Homosexuallity, nature or nurture ? nuture surely ?
Homosexuallity, nature or nurture ? nuture surely ?

Poll: Homosexuallity, nature or nurture ? nuture surely ?

Total Members Polled: 276

Nature (your born that way due to genetics ): 54%
Nurture (events in life affect your tastes ): 46%
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Tampon

Original Poster:

4,637 posts

254 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Was at a dinner party and we started talking about this, I started thinking that it can't be nature, evolution would mean that people with a "gay" gene wouldn't breed with females and therefore over time the gene would demise.

Ended up in a decent conversation so thought I would bring it here.

By the end came up with the conclusion that we are all ( at least a large portion ) born with a "gay" gene and it lays dormant until events trigger it off. Ie both, nature and nurture.

shirt

25,394 posts

230 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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nurture. its in our instinct to have hetero sex to mate but without societal taboos we'd probably shag anything that moves like chimps do.


Rotary Madness

2,285 posts

215 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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I remember seeing something about a test done on gay rams. They disected them and found a porting of their brain was 10% smaller then in straight rams.

I really dont think you could condition a straight person to be gay. I know plenty of people who have no remote interest in cock, and would probably die before going that way.


Frankeh

12,558 posts

214 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Tampon said:
I started thinking that it can't be nature, evolution would mean that people with a "gay" gene wouldn't breed with females and therefore over time the gene would demise.
Back then they could have just been nurtured into having a heterosexual relationship..
Being gay used to be illegal, remember.

Bibbs

3,754 posts

239 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Over 90% of animal species have "gay" members.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15750604/

Apparently having gay people as a part of your tribe ment that more kids would survive overall.

Jasandjules

72,586 posts

258 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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shirt said:
nurture. its in our instinct to have hetero sex to mate but without societal taboos we'd probably shag anything that moves like chimps do.

I don't find men attractive at all though, regardless of any other external factor.

So it's nature from where I'm sitting.

Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

271 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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It is a contentious issue, and in the main I'd say I was a nativist.

I would like to thank the OP(Original Poster) for the explanation(something that explains) of what 'Nature' and 'Nurture' mean, as I think most(The majority) of us would have been lost(unable to find one's way) without the handy reminder(a person or thing that reminds).

SkinnyBoy

4,635 posts

287 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKB7vAFTdA8

Ron White saying it how it is lol!

Frankeh

12,558 posts

214 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Jasandjules said:
shirt said:
nurture. its in our instinct to have hetero sex to mate but without societal taboos we'd probably shag anything that moves like chimps do.

I don't find men attractive at all though, regardless of any other external factor.

So it's nature from where I'm sitting.
That is not proof.
Did your father or siblings or friends ever say anything derogative towards gay people at any point during your childhood?

Romans, for example, had loads of gay sex. Totally normal.

TheCarpetCleaner

7,294 posts

231 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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I would guess perhaps a mixture of both - in some people they are not sure, and nurture sets the path.


Ayahuasca

27,580 posts

308 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Justayellowbadge said:
It is a contentious issue, and in the main I'd say I was a nativist.

I would like to thank the OP(Original Poster) for the explanation(something that explains) of what 'Nature' and 'Nurture' mean, as I think most(The majority) of us would have been lost(unable to find one's way) without the handy reminder(a person or thing that reminds).
For added marks you should have woven the your /you're incident into your post.


Slate99

2,270 posts

214 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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I don't know either way to be honest. There was an intersting program about John Barrowman looking at why he was gay. It's a shame i can't remember what the outcome was. I think he was sure that it was genetic.

Personally I think so people have a pre-disposition to be gay and perhaps a certain factor in nurture can set it off?

Rotary Madness

2,285 posts

215 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Frankeh said:
Jasandjules said:
shirt said:
nurture. its in our instinct to have hetero sex to mate but without societal taboos we'd probably shag anything that moves like chimps do.

I don't find men attractive at all though, regardless of any other external factor.

So it's nature from where I'm sitting.
That is not proof.
Did your father or siblings or friends ever say anything derogative towards gay people at any point during your childhood?

Romans, for example, had loads of gay sex. Totally normal.
Thats not the point though. My parents were never really outspoken against being gay, but they did say it wasnt normal etc. Personally i dont mind kissing a bloke, but the idea of sticking my love-rod in someone elses pooper does nothing for me hurl

Tampon

Original Poster:

4,637 posts

254 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Justayellowbadge said:
It is a contentious issue, and in the main I'd say I was a nativist.

I would like to thank the OP(Original Poster) for the explanation(something that explains) of what 'Nature' and 'Nurture' mean, as I think most(The majority) of us would have been lost(unable to find one's way) without the handy reminder(a person or thing that reminds).
No worries ( I don't mind your statement ), are you being serious ( do you believe your statement to be true ? )

The numpties round here that will just start calling each other gay, straight of the bat ( excuse the pun ) rather than have a discussion about a topic.

Ayahuasca

27,580 posts

308 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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It is a well-known fact that you can catch gay by driving certain makes of car, drinking certain drinks and liking men to insert their penises up your bottom.


Silent1

19,762 posts

264 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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You're only gay if you take it

sadako

7,080 posts

267 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Tampon said:
Was at a dinner party and we started talking about this, I started thinking that it can't be nature, evolution would mean that people with a "gay" gene wouldn't breed with females and therefore over time the gene would demise.

Ended up in a decent conversation so thought I would bring it here.

By the end came up with the conclusion that we are all ( at least a large portion ) born with a "gay" gene and it lays dormant until events trigger it off. Ie both, nature and nurture.
What if it is naturally occurring but not genetic? Genes do not 100% dictate how someone is born: for example identical twins have identical genes but may have different birth marks, likewise the percentage of people born gay is just a biological roll of the dice.

If it is genetic also remember that genes mutate quite often when a new child is conceived. Perhaps it is a mutation that happens quite often.

It will be interesting if this biology question is answered one day but it would be immoral to interfere with the mechanism.

Gedon

3,097 posts

205 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Both.

Essentially. Julian Clary type benders have female pattern brains. This is due to a lack of testosterone present in the womb at a certain level. You could say that this was an environment, so was environmental. It isn't genetic. However, you are born like it. You can stigmatise it, punish it, but these people will feel happy in a role that their mind predisposes. Nothing wrong with it, it's totally natural.

Women are the reverse. Too much testosterone present in the womb gives masculinised brain....etc, etc.

What it doesn't account for is the Butch Gays or Feminine Lesbians. Whilst I can imagine that Butch Gays could have female pattern brains and it's merely roleplay, there is nothing that can convince me of the feminine lesbian scenario, rather than some sort of psychological mal-development or wound.

I would say that you could say that Butch Lesbians/Feminine gays are Nature and their counterparts are nurture. That's my opinion and was gleaned from various books. One being "The Physiology of Behaviour" which is an undergrad text.

I'd be interesting in people's opinions on mechanisms leading to Feminine Lesbians/Butch Gays.


king arthur

7,872 posts

290 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Commenting on this thread = gheyist.










Oh....oops.

elster

17,517 posts

239 months

Monday 14th September 2009
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Has to be Nature.

Throughout nature animals have gay sex. Also common through human history that gay sex is for fun, straight sex is for breeding.

So it seems animals just like sex.