the mrs wants me to move out

[tattymarbots]

but what are the legalities

is it a bad idea or do i need to get legal advice
main worry is losing my share of the house as she seems to think
we should sell it and she gets all the colateral (160k)
to buy a place for her and the kids and i get nowt

toot toot
steve

[BoRED S2upid]

Equal opportunities you get the house and the kids and she gets nowt.

[GlenMH]

FFS don't move out. Get some proper legal advice - NOW!

[Dakkon]

You don't have to move out and she cannot make you if you both own the property.

[Reidy10_0]

tattymarbots said:

but what are the legalities

is it a bad idea or do i need to get legal advice
main worry is losing my share of the house as she seems to think
we should sell it and she gets all the colateral (160k)
to buy a place for her and the kids and i get nowt

toot toot
steve

Sorry to hear your news.
Men always get the rough end of the deal mate.
Do not do the gentlemanly thing and give her everything she wants thats why lawyers sort this stuff out.
I am sure you can move out and if you keep paying your share of the mortgage then you will still have a claim on the house.

[Penny-lope]

Yeh right....who's name is the house under?

Why do so many women just assume they should get the house, or all the dosh from it's sale

Get your arse down to a solicitor, and claim your free hour!

[Shabs]

the law is not logical, don't move out until you get legal advice, and get that NOW. Sorry to hear about this, seems to happen all too regularly

[Dakkon]

Reidy10_0 said:

tattymarbots said:

but what are the legalities

is it a bad idea or do i need to get legal advice
main worry is losing my share of the house as she seems to think
we should sell it and she gets all the colateral (160k)
to buy a place for her and the kids and i get nowt

toot toot
steve

Sorry to hear your news.
Men always get the rough end of the deal mate.
Do not do the gentlemanly thing and give her everything she wants thats why lawyers sort this stuff out.
I am sure you can move out and if you keep paying your share of the mortgage then you will still have a claim on the house.

You mean he moves out and is paying for the house that his wife will start banging the next guy in.

[BoRED S2upid]

Penny-lope said:

Yeh right....who's name is the house under?

Why do so many women just assume they should get the house, or all the dosh from it's sale

Get your arse down to a solicitor, and claim your free hour!

And thats advice from a woman. See they aren't all gold diggers.

[GTIR]

toot toot indeed!

[Maycott]

I moved out in July....safe to say it was a very bad move

No matter how awful the atmosphere gets, stay in the property. If it wasn't for the support of a few good friends with spare rooms, I'd be in real bother

[Murray993]

If you move out you will lose quite a few rights plus you will incur new obligations for payments such as maintainence.

The best advice I can give is, REMEMEBR YOU ARE NOT FREINDS ANYMORE

[Lurking Lawyer]

Penny-lope said:

Get your arse down to a solicitor, and claim your free hour!

I don't disagree with the advice (as this area can be a minefield) but I keep seeing this reference to a supposed entitlement to "a free hour". There is no automatic entitlement. Some firms of solicitors do offer an initial consultation free of charge but they're not obliged to.

That said, I think it's quite common to do so in in the family law area so it's worth phoning around and asking. I'm sure at least one of your local firms will be prepared to offer some initial free advice.

[Penny-lope]

Lurking Lawyer said:

Penny-lope said:

Get your arse down to a solicitor, and claim your free hour!

I don't disagree with the advice (as this area can be a minefield) but I keep seeing this reference to a supposed entitlement to "a free hour". There is no automatic entitlement. Some firms of solicitors do offer an initial consultation free of charge but they're not obliged to.

That said, I think it's quite common to do so in in the family law area so it's worth phoning around and asking. I'm sure at least one of your local firms will be prepared to offer some initial free advice.

Yes I would think so, I could have went to at least half a dozen in my area.

[boobles]

Lurking Lawyer said:

Penny-lope said:

Get your arse down to a solicitor, and claim your free hour!

I don't disagree with the advice (as this area can be a minefield) but I keep seeing this reference to a supposed entitlement to "a free hour". There is no automatic entitlement. Some firms of solicitors do offer an initial consultation free of charge but they're not obliged to.

That said, I think it's quite common to do so in in the family law area so it's worth phoning around and asking. I'm sure at least one of your local firms will be prepared to offer some initial free advice.

So another words, don't come to me because i don't offer a free hour!

[Cara van man]

GTIR said:

toot toot indeed!

[tattymarbots]

that is the sound of it

cause she only works part time says i have to buy a house for her
i have no problem giving her 50 even 60-70% but cant buy anywhere
here for less than 140 so after fees etc leaves me with nothing

house is now in joint names but i have made all the payments
had a house before i met her

kids are 16 and 12
realy want them to stay in the house if i go to interest only mortgage
for 5 years then we can sell it when youngest is older and ready to
go to uni/college

toot toot
steve
ps anyone wanna buy a focus rs or ducati 996s

Edited by tattymarbots on Wednesday 9th December 13:38

[Famous Graham]

boobles said:

Lurking Lawyer said:

Penny-lope said:

Get your arse down to a solicitor, and claim your free hour!

I don't disagree with the advice (as this area can be a minefield) but I keep seeing this reference to a supposed entitlement to "a free hour". There is no automatic entitlement. Some firms of solicitors do offer an initial consultation free of charge but they're not obliged to.

That said, I think it's quite common to do so in in the family law area so it's worth phoning around and asking. I'm sure at least one of your local firms will be prepared to offer some initial free advice.

So another words, don't come to me because i don't offer a free hour!

He spends it playing MW2

Edited by Famous Graham on Wednesday 9th December 13:35

[Famous Graham]

tattymarbots said:

cause she only works part time says i have to buy a house for her

Load of rubbish - nothing to stop her renting. Or moving in with friends/parents. Stay in the house, get legal advice.

Edited by Famous Graham on Wednesday 9th December 13:36

[Cara van man]

to be honest, you'd get less of a sentence if you killed her. it may be cheaper in the long run also.

that is obviously a joke, however it is probably true

Edited by Cara van man on Wednesday 9th December 13:36