Keeping a dog at home all day ?
Keeping a dog at home all day ?
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nammynake

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2,658 posts

203 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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I would dearly love to get a dog, but I have reservations about leaving it at home whilst I am at work. I leave around 8:30am and return any time between 5 and 6pm. I've generally had the view that it's unfair to leave a dog on it's own for that amount of time - they are pack animals by nature. What are your thoughts? I guess it's impossible to answer fully, unless you can read your Dog's mind...

Mobile Chicane

22,010 posts

242 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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I wouldn't. They can be destructive / annoy neighbours with constant barking.

A kennel owner near me offers a daytime 'doggy creche', so something like that could be worth investigating.

Alternatively, do you have a neighbour who might like doggy company during the day?

robodonkey2005

311 posts

236 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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Don't do it! Not fair on the dog. Get a cat!

Lord Flathead

1,288 posts

209 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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If you could train it to the ironing and use the hoover and it would make a lot of sense as it would be more use than my missus.

The dog doesn't use a credit card but I still have to run round picking up her st so there's not a lot in it.

RobDickinson

31,343 posts

284 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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'tis the reason I dont have a dog.

Out of the house 7:30 till 5 every week day and I dont think thats fair on the pog at all.

Plus we can leave the cats for a weekend and they cope, cant leave the dog, and often cant take it away either, so that would mean more kennels which I am not keen on either.

Cock Womble

29,908 posts

260 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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nammynake said:
I would dearly love to get a dog
So would I, but a combination of variable start/finish times at work and the fact that I live in a second-floor flat means it's unthinkable.

Don't do it.

kVA

2,460 posts

235 months

Sunday 24th January 2010
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Definite NO for a single dog...

However, if you get two AND have someone check on them at least once while you are out, it MAY be OK (depending on breed, age, temperament, etc..) Dogs actually sleep a lot - especially if they are properly tired, but should never be left for more than about 4-5 hours without the opportunity to stretch their legs, do their business and have a game.

There are quite a few dog-sitters around these days - we used to pay a lovely lady (in every possible way wink phwoar) to pop in twice a day and give the dogs a run. Worked fine until a neighbour started banging on our fence to make the dogs bark and then went round all the other neighbours asking them to complain! Caught him at it one day (he thought I was out as my car had been picked up by the garage for a service), but the damage had been done and the OH gave up her job to keep the Council happy (she hated the commute anyway).

AyBee

11,330 posts

232 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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Depends like the others have said on what time you actually leave and get back and how much time you will spend with them when you get back. If you're happy to give them a walk, lots of attention etc morning and evening then there are dogs which are perfectly happy pottering around the house/sleeping all day. My parents are teachers and their dogs have been on their own, although obviously it's only half 8 - 4 or 5, although there are two of them to keep each other company. They get on fine and spend most of the day lounging around, even when me or my brothers are around hehe

Rollcage

11,345 posts

222 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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In those circumstances, I wouldn't.

A change in circumstances meant I had to leave mine when I was at work, but as I had two and neither was a young dog, I felt it would not be a hardship for them. I had also had them for some time by that point, so they were pretty settled anyway.

They were never a problem, but I wouldn't get a new dog(s) at the moment because I cant expect them to deal with it in the same way, mores the pity.

R60EST

2,364 posts

212 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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It depends how dedicated you are. If you are willing to get up really early and take it for a good run (off lead fetching ball or chasing birds / rabbits ) for about an hour before work it will be fine for 4/5 hrs or so. Then you will need a reliable dog walker / sitter to come and spend an hour or so walking , feeding and playing with it around lunchtime.

As soon as you get home at 5 before you do anything else take it out again for another good walk / run.

It seems a lot of work if you're not used to it but it's very rewarding once you get into a routine.

A dog receiving this sort of attention will soon accept the routine and should be no trouble , as others have said it will happily sleep after exercise and a good meal.




zac510

5,546 posts

236 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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I have found that older dogs are more patient and able to cope with long periods alone so maybe if you got a rehomed dog that's about 5 years old with a known temperament he/she will be fine.

A puppy - no way!

off_again

13,917 posts

264 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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Older ones might be fine with being left for extended periods of time, but if you are looking at a younger one or even a puppy its just not worth it. There is pretty much always someone around at home so we are OK here - two kids at School, so out at 8.30 and then home again at 3.00 at worst. Around 1/4 of those days there is someone around all day anyway and I haven't been away for a while, so I am at home all day anyway.

We did it now because it made sense for the next few years. But we have a routine that means its fine. I doubt that we would have had a dog if it wasn't for this.

soad

34,673 posts

206 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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Personally I wouldn't leave dog alone for that long. Poor animal will get lonely & stressed out. Not to mention bored, could cause a lot of damage to the house/furniture too.

omgus

7,305 posts

205 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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I would love a dog but i work to much, we have a massive garden, easy dog walking routes and people who can pop round during the day, but i'm out for a minimum of 11hours at work so that still isn't fair on the dog.

If you can't give a dog enough time rescure a cat, we have two. I would rather have a dog but the cats do keep the local rodent population down. biggrin

10 Pence Short

32,880 posts

247 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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Buy yourself a long-term disability allowancer. They usually come with a dog, Sky telly and a copious supply of tax payer funded beer. Should be good for your house contents premium, too- they're sat at home watching telly all day in between trips to Spar for own-brand strong lager. At night they're too p*ssed to get in your way and can probably sleep with the dog.

Edited by 10 Pence Short on Monday 25th January 14:46

matt1269

598 posts

204 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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We've got two dogs and they don't mind being left at home when everyone is out. They also don't destroy anything as these freaky cat folk would lead you to believe!

beano500

20,854 posts

305 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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Take the dog to work with you.....

58warren

589 posts

209 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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Get a Tibetan terrier, they never seem to want to walk anywhere most of the day and are quite happy to amble out for a short walk in the evening. They have a great temparement too! They look a bit like a large teddy bear.

beano500

20,854 posts

305 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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58warren said:
They look a bit like a large teddy bear.
yikes So does Boris Johnson - but you wouldn't give him house room, would you!?

A911DOM

4,084 posts

265 months

Monday 25th January 2010
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:broken record mode: Get a long dog - ie Whippet, greyhound etc from Rescue!

Most of them will happily rest for more hours than there are in the day, take them for a walk in the morning before you leave, and then take them out for at least 35-45 minutes in the evening.

Im not condoning having a dog then leaving it to sit by itself the whole time, but some dogs can and will deal with being alone for longer than others.

I suspect if you got yourself a collie and left it for most of everyday it would drive itself and you bonkers with its destruction in the house - But some dogs are very happy to curl up and take it easy.

If you have someone who could visit them during the day to allow them a pee break and some company for a while then even better.

A word of warning though - Most rescue homes wont house a dog with someone whos going to be at work all day, everyday - Speak to them and see. Maybe even go and help out at your local rescue centre at the weekend and see if you're still as keen?