F***ing Fantastic. Now F***ing What????
F***ing Fantastic. Now F***ing What????
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depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Great.

She's gone and left me now.

Now I have nothing to live for.

st Life. st Job. st st st.

What a fking fantastic year 2009 has been.

I leave 2009 the same as I started it..just with less £££ and no business of my own......except that I have had the love of a good woman up until today.

fking great.

Seriously, what do I do??

Urban Sports

11,321 posts

232 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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depressed chap said:
Great.

She's gone and left me now.

Now I have nothing to live for.

st Life. st Job. st st st.

What a fking fantastic year 2009 has been.

I leave 2009 the same as I started it..just with less £££ and no business of my own......except that I have had the love of a good woman up until today.

fking great.

Seriously, what do I do??
Try not to get depressed?

Cactussed

5,363 posts

242 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Calm down, then go talk to her and sort it out.

Cara Van Man

29,977 posts

280 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Mate, nothing to live for? Rubbish.

Sit and make a list of all the good stuff in your life, family, friends etc.


Landlord

12,689 posts

286 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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What can you do? Mate - if you're at the bottom (which you seem to be) then pretty much anything.

Chuck it all in move somewhere else and start again? Get government help if you need to, financially. Take a path you've always wanted to/never dared to/never even thought about and see where life takes you. Roll them dice, as it were.

HRG

72,863 posts

268 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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I'm going to give you two phrases that will get you through life... And I'm not even going to charge you biggrin

"st happens"

"It'll pass"


Keep those in mind and there's nothing in life you can't get through biggrin

depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Cara Van Man said:
Mate, nothing to live for? Rubbish.

Sit and make a list of all the good stuff in your life, family, friends etc.
Family? wkers?

Friends? A handful...but most are too busy with their own st right now.

I would try a new business but no seed capital and need some regular income.

fkity fk fk

tuffer

9,009 posts

296 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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On the bright side, its Friday and the pubs are open......crack on.

depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Cactussed said:
Calm down, then go talk to her and sort it out.
I'm gunna try. I know she still loves me (she told me no more than a couple of hours ago - she left me late last night), and I still love her. Loads.

I dont know what to do to get her back. We've talked today. I guess I'll just have to give her some time and space and hope for the best.

I don't want to admit it, but I've spent the whole day sitting by the fire/in the bath crying and I can't do anything.

fk knows.

I've gone and fked up good and proper.

No idea what I'm gunna do if she doesn't take me back. She was the only thing I really looked forward to in my life

Cara Van Man

29,977 posts

280 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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It could be worse. Believe me.

A workmate of mine just had his 2 1/2 year old daughter die in her bed during the night for no reason.

You wanna see distraught? Come see this poor fker.

I know it's cliche, but there is always someone worse off than you who manages to survive.

I hope this is of some help to you wink

allister88

206 posts

236 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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You just need to starting putting your P in a V.

T_Pot

2,542 posts

226 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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get over it

you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?

try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you

and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger

depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Cara Van Man said:
It could be worse. Believe me.

A workmate of mine just had his 2 1/2 year old daughter die in her bed during the night for no reason.

You wanna see distraught? Come see this poor fker.

I know it's cliche, but there is always someone worse off than you who manages to survive.

I hope this is of some help to you wink
I know what that looks like. My brother died at 6 weeks old. In bed. For no reason.

I know there are always people worse off than me, but frankly I don't care (when it comes to my feelings). I feel st.

I had a very priviledged (sp?!) upbringing (loads of money around, latest electronics, new kit etc)...but that doesn't mean I'm happy and I know there are many people worse off than me.

Seriously, growing up, I would have traded everything I had to be happy. Now, I would trade everything I have for her...the only issue is I don't have anything...

depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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T_Pot said:
get over it

you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?

try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you

and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
Yes, I also know what that looks like. She was diabetic and regularly suffered medical problems because of it too.

Cara Van Man

29,977 posts

280 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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what have you done to precipitate her leaving?

Is it your depression that has driven her away?


Urban Sports

11,321 posts

232 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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depressed chap said:
T_Pot said:
get over it

you seriously think you have problems because you got dumped?

try speaking to the many many people on here with loved ones suffering ill health, that should put things into perspective for you

and yes i know, im heartless, i really dont have time for men crying on the net cause they got dumped,hardly shocking news if your that much of a whinger
Yes, I also know what that looks like. She was diabetic and regularly suffered medical problems because of it too.
eek

depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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Cara Van Man said:
what have you done to precipitate her leaving?

Is it your depression that has driven her away?
I think that has played a part in it...even though I was trying my hardest not to let it.

I think it all revolves around her relationship with her family (they are very close) and my jealousy of that.

SystemParanoia

14,343 posts

227 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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what was your business ?

why dont you have it anymore ?

depressed chap

Original Poster:

73 posts

202 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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anonymous said:
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The fatty is the only bit of that I wouldn't do!!

I live in hope that she will take me back before xmas.

I havn't had a happy xmas in longer than I can remember. I was really looking forward to a happy one this year.

st st st

Cara Van Man

29,977 posts

280 months

Friday 27th November 2009
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anonymous said:
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agreed.

I did this many years ago. works wonders.