R.I.P. Oscar
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driverrob

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4,847 posts

233 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Went to the back door this morning to see our cat sprawled on the patio. Cold and stiff. Only three and a half. No signs of damage, no vomit.
The vet has confirmed it was almost certainly a heart attack.
He was a very loving cat. Sue has been in tears on and off all morning and I've been pretty close.

Mr MoJo

4,698 posts

246 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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frown

Laurel Green

31,201 posts

262 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Sorry to hear that, Rob. If it's of any consolation, Oscar went quickly without any long-term suffering. RIP Oscar. frown

ZOLLAR

19,920 posts

203 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Thats sad, Sorry to hear about that OP.

mat13

1,977 posts

211 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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At least he didnt do the disapearing act a lot of cats seem to do when there ready to die.

RIP Oscar

Nolar Dog

8,786 posts

225 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Broomsticklady

1,095 posts

235 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Sounds like it was instantaneous - I know that's no consolation to you but at least he didn't suffer.

Get another cat - don't treat it as a replacement but more like a tribute to Oscar, that he's left a hole in your life which while not 'replaceable' had to filled by another of his species. We refer to one of our current family as 'legacy cat' cos she's so like our beloved Hagar, whose hole she filled in our lives.

LHD

17,002 posts

217 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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D1bram

1,518 posts

201 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Was never a cat fan, until we got one, and now I know how upset you'll be.

soad

34,705 posts

206 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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aww, poor thing cry

vtecstu

1,079 posts

213 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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You must be gutted. OH has been moping since we dropped ours at the cattery this morning - definitely not letting her read this. frown

Flintstone

8,644 posts

277 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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So he's truly Foxtrot Oscared? Poor fella. Not much consolation but it sounds like it was quick. Once found one of ours in the front garden after he'd been run over frown


I disagree with the advice to get another, at least right away. Give it a while, probably until you've gone through the phase of imagining you've seen/heard him around the place.

rolex

3,120 posts

288 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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vtecstu said:
You must be gutted. OH has been moping since we dropped ours at the cattery this morning - definitely not letting her read this. frown
Did it land on it's feet?

Flintstone

8,644 posts

277 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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rolex said:
vtecstu said:
You must be gutted. OH has been moping since we dropped ours at the cattery this morning - definitely not letting her read this. frown
Did it land on it's feet?
I've never issued one of these before but................rofl

Glassman

25,061 posts

245 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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anonymous said:
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We don't have a cat and we're very much at home here.

Lost soul

8,712 posts

212 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Glassman said:
anonymous said:
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We don't have a cat and we're very much at home here.
imagine how much more at home you would feel with a cat hehe

darkmark07

702 posts

228 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Hear, hear. I've only lost a couple over the years (one also called Oscar who was a fantastic creature) and it's horrible - OP, I really feel for you - it's rough.

Jasandjules

72,633 posts

259 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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I am sorry to hear that, especially when he was so young. But you know that you gave him a happy life whilst he was with you, and he went without suffering.

I think give yourself a bit of time to grieve, then give consideration to getting a rescue, so that you can give another cat a happy home and life.

Wacky Racer

41,390 posts

277 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Lost soul said:
Glassman said:
anonymous said:
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We don't have a cat and we're very much at home here.
imagine how much more at home you would feel with a cat hehe
Took the words right out of my mouth.........hehe

K87

2,111 posts

217 months

Sunday 6th June 2010
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Sorry to hear that OP, know what it feels like to lose a pet.



Flintstone said:
So he's truly Foxtrot Oscared?
Didn't you just start a thread about people making pointless remarks or just agreeing with other just to "look cool" or be in with the in crowd?

Yet you go and make a comment like that?? Unbelievable.