My mates new girlfriend.

[Rollin]

One of my friends has been through a st time over the last few years (divorce, depression etc).
He has recently started seeing a woman he met on Facebook. Good news...well sort of.

Turns out she is still married to someone who lives abroad and has a 17 year old from that marriage (Amicable separation, not got round to getting divorce). She also has a 4 year old from another relationship.

He has no kids, good job, own house etc, and although I hope everything goes well for him, I have a bad feeling about things.

So what's the worst that can happen?

Edited by Rollin on Wednesday 12th May 20:26

[W333]

Tell him to get rid! This has intervention written all over it

[T89 Callan]

So you've based all this on what? 3 or 4 facts about her status?

Perhaps you could be nice, pleasant, meet her and see what she is like?

[SteveNorthEast]

Is she fit?

[ShadownINja]

Didn't a PHer get scammed a couple of years ago by something similar?

[Robert Burns]

Always wanted to say this

The thread is worthless without pics

[pete a]

and does she take it in the wrongun?

[GTIR]

17 year old might be worth a poke.

[Famous Graham]

T89 Callan said:

So you've based all this on what? 3 or 4 facts about her status?

Perhaps you could be nice, pleasant, meet her and see what she is like?

Who are you, and what have you done with T89 Callan?

[Sheets Tabuer]

Not divorced, 4 year old child from another relationship, didn't get round to being divorced?

Get your seat booked for jeremy kyle.

He's fecking mental.

[Rollin]

T89 Callan said:

So you've based all this on what? 3 or 4 facts about her status?

Perhaps you could be nice, pleasant, meet her and see what she is like?

Perhaps "bad feeling" was the wrong phrase. I just know that if he get's messed about much more it may finish him.

Would love to meet her, but they're still at the shagging 24/7 stage

[T89 Callan]

Famous Graham said:

T89 Callan said:

So you've based all this on what? 3 or 4 facts about her status?

Perhaps you could be nice, pleasant, meet her and see what she is like?

Who are you, and what have you done with T89 Callan?

Killed him dead so I could steal all of his amazing jokes and claim them as my own!

I'll be rich I tells ya! RICH AS AN MP!

[Jasandjules]

He has his own house and car and a good job? Hmm....

Well, I guess the only thing you can do is keep his feet on the ground and be there for him in the event it goes t**s up.

[daemon]

PERSONALLY, single unattached men are like hens teeth and women know that.

He could punch above his weight if he wanted to.

She has far too much baggage.

Unless she take it up the wrongun.

Edited by daemon on Wednesday 12th May 20:58

[GTIR]

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[Mobile Chicane]

daemon said:

single unattached men are like hens teeth and women know that.

Really? Since when?

Internet dating sites are full of underattractive middle-aged blokes (with own home and car) for women to take advantage of.

Not saying that's necessarily the case here, however it sounds as though the OP has his doubts.

[Great Pretender]

T89 Callan said:

So you've based all this on what? 3 or 4 facts about her status?

Perhaps you could be nice, pleasant, meet her and see what she is like?

Who let this guy in?

[Beardy10]

With that history she's got to be either fit or dirty (or preferably both) for him to be even contemplating it! Even if she is.....he's mad.

[V8mate]

Two kids by two blokes. First 'dad' is 'overseas'.

There can be no upside.

[davido140]

So long as he abides by the two golden rules he'll be fine..

1) Dont get her pregnant, this means getting the snip himself. Not trusting her to handle contraception.

2) Dont marry her.

Simples.