Baby Monitor Advice
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Borris-Bear

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818 posts

269 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Our baby is due in a couple of months and ive been given the task of finding a baby monitor.

I have found this one which monitors the babys movements.

Or theres this one which has a baby talk back function.

Cant find any that can do both. Has anyone found one or both of these features useful in a bay monitor? any recommendations?

rhinochopig

17,932 posts

222 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Get the nanny to sit and watch the baby - that's what you pay them for surely?

Puggit

49,465 posts

272 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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As the father of two (aged 1 and 3) - I ask why you need to monitor their movement?

Just use a simple sound monitor and hook up a webcam if you're really worried. Then hook up the webcam as a security cam.

(you could always re-programme the mat to detect movement and place it under the door mat I suppose...)

Edited by Puggit on Tuesday 9th March 11:05

sday12

5,066 posts

235 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Don't waste your money, we had one (£30) an never really used it. If they make a noise, you'll hear it!

Playing on peoples insecurities IMHO.

Rocksteadyeddie

7,971 posts

251 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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They will make your life miserable. Children do not need "checking on" every time they fart. We are 3 doors, and a long way from our daughter. If she wants us to hear her we do, but we don't get disturbed every time she decides to have a 10 second whinge.

Amateurish

8,261 posts

246 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Don't bother - unless you live in a mansion, you'll hear them cry.

LivingTheDream

1,768 posts

203 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Don't bother with either of these features is my advice.

1. Babies move a lot, it's normal. They also stop moving when they're settled. If you use the movement sensor - you'll be checking every five minutes.

2. If you feel the need to talk back to the baby then you'll feel the need to go and see them as well - indeed, if they are upset, you'll need to comfort them with more than a bit of walkie talkie chat.

Just my opinion - but you only need to be able to hear if they are upset.

Puggit

49,465 posts

272 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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grumbledoak

32,405 posts

257 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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We use these, on mute, and have never even tried to 'Talk Back':

(Tomy Walkabout Classic)

As said, the little one will make itself heard when it wants to, and you'll be on a hair-trigger for a while anyway.

Borris-Bear

Original Poster:

818 posts

269 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Maybe we're being overly worried but as its our first want to make sure we get everything right.

The movement one is supposedly for sleep apnoea it apparently is so sensitive it picks up baby breathing it will give an alarm if bby stops breathing.

rhinochopig

17,932 posts

222 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Borris-Bear said:
Maybe we're being overly worried but as its our first want to make sure we get everything right.

The movement one is supposedly for sleep apnoea it apparently is so sensitive it picks up baby breathing it will give an alarm if bby stops breathing.
Go with the walkabout. If you go for full on telemetry you may as well take it in turns to watch the baby through the night. Very easy to become paranoid!

sday12

5,066 posts

235 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Borris-Bear said:
we're being overly worried
Understandable, it's your first.

If you awake, just place your hand on their back, and you'll feel their lungs breathing, contented, go back to sleep.

Easier to say than to do, but believe me it's the only way or you WILL drive yourself nuts.

HundredthIdiot

4,477 posts

308 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Borris-Bear said:
Maybe we're being overly worried but as its our first want to make sure we get everything right.

The movement one is supposedly for sleep apnoea it apparently is so sensitive it picks up baby breathing it will give an alarm if bby stops breathing.
It is normal to spend the first few months thinking your baby is going to spontaneously die. That doesn't make it likely.

Baby monitors are handy, but we used ours much less with the second child than with the first. You should try not to leap up every time they make a sound (or don't).

Also, try not to obsess over making everything dark and quiet for the baby. It should learn to sleep with ambient light and noise - this will make travelling much, much easier. That said, I am now able to move around my house like a ninja, which might prove a useful skill someday.

Kuroblack350

1,388 posts

224 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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I think they are very useful, as you can make a more informed judgement of when they need attention, and when you can leave them to manage themselves.

We looked at stacks of reviews and eventually went for a BT one, the 150 I think. It's very good, excellent sound quality, plus talkback, nightlight, songs etc. Plus you can control it from the reciever - meaning you can switch the nightlight on and play some soothing tunes remotely. (or mp3's if you wish)

Get one, they are useful. We don't have a massive house, but when he's fast asleep upstairs, it only takes the TV, washer (it never gets switched off!) and general chat not to hear them until they become pretty distressed.

It's only £60 at the end of the day smile

Kuroblack350

1,388 posts

224 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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HundredthIdiot said:
That said, I am now able to move around my house like a ninja, which might prove a useful skill someday.
laugh not just me then

Puggit

49,465 posts

272 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Kuroblack350 said:
I think they are very useful, as you can make a more informed judgement of when they need attention, and when you can leave them to manage themselves.

We looked at stacks of reviews and eventually went for a BT one, the 150 I think. It's very good, excellent sound quality, plus talkback, nightlight, songs etc. Plus you can control it from the reciever - meaning you can switch the nightlight on and play some soothing tunes remotely. (or mp3's if you wish)

Get one, they are useful. We don't have a massive house, but when he's fast asleep upstairs, it only takes the TV, washer (it never gets switched off!) and general chat not to hear them until they become pretty distressed.

It's only £60 at the end of the day smile
+1 for the monitor and advice yes

clonmult

10,529 posts

233 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Kuroblack350 said:
I think they are very useful, as you can make a more informed judgement of when they need attention, and when you can leave them to manage themselves.

We looked at stacks of reviews and eventually went for a BT one, the 150 I think. It's very good, excellent sound quality, plus talkback, nightlight, songs etc. Plus you can control it from the reciever - meaning you can switch the nightlight on and play some soothing tunes remotely. (or mp3's if you wish)

Get one, they are useful. We don't have a massive house, but when he's fast asleep upstairs, it only takes the TV, washer (it never gets switched off!) and general chat not to hear them until they become pretty distressed.

It's only £60 at the end of the day smile
I agree. We picked up a relatively basic colour video monitor. Most of the time you can hear the little one when they disturb, but having the video gives you some peace of mind.

And it can be quite entertaining, seeing how they move around in the bed at night. Seeing them sitting up saying "mumumumumum". Its more entertaining watching him in bed rolling around than it is watching most TV programs in the evening.

Fish

4,061 posts

306 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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Buy the bog basic with the flashy lights that react to noise. You won't use talkback. DO NOT get the one with temperature alarm or movement stuff, it will forever be going off.

They are useful if you want to sit in the garden and the baby is in the house and you might otherwise not hear them.

Also when you are in the early panic stages you can listen to there breathing through it with the volume up.

Gusanita

365 posts

214 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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I would get a cheap one. You don't know if you're going to use it as you can't determine the temperament of your baby or how you'll cope. Then if you feel you need something else you can buy one then. I think a lot of parents go out and buy everything before the baby is born without knowing what to expect and then end up regretting it.

BUT, lots of the mums I know love the Angelcare monitor or ones with a video function. However, I would second the view that you shouldn't get blackout blinds or fuss too much about making noise. I have come from a family of children who learnt to sleep anywhere and it's been the best thing I've done with my daughter.

monthefish

20,467 posts

255 months

Tuesday 9th March 2010
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sday12 said:
Don't waste your money, we had one (£30) an never really used it. If they make a noise, you'll hear it!
This pi$$es me off.

"I don't need one therefore no-one else does either"

Have you seen the OP's house? Do you know their particular circumstances?



Kuroblack350 said:
I think they are very useful, as you can make a more informed judgement of when they need attention, and when you can leave them to manage themselves.
Exactly.

Edited by monthefish on Tuesday 9th March 11:52