Is everyone getting angrier at the moment - and if so, why?
Is everyone getting angrier at the moment - and if so, why?
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TheCarpetCleaner

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7,294 posts

232 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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Don't know if anyone else has noticed this phenomenon recently, or if it is just something I have noticed.

I generally have a lot of dealings with the general public, and recently have noticed that people are generally becoming more agressive and ruder at the slightest things. Definately worse than 4 or 5 years ago for sure.

Not all of these incidents have been directed at me, or indeed have even involved me, but it is wierd to witness people getting angry or going to pieces over the sligest thing. Recently, I have had a couple of people go absolutely mental at me for leaflet dropping their house (no signs, no "no junk mail" signs), someone attacked a friend of mine for not giving them a 5% discount for a voucher that was 5 months out of date, friends business had a customer go mental after they politely asked them for payment for goods recieved when the payment was weeks late as it is.

Just bizarre.

Is this the stress of the economic climate that is turning otherwise normal people into aholes, or is this a trend that is likely to get worse?

Kind of saddended by it really. Even if you strike up a converstaion with someone now you are viewed with suspicion.

bonsai

2,015 posts

210 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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fk off.

cs02rm0

13,966 posts

221 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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Nothing gets done these days unless you go ballistic.

Nolar Dog

8,786 posts

225 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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It's just you, you fking spinless bd. My temper is fine. Now get my fking carpet cleaned. wink

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V8mate

45,899 posts

219 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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The warmer weather?

TheCarpetCleaner

Original Poster:

7,294 posts

232 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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Nolar Dog said:
It's just you, you fking spinless bd. My temper is fine. Now get my fking carpet cleaned. wink

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I will clean your carpet... then I will wee on it on the way out - that way, I get paid, and you need to rebook shortly afterwards biggrin

TubbyTommy

569 posts

227 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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I have noticed this. At work a guy asked for money off a car, (200 quid) I said I can't do that I can only take 100 off and they went ballistic and stormed off.

Laurel Green

31,193 posts

262 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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I think the last thirteen years might have something to do with it.

Sheets Tabuer

21,481 posts

245 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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I think everyone needs to calm down, getting angry doesn't work, indeed no matter how much I shout and rant the OH still moves my fking tools when I go for a pee.

Republik

4,525 posts

220 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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madfuriousshoot

TheCarpetCleaner

Original Poster:

7,294 posts

232 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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cs02rm0 said:
Nothing gets done these days unless you go ballistic.
Sadly, I think you are right.

I don't understand why people, companies and industries can't just say they will do something, and do it.

Car mechanics are the worst for this.

The Hypno-Toad

13,322 posts

235 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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Had a woman go mental in the queue behind me in McDonalds yesterday when she discovered they had no ice cream left.
"Next time put a notice on the bloody door!" she yelled before she stomped off after queuing for all of three minutes. The guys behind the counter just laughed.
The fact that this McDonalds is right next door to a service station with a freezer full of ice cream and a smoothie maker as well obviously hadn't surfaced on her radar.

Pothole

34,367 posts

312 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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's all about respec' innit?

dreamz

5,299 posts

223 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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working at a games shop i've had people storm off as i wont knock off £30 "cause they're paying cash"

or if the receipt is out of date they go mental and storm off

worse yet is when i'm working as a doorman and saying someone is too drunk to come in people think i'm insulting their mother the dead grandmother and the nana. "i didnt want to go in there anyway its st" well what you fking arguing about then?! ps off!

Fer

7,774 posts

310 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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So TCC, are you busy? SWMBO wants you to come and clean the 3 peice again.

Pickled Piper

6,452 posts

265 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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TheCarpetCleaner said:
Don't know if anyone else has noticed this phenomenon recently, or if it is just something I have noticed.

Recently, I have had a couple of people go absolutely mental at me for leaflet dropping their house (no signs, no "no junk mail" signs)
Would a sign make a difference? I ask because junk mail and flyers are a pet hate of mine. I've never bothered with a sign as I thought most leaflet droppers will ignore it.

Peace and love.

pp

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

223 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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I was really anger last week for a few days....and that is just not me. People at work even noticed, and asked what was wrong.

Come Friday, and an afternoon in the pub, I was back to 'happy larry' myself biggrin

V8mate

45,899 posts

219 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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Penny-lope said:
I was really anger last week for a few days....and that is just not me. People at work even noticed, and asked what was wrong.

Come Friday, and an afternoon in the pub, I was back to 'happy larry' myself biggrin
You're usually on your webcam when you 'happy larry' yourself, aren't you?

GreenDog

2,261 posts

222 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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Fer said:
So TCC, are you busy? SWMBO wants you to come and clean the 3 peice again.
Is that a euphemism ? biggrin

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

223 months

Monday 24th May 2010
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V8mate said:
Penny-lope said:
I was really anger last week for a few days....and that is just not me. People at work even noticed, and asked what was wrong.

Come Friday, and an afternoon in the pub, I was back to 'happy larry' myself biggrin
You're usually on your webcam when you 'happy larry' yourself, aren't you?
Look will you stop hinting for me to get a Webcam....

I have already told you NO I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOU IN YOUR SPECIAL UNDIES!!!