The Threat of "Gayness"

[st_files]

Why do so many posters here live in fear of having something they've done be construed as possibly "gay"? Does the thought of someone thinking you might be gay worry you that much? Why does it bother you so much?

Genuinely fascinated by this.

[ewenm]

Insecurity.

[sherman]

mx5 ownership

[st_files]

ewenm said:

Insecurity.

Shortest thread ever?

[Dakkon]

No homo

[Don]

st_files said:

Why do so many posters here live in fear of having something they've done be construed as possibly "gay"? Does the thought of someone thinking you might be gay worry you that much? Why does it bother you so much?

Genuinely fascinated by this.

Sorry. I am honour bound to use this graphic every time one of these threads comes up.

[Neil H]

Because they dream about touching other men and are afraid others will find out about it. They try to avoid this by appearing overtly masculine and criticising others for being 'teh gay'.

[st_files]

Don said:

st_files said:

Why do so many posters here live in fear of having something they've done be construed as possibly "gay"? Does the thought of someone thinking you might be gay worry you that much? Why does it bother you so much?

Genuinely fascinated by this.

Sorry. I am honour bound to use this graphic every time one of these threads comes up.

This is my point....I'm not offended/concerned/bothered/even slightly irritated by the fact that some anonymous person thinks I might be a homosexual....dont understand the point??? Its like you've posted up a huge sign saying "I really dont understand anyone or anything that isnt exactly like me"

[V8mate]

st_files said:

I'm not offended/concerned/bothered/even slightly irritated by the fact that some anonymous person thinks I might be a homosexual

I think we'd all be shattered to discover that you're not.

[JonRB]

Neil H said:

Because they dream about touching other men and are afraid others will find out about it. They try to avoid this by appearing overtly masculine and criticising others for being 'teh gay'.

Like the homophobic ex-military guy in American Beauty, you mean?

[TheCarpetCleaner]

V8mate said:

st_files said:

I'm not offended/concerned/bothered/even slightly irritated by the fact that some anonymous person thinks I might be a homosexual

I think we'd all be shattered to discover that you're not.

[sleep envy]

V8mate said:

st_files said:

I'm not offended/concerned/bothered/even slightly irritated by the fact that some anonymous person thinks I might be a homosexual

I think we'd all be shattered to discover that you're not.

don't spoil it for everyone

[Eddh]

Do people genuinly get concerned that people might think they are gay?

[soad]

Eddh said:

Do people genuinly get concerned that people might think they are gay?

Only the ones who (potentially) have ghey tendencies perhaps?

[st_files]

blindswelledrat said:

I assume in a round about way you are asking us what is wrong with sellotaping your cock to that of a friend?
Speaking for myself, I just don't want to do that sort of thing. If that makes me a repressed gay or something, then so be it. Just old fashioned I think

Which is fine, I'm referring to the people that seem to think that implying /saying someone may be gay is some sort of accusation.

[blindswelledrat]

I assume in a round about way you are asking us what is wrong with sellotaping your cock to that of a friend?
Speaking for myself, I just don't want to do that sort of thing. If that makes me a repressed gay or something, then so be it. Just old fashioned I think

[bazking69]

Real men don't worry that something could be construed as gay.

[TheCarpetCleaner]

My boyfriend and I are both certain that we are not gay.

[WorAl]

blindswelledrat said:

I assume in a round about way you are asking us what is wrong with sellotaping your cock to that of a friend?

Proper belly laugh at that post

[st_files]

V8mate said:

st_files said:

I'm not offended/concerned/bothered/even slightly irritated by the fact that some anonymous person thinks I might be a homosexual

I think we'd all be shattered to discover that you're not.

Really? How queer.