Have you ever saved a life?
Have you ever saved a life?
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Arese

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21,365 posts

217 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Morbidheads - Death Matters

There are two threads currently running regarding killing people and seeing dead bodies. I know they are serious threads and probably help a lot of people, but they are depressing to read on the first day back in work.

So come on, let's talk about saving lives and celebrate how good we are for doing so.

Myself, no I've never saved a life. But I know we have a few paramedics and the like on PH, so let's hear some heart-warming stories.

Over to you...

Jaykaybi

3,494 posts

251 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Twice. First was diving for a kid who'd come off a banana boat, second was driving to (VERY quickly) and forcing entry into someone's house, and indeed her room, before she'd taken many of the assortment of pills set out in front of her.

HereBeMonsters

14,180 posts

212 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Yep. Walking home from a very drunk night out when I was a student (Jesters in Southampton for those who know) a friend of mine walked right into the road in front of a bus doing about 40 mph. I grabbed her arm and yanked her back to the kerb. We both fell over and had grazes and bruises, and of course she shouted "what the fk are you doing!?" very loudly at me.
Was only when others (friends and randoms) rushed over to congratulate me that she realised what I had done.

We were both a bit shaken up, so in the next bar she bought us both some large whiskies, then Jagermeister, then we went to a house party...then at 3am I woke up under a tree on Southampton Common with a badger nibbling at my shoelaces. Phone was dead, no idea how to get home, I aimed for the Uni campus, fell into that little river by the Doctors' Surgery and woke up some ducks. Uni security found me and pointed me in the right direction for home.

So all in all, a great night.

pimpin gimp

3,319 posts

230 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Sort of, When I worked in a video shop about 8 years ago a guy collapsed outside - too much drink IIRC. he was turning blue, had pissed himself, was unconcious and was dribbling a lot.

A guy brought him into the shop, I called the ambulance service and talked the friend through what he had to do to sort the guy out. Ambulance arrived and took over after what seemed like an age. They were outside the shop for about 20 minutes, from what I gather this means that the attempts were unsuccesful, though no-one ever confirmed either way.

So I may have helped save a life, or I may have failed at helping to save a life, not really sure to be honest...

chunkymonkey71

13,178 posts

228 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Been told a few times that I've "changed" people's lives but not saved them.

I suppose its related to my job though. I don't really change lives, I help people to come to their own conclusions about what they need to do... and what support is out there.

NoelWatson

11,710 posts

272 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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HereBeMonsters said:
Yep. Walking home from a very drunk night out when I was a student (Jesters in Southampton for those who know)
What year was that?

HereBeMonsters

14,180 posts

212 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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NoelWatson said:
HereBeMonsters said:
Yep. Walking home from a very drunk night out when I was a student (Jesters in Southampton for those who know)
What year was that?
Oh God, about 2003 I think.

Weirdly, this weekend I was at the girl in question's Wedding. Not a word of thanks from Bride or Groom!

Mazda Baiter

37,069 posts

218 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Twice when I was a lifeguard. The first time I was handed a blue baby and was told "make him better". The baby had choked on his own dribble. A finger in the mouth to clear it out and a tilt of the head was all it took. As soon as the first breath was inhaled the colour returned to him.

The second was more difficult. A kid (about 12)had been given 50p to get a drink. Instead of holding the money in his hand, he had put it in his mouth. Something had happened to make him splutter and the 50p had got stuck at the back of his throat. It ended up with me suspending the kid upside down by his ankles and the pool manager putting his fingers into the kids mouth and trying to get the coin out. Eventually, after what seemed like hours, the kids gag reflex kicked in (probably by the fingers down the back of his throat) and he threw up the coin along with his breakfast. By that point I was shattered and I might have dropped him on his head (in his sick)when I put him down. paperbag

Superhoop1904

563 posts

238 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Whilst on holiday a few years back, walking back to the pool from our apartment a saw a toddler fall in the big pool. Straight in and pulled him out, the lad was no older than 3.5 years. He had wondered away from his mum while she was sun bathing and listening to music.

Not saying the worse would of happened if I hadn't of seen him but still felt pretty good.

Good fun drying out the euros I had in my pocket at the time too hehe

spanna123

3,737 posts

206 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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About 6/7 years a go I saved my little cousin - who was about 6 at he time and could not swim - from drowning whilst on holiday in Corfu.

We booked a private Villa for all of us. I was about 13 at the time, just come back from the town and was going to mess about by the pool for the afternoon. My cousin quickly got changed and ran out to the pool and jumped straght into the deep end, without his bloody armbands on. I was the only one outside at the time and noticed what he had done, jumped in after him and pulled him out of the water.

After this he was a bit shook up and he didn't forget to put his armbands on for the rest of the holiday.

robinhood21

31,166 posts

262 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Possibly. Many years ago, fishing the old Brewery Pond, Hadley Common. Pulled a toddler out of the pond. The mother, sat near by feeding her other baby had not heard the splash of child falling in. Me, drops fishing-rod, with possibly the largest fish in the lake on other end wink rushes over and manages to pull the child out without getting too wet in the process. Mother was quite shocked when I returned the child.

Steamer

14,187 posts

243 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Saved my 'then girlfriend' from drowning in a pool.

She still left me.



...with hindsight it may well have been me that caused her to start drowning in the first place

Dibble

13,282 posts

270 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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About half a dozen or so, from the roofs of various multistorey car parks. Some by talking to them, some by grabbing and grappling.

There's probably one a week gets reported in the County I work in getting rescued from one of the motorway overbridges.

Less likely now though, as it all has to be risk assessed, and the negotitors are supposed to be brought in, rather than the officers on the ground doing the talking.

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

223 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Was at a friends summer party, and saw a toddler struggling in the hottub....not sure if I saved his life, but his mum was rather grateful.


Pints

18,451 posts

224 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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My parents had a swimming pool built and the day after it had been filled with water (but before the safety gates had been installed) my baby brother, who was a toddler at the time, fell in. I pulled him out by his hair. I was only about 10 at the time.

mobi

1,663 posts

212 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Am I the only person on here shocked by the amount of near misses involving kids and water!!!

RB Will

10,874 posts

270 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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I helped a chap shove his dad's wheelchair up a muddy bank at Castle Combe yesterday.

soad

34,687 posts

206 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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mobi said:
Am I the only person on here shocked by the amount of near misses involving kids and water!!!
Perhaps - my cousin almost drowned in the river, i had some moments too.

Cupid Stunt

528 posts

200 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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No but in a few weeks I'm planning to give blood so that should help & I'm also hoping to do a first aid course in the near future so maybe I'll have the knowledge to do so (even though I hope I never need to)

NAS

2,589 posts

261 months

Tuesday 6th April 2010
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Kinda. Depends on how you look at it.

4 days ago I was MTBing with a mate. At one point we had to cross 2 seperate streets to get to a different bicycle lane. Now usually, if the first light's green, it mean the second one is green as well. This is the case 99 times out of 100, not however, last Friday. The 2nd one was red.

My mate was riding in front of me, and on automatic pilot crossed the second street. Because of a truck waiting at the light to go right blocking his view he didn't immediately notice a honking great bus (going straight over the intersection) on the street coming towards him with about 40mph. Me, at about 20 yards behind him, did see it. At this point I start screaming/yelling etc. Not even fixed words (too much panic) but this means he stops immediately near the end of the truck (still waiting to go right), looks at me with a look saying : "Dude, WTF?" and then is just a tad startled from a bus missing his nose by 4 inches.

I swear I saw the accident already happening in front of me. Messed up feeling.

He later on thanked me with "if it wasn't for you, I'd be in a wheelchair or worse".