Mad or malicious behaviour??
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The GF has over the last 18 months or so been going through a rather acrimonious divorce. The financial stuff was sorted out late last year. She has now bought her new house & moved in around a month or so ago.
Now the reason she'd had enough of the ex was his controlling & from time to time aggressive behaviour. The ex cannot stand the sight of me & refuses to be anywhere near my presence. It's almost as if the red mist comes down when he so much as senses my presence. He blames me for his marrige breakdown, when it was dead already caused by his behaviour.
So given this what does he do? Well it would now appear that he has decided to buy the house which backs onto my gf's. He also announced he was going to put a gate in the fence so the kids could shuffle back & forwards between the 2 houses.
Right now I can't work out if he's taken leave of his senses or if he has some malicious intent afoot. Unfortunately I can't see there's a lot that can be done to stop him buying the house as it's clearly no crime. But this cannot be normal behaviour can it?
Now the reason she'd had enough of the ex was his controlling & from time to time aggressive behaviour. The ex cannot stand the sight of me & refuses to be anywhere near my presence. It's almost as if the red mist comes down when he so much as senses my presence. He blames me for his marrige breakdown, when it was dead already caused by his behaviour.
So given this what does he do? Well it would now appear that he has decided to buy the house which backs onto my gf's. He also announced he was going to put a gate in the fence so the kids could shuffle back & forwards between the 2 houses.
Right now I can't work out if he's taken leave of his senses or if he has some malicious intent afoot. Unfortunately I can't see there's a lot that can be done to stop him buying the house as it's clearly no crime. But this cannot be normal behaviour can it?
GT03ROB said:
So given this what does he do? Well it would now appear that he has decided to buy the house which backs onto my gf's. He also announced he was going to put a gate in the fence so the kids could shuffle back & forwards between the 2 houses.
He's quite mad. I'd go to the vendors and suggest upping the price. If the guy's that bonkers he'll pay way over the odds.
Bill said:
GT03ROB said:
So given this what does he do? Well it would now appear that he has decided to buy the house which backs onto my gf's. He also announced he was going to put a gate in the fence so the kids could shuffle back & forwards between the 2 houses.
He's quite mad. I'd go to the vendors and suggest upping the price. If the guy's that bonkers he'll pay way over the odds.Then spend the money on enlarging the window and windowsill of the master bedroom at the back of the house.
GT03ROB said:
He also announced he was going to put a gate in the fence so the kids could shuffle back & forwards between the 2 houses.
Right now I can't work out if he's taken leave of his senses or if he has some malicious intent afoot. Unfortunately I can't see there's a lot that can be done to stop him buying the house as it's clearly no crime. But this cannot be normal behaviour can it?
Not normal for a father to want to be near his children?Right now I can't work out if he's taken leave of his senses or if he has some malicious intent afoot. Unfortunately I can't see there's a lot that can be done to stop him buying the house as it's clearly no crime. But this cannot be normal behaviour can it?
From the perspective of a parent I'd say it was pretty normal.
It might not be all about you, you know.
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