The house seems so empty without him
The house seems so empty without him
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Mr Green

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936 posts

211 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Photo taken 11 months ago.

I had to have the big old boy put down yesterday and thought I was dealing with it very well until just now. I was doing a cheese salad and some cheese fell on the floor so I picked it up and just expected him to be sat there waiting for just such a chance to get a free nibble, I had to throw it in the bin what a waste.
He was 9 years old and was diagnosed with mouth cancer 7 weeks ago, it had gone to his lyphnodes and further so it was just a matter of time. I decided I couldn't watch him struggle eating and drinking anymore he could only drink from the garden tap.

Never again.

CatherineJ

9,586 posts

272 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Oh dear, i'm so sorry to hear that. We have been there before and I know it hurts. We have an old 15 year old German Shepherd cross who keeps surprising us, but we know we are on the last lap with him and dread the day we have to let him go.



Edited by CatherineJ on Saturday 26th September 18:43

wargriff

1,908 posts

231 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Im sorry to hear of your loss, I lost mine a few years ago. And still miss him
The saying goes ' A home without a dog is just a house' ... so true.

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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As the picture opened, all I could see were three children. I thought that this was going to be a really sad tale about the death of a child.

tmk2

708 posts

237 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Sorry to here that mate our old girl is hanging on at 14 have no idea how I'll cope when she goes

GTIR

24,741 posts

295 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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I hope you were not planning to take that on the bus!
hehe

I can just imagine the bus driver coming into view of the beast, "fk that!" and flooring it right past. No wonder the kids look dejected. "Dad, were gonna need a bigger bus"

Doggy looks fun, great shame. frown

Steamer

14,180 posts

242 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Mr Green said:
.I picked it up and just expected him to be sat there waiting for just such a chance to get a free nibble, I had to throw it in the bin what a waste.
Yes - I feel your pain brother.

7 years later and anything that lands on 'The Dog Shelf' aka, the floor, I still half expect a dog to be there first.


Mr Green said:
Never again.
Exactly what we said. Its taken us this long to just about thinking of a visit to the dog's home to have a look for another possible adoptee.

Its strange how family dogs always seem to be just in your peripheral vision - that takes a bit of getting used to too.

Chin up fella - I bet he had a great innings.

catmartin

889 posts

226 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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My dog has been fighting cancer too, thankfully she's been given the all clear now but I still worry about the day it comes back, if it does.

And she's also taken to running away every single time we let her outside. Keeps running to other houses along our road, but this is a busy B road and she has no road sense.

B17NNS

18,506 posts

276 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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frown Chin up fella. He's not in any pain wherever he is now and he has an endless supply of cheese smile

I've done it and will have to do it again when the time comes. Can't imagine it ever gets any easier. You just have to think of it as the last decent thing you can do for a very dear friend.

Olf

11,978 posts

247 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Eric Mc said:
As the picture opened, all I could see were three children. I thought that this was going to be a really sad tale about the death of a child.
Me too. Quite relieved. Dogs are nice... but...

cobra kid

5,588 posts

269 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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5 years later I still make sure the outer porch door at my dads house is shut before opening the inside one. Just "in case the dog gets out".

There were five of us living there for the 14 years of the dogs life.

My mum died
I moved out
The dog died
My dad died

Just my brother now.

-Pete-

2,914 posts

205 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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cobra kid said:
Just my brother now.
I bet he's terrified!

JimNotJon

761 posts

238 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Sorry to hear that fella. I had to have my dog Benny put to sleep New Years day this year, he was also 9 it absoloutly broke my heart. He got out his basket one evening and just fell to the floor, had some kind of stroke and couldnt move, rushed him to the vets and they did tests, he improved a little but not much and the decision was made, the most difficult one I have ever and probley will ever make. Not a day goes by when I dont think about him and stuff he used to get up to and mischeief he used to get into. I too expect him to be there as soon as I drop tit bits in the kitchen, he was like a rocket, there before it hit the floor.



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CommanderJameson

22,096 posts

255 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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The best cure for the grief caused by losing a dog is to get another one.

cobra kid

5,588 posts

269 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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It's these little stories that should be putting smiles on our faces.....not the opposite!


SirClarke

633 posts

205 months

Saturday 26th September 2009
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Not surprised your house feels empty, looks like he was a right big ol' bruiser smile

Sorry to hear you had to put him down, I struggle whenever we lose a cat (has happened a few times in my life) and I've no doubt the attachment to the average family pooch is a lot stronger frown

horton

804 posts

281 months

Sunday 27th September 2009
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CommanderJameson said:
The best cure for the grief caused by losing a dog is to get another one.
almost. The best cure for the grief caused by losing a dog is to never have just one dog - if you replace the dog you lost with another one, you don't have an immediate attachment, it's like saying you can replace your mother with any random old woman.

if you have just one dog, wait for the grief to calm down, then find some really deserving mutt at the dog home - not a cute pedigree puppy, but a really deserving mutt that needs a home.

to the OP - RIP, that sucks, I've lost two dogs and it can really hurt.

Corpulent Tosser

5,468 posts

274 months

Sunday 27th September 2009
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So sorry to hear about you losing your dog, we had to have our 9 year old black lab put down a five years back as he had cancer, I still miss him, we were weak and kept him too long but it is so hard to make that decision.

We did as horton suggested and got a rescue dog.


siscar

6,887 posts

246 months

Sunday 27th September 2009
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Mr Green said:


Never again.
I really don't understand that. We lost two dogs within 6 months but we'd already got a puppy and shortly after the second one died we got another. So the house is still full of dogs, I have one curled up around my feet at this moment. Losing the first two was still painful but far, far less so doing it this way

CatherineJ

9,586 posts

272 months

Sunday 27th September 2009
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CommanderJameson said:
The best cure for the grief caused by losing a dog is to get another one.
Yes I agree. We have 2 and when the old boy goes, we will get another as our Labrador has never been without his older brother.