Life Goals
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Ecurie Ecosse

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4,812 posts

246 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Was just mulling over how my life goals have changed as I have got older.

Back in my teens, they seemed to revolve around material items, such as cars and watches. I never really had a career goal - I've just worked on the premise that if I work hard my career should take care of itself.

Now I am in my 30s, I don't focus on material items as goals so much. I still enjoy buying nice things, but they are no longer the be all and end all.

My goal now is to be happy, and for my friends and family to be happy.

Have any of you experienced such a change in thoughts?


Rocksteadyeddie

7,971 posts

255 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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yes I think this is standard form.

ewenm

28,506 posts

273 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Maturity.

Younger, less mature (mentally), we often try to show our success and status though shiny toys. Older (more mature, usually wink), we are more secure in ourselves so no need to try to show everyone our success.


Edited by ewenm on Sunday 21st March 18:21

Cock Womble

29,908 posts

258 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Earlier this week, I believe my mid-life crisis kicked in.

I now have an overwhelming desire to own a Porsche 911 (964) Carrera 4 in Guards red (black leather interior with red piping).

It will be mine. Oh yes, it will be mine.


Ferg

15,242 posts

285 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Schwing.

Rocksteadyeddie

7,971 posts

255 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Cock Womble said:
Earlier this week, I believe my mid-life crisis kicked in.

I now have an overwhelming desire to own a Porsche 911 (964) Carrera 4 in Guards red (black leather interior with red piping).

It will be mine. Oh yes, it will be mine.

nono That's not a mid life crisis. That's just sensible.

Cock Womble

29,908 posts

258 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Rocksteadyeddie said:
nono That's not a mid life crisis. That's just sensible.
That's good to hear. This is the first time I've had an ambition and it takes some getting used to.

anonymous-user

82 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Definately my life goals have shifted slightly, when i was younger i wanted to be the best at everything, and, as i get older i realise i am just happy to be able to breathe and all my body parts are in the right place and work

ewenm

28,506 posts

273 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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musclecarmad said:
my aim is to go out as often as possible and never say no to a night out or a fun time and to stay single forever and to meet new people from around the world and live life to the max.

I don't give a st about material possessions they are meaningless.
How old are you? (Just a question, not a judgement wink)

plg101

4,106 posts

238 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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My life goals have shifted... still enjoy some material things, but decided to take a 2 month leave of absence from work this summer to walk across Switzerland - via the high routes. Probably wont be able to do it when I'm at retirement, so might as well do it now!

spikeyhead

20,213 posts

225 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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fifteen years ago my goal on a Friday night was to drink more than my mates.

Now my life goal is to retire in a couple of years, potter along running a little business i have planned that should only take a couple of days of work each week and enjoy life's more gentle pleasures.

However, fast cars keep putting off the retirement.

working class

8,988 posts

215 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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musclecarmad said:
my aim is to go out as often as possible and never say no to a night out or a fun time and to stay single forever and to meet new people from around the world and live life to the max.

I don't give a st about material possessions they are meaningless.
Have you just come out of a relationship that ended badly?

anonymous-user

82 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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GTFO of this Country and start a new life smile.

Edited by Simps on Sunday 21st March 21:28

tjg123

508 posts

208 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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to be happy

NiceCupOfTea

25,578 posts

279 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Have a good time, all of the time.

Rooster

2,241 posts

265 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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My goal is to earn lots of money and enjoy myself.

Negative Creep

26,002 posts

255 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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Not bothered about loads of money, as long as I am comfortable. I want my own house, wife and kids doing something I enjoy and staying in New Zealand.



As to how I achieve this however.....................

HereBeMonsters

14,180 posts

210 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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tjg123 said:
to be happy
You are the Dalai Lama. AICMFP.


sprint355

1,332 posts

255 months

Sunday 21st March 2010
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HereBeMonsters said:
tjg123 said:
to be happy
You are the Dalai Lama. AICMFP.
Getting there, can I be Dalai next time round?

The Char

382 posts

213 months

Monday 22nd March 2010
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Finish my VW Derby resto and get rid of the rest of my VW spares.
Get a place on a teacher training course.
Travel again (drove to Mongolia last summer). Maybe Oz for Xmas to see my best friend.
Work my way up in teaching when I get back. Eventual Headteacher or University lecturer is my goal.
Hopefully a house somewhere nice with a big garage once I can afford it.
Have beautiful kids with superb manners. (and good taste in cars would be a bonus)