Why are people "offended" so easily...
Why are people "offended" so easily...
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TheCarpetCleaner

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7,294 posts

232 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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I find it confusing at best, and quite frightening at how pathetic we are at worst...

On the news recently, there have been a couple of stories about people swearing on air. Rage against the machine being one, George Michael being the other.

Now I consider myself to be (relatively...) normal. I just cannot get wound up about swearing. I do not swear much myself, and certainly not in front of customers or in public as it is not "socially acceptable". However, I simply can't get worked up about it if someone else swears. It is just a word, how you process it is your problem.

So, reading one of the articles on the George Michael occasion, and it seems that the BBC executive practically had a group wk in stumbling over themselves to apologise again, and again, and again, then after the broadcast apologising again. Almost like they started, continued and ended world war 3 and killed billions in the process.

Who here gets wound up by swearing (that is not directed at you), and why?





B.J.W

5,875 posts

245 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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A well meaning (or not, as it may transpire) BBC Radio 5 invites Rage Against The Machine to perform live on its breakfast show, no doubt extolling the virtues of balanced media reporting in the run up to the race to be Christmas Number 1.

They are asked not to swear when performing 'killing in the name of'

rolleyes

And then act or serious when the response is something along the lines of "fk you I won't do what you told me"

Interestingly, I wonder if the BBC were aware of the true meaning behind the track and its lyrics?

T89 Callan

8,422 posts

223 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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They aren't 'offended' they just like complaining.

Neil H

15,418 posts

281 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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Well I don't have kids but I wouldn't be to impressed with having to explain what 'fk you' means, or find out they'd been repeating it after hearing it on morning radio.

That's really the only mitigation I can think of though.

White-Noise

5,500 posts

278 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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Firing squad

schmalex

13,616 posts

236 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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To bw fair, if you have kids young enough to have to explain fk You away to, it is pretty easy to quickly make a suitable explaination up.

The tricky bit is stopping the kiddies from repeating it. This is generally achieved through liberal use of fear.

Kermit power

29,622 posts

243 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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I'd get somewhat hacked off if Cbeebies presenters started mouthing off whilst my kids were watching, but other than that I don't see the issue.

LukeBird

17,170 posts

239 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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T89 Callan said:
They aren't 'offended' they just like complaining.
Indeed.

Get them a job!

Simpo Two

92,812 posts

295 months

Thursday 17th December 2009
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Depends.

I was happily surfing with the TV on in the backgorund when my concentration was broken by a character interspersing every sentence with 'fking'. It wasn't Gordon Ramsey, it was just a serial, and the 'fkings' were cleraly put in by a scriptwriter looking for kicks.

So, because it was so stupidly unnecessary, and yes, my educated middle-class sensibilities were offended, I lobbed in a complaint to the BBC. I got a reply saying that it was after the watershed, so basically tough, and no words were banned on the BBC. I replied saying that I never seemed to hear the words n*gger or raghead on the BBC, which although they are interpreted as derogatory, do not offend me. However, call someone with a posh voice a 'toff' and it's open season...

fking lefties.

Google [bot]

6,828 posts

211 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Australia does this right at least; just say 'language warning on this if you're offended turn over' before having all manner of swearing at any time of the day.

EDLT

15,421 posts

236 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Never been into General Gassing then? People take it as a personal attack if you imply that Rovers can be unreliable at times.

jatinder

1,667 posts

243 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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They are blabla

james t

33 posts

207 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Google [bot] said:
Australia does this right at least; just say 'language warning on this if you're offended turn over' before having all manner of swearing at any time of the day.
If only that was the attitude taken with other things over here...

But even those warnings don't seem to stop some people complaining about it.

deviant

4,316 posts

240 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Google [bot] said:
Australia does this right at least; just say 'language warning on this if you're offended turn over' before having all manner of swearing at any time of the day.
I like the one on Tripple J that goes something like "If you are easily offended switch off now...because this song contains words like st, cock, balls and staffordshire terrier" hehe

To be honest swearing doesnt bother me but I hate when its used out of context and unnecessarily in films. Its like they are being used just to look cool or get cheap laughs.

GTIR

24,741 posts

296 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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As has been said before I think it's not really about people being offended it's good for nothing dullards who like to complain. The same people who have massive chips on there shoulders or are parking wardens. (or Highways agency officers) smile

dilbert

7,741 posts

261 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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TheCarpetCleaner said:
I find it confusing at best, and quite frightening at how pathetic we are at worst...

On the news recently, there have been a couple of stories about people swearing on air. Rage against the machine being one, George Michael being the other.

Now I consider myself to be (relatively...) normal. I just cannot get wound up about swearing. I do not swear much myself, and certainly not in front of customers or in public as it is not "socially acceptable". However, I simply can't get worked up about it if someone else swears. It is just a word, how you process it is your problem.

So, reading one of the articles on the George Michael occasion, and it seems that the BBC executive practically had a group wk in stumbling over themselves to apologise again, and again, and again, then after the broadcast apologising again. Almost like they started, continued and ended world war 3 and killed billions in the process.

Who here gets wound up by swearing (that is not directed at you), and why?
What we need is the "Sex Pistols"

NEVER MIND THE fkING bkS

The trouble is that "New Punk" is "Soft Punk".



Wikipedia said:
2008 Duffy incident

At the 2008 MoJo awards ceremony, Welsh singer Duffy attempted to say hello to Lydon when, according to her; "I was literally slammed against the wall, pinned by his arm at my throat. He called me a ." She spent the whole night crying over the incident and felt awful about it for the following week.[22] Other reports indicate a slightly different scenario, that Lydon "was being interviewed and he had his back to door and she banged into him and then grabbed him. He then turned round in no uncertain terms to tell her to back off him".[23] Lydon later claimed he hadn't realised who Duffy was, saying; "people are trying to pin something on me. I don't know who this Duffy person is, or why she'd want to get publicity from this. I was doing an interview and she came up behind me - I didn't see anything. I’ve been with my wife for 30 years and I've been brought up to be polite and have respect for people, especially women."[24]

Adam Sherwin of the Times, who witnessed the attack on Duffy, wrote about the incident, giving an account which differs from that offered by Lydon, but placing the blame for the physical assault on John's minder rather than Lydon himself.[25]
Edited by dilbert on Friday 18th December 02:05

AJS-

15,366 posts

266 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Are people offended so easily? Or is the BBC just quite slick at self promotion by making stories about itself and how daringly controversial they are.

scorp

8,783 posts

259 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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I don't think anyone gets offended in reality. It is media outlets feigning the appearance of an outraged nation in order to make themselves appear more interesting.

Unfortunately in the last 12 years or so, we've had a govt who's agenda is driven almost exclusively by what media thinks, hence the age of hysterical PC and the easily offended.

drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

241 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Most people aren't offended, it's just that there is a paranoia about offending anyone at all. So of you're a black Irish wolfhound, there is bountiful payout awaiting you on the grounds of ethnic discrimination, colour discrimintation and the fact that you were violently set upon by the invading wolves and you need cash to get over the fact you've been opressed by the invaders.


Stu R

21,648 posts

245 months

Friday 18th December 2009
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Because they're s who like nothing better than to whinge. It's them massaging their sense of self importance and validating their otherwise meaningless, mediocre existence.

Me? I couldn't give a fk.