the great minds of PH, I'm not sure if this should be in SP&L so feel free to move mods if you see fit smile

RobCrezz

7,892 posts

231 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Tell her to stop being such a drama queen and wait untill Sept 15th.

Graham E

13,015 posts

209 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
FFS, I know i'm not privvy to the whole information, but stress? Tell her to grow a pair. People used to deal with stress etc fine, now it's a reason to sue and / or go on Prozac.

^^ there, now I've got the obligatory "1st post = abuse" done, if they were truly in the wrong maybe (but I wouldn't). If it's a grey area and she knows there was some fair ish reason for the suspension, deffo no.

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
RobCrezz said:
Tell her to stop being such a drama queen and wait untill Sept 15th.
Probably the sort of post i would have put if it hadn't been my thread but thanks for the erm.... help???

:s

Graham E

13,015 posts

209 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
^ETA - sorry, I assumed I was first post, someone else has clearly got there first, and abused you already. Hope the missus is OK.

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Graham E said:
FFS, I know i'm not privvy to the whole information, but stress? Tell her to grow a pair. People used to deal with stress etc fine, now it's a reason to sue and / or go on Prozac.

^^ there, now I've got the obligatory "1st post = abuse" done, if they were truly in the wrong maybe (but I wouldn't). If it's a grey area and she knows there was some fair ish reason for the suspension, deffo no.
There are issues that i am not going to discuss on here which have left her in a 'fragile' state of mind, and her work is aware of this. So the "grow a pair" isn't really necessary TBH.

No absolutely not the suspension was 100% the employers fault, allowing her to be in the office by herself (which is against company regulation) and left to count stamps (a hint to her employer) by herself an mis counted by £38.00 due to having to serve customers as well as the other roles she does.

ewenm

28,506 posts

268 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
If she's truly stressed get her signed off work by her doctor.

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
ewenm said:
If she's truly stressed get her signed off work by her doctor.
but shes not actually AT work thats the thing.

She hasnt been for six weeks

BermyAndy

2,050 posts

241 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
ah, so she has to stay off work unpaid until some dude comes back from holiday?

She should go on holiday too

BrabusMog

21,418 posts

209 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Her first port of call should be the CAB. It is hard to advise without knowing all the in's and out's of the problem, so get her to go there.

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
BermyAndy said:
ah, so she has to stay off work unpaid until some dude comes back from holiday?

She should go on holiday too
No she is on BASIC pay.

She doesnt want to go on holiday, she wants to get back at work earning what she should earn.

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
BrabusMog said:
Her first port of call should be the CAB. It is hard to advise without knowing all the in's and out's of the problem, so get her to go there.
I told her to march her arse down there this morning as soon as she told me about the letter.

ewenm

28,506 posts

268 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
speed_monkey said:
BrabusMog said:
Her first port of call should be the CAB. It is hard to advise without knowing all the in's and out's of the problem, so get her to go there.
I told her to march her arse down there this morning as soon as she told me about the letter.
And she hasn't done so because...?

She needs professional advice, not internet ramblings. The CAB should be able to recommend some decent experts.

Neil_H

15,407 posts

274 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Why doesn't she look for a job somewhere else? I don't think the legal route will help reduce the stress.

Murray993

1,515 posts

256 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Wouldn't the union rep be able to point her in the right direction for advice?

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
ewenm said:
speed_monkey said:
BrabusMog said:
Her first port of call should be the CAB. It is hard to advise without knowing all the in's and out's of the problem, so get her to go there.
I told her to march her arse down there this morning as soon as she told me about the letter.
And she hasn't done so because...?

She needs professional advice, not internet ramblings. The CAB should be able to recommend some decent experts.
I 'belive' she has trouble is I am at work and can't check without going for a shady poo-phone call

speed_monkey

Original Poster:

3,503 posts

212 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
Neil_H said:
Why doesn't she look for a job somewhere else? I don't think the legal route will help reduce the stress.
Because she is one of the rare few who actually enjoys her job.
Why should she have to give that up for a mistake that her employer made?

350GT

73,668 posts

278 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
She has been cleared of any wrongdoing... Why should she be worried about going back? The onus will be on the boss, and he will be the one under scrutiny.

RobCrezz

7,892 posts

231 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
speed_monkey said:
RobCrezz said:
Tell her to stop being such a drama queen and wait untill Sept 15th.
Probably the sort of post i would have put if it hadn't been my thread but thanks for the erm.... help???

:s
smile

shirt

25,070 posts

224 months

Friday 21st August 2009
quotequote all
i'd get her to speak to HR, explaining all the above and get them to either:

a] extend the current leave until the 15th

b] let her work in another dept. even if only on a temp. basis.

c] hold some kind of reconciliation mtg with her manager.

as with everything, there's only one side of a story here. her manager may well not cause her any further trouble, or he could be a PITA. in the case of the former she should go back to work, in the case of the latter HR will know the score and arrange an alternative.