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Mikeyboy

Original Poster:

5,018 posts

266 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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So odd thing has happened in the last week.
An ex girlfriend who I really didn't want to speak to again sent me an email, you know the sort.
How are you, long time etc. Nothing scary about that despite her being a little odd when I knew her.

So I wrote back with some pleasantries but no real information and then at the end of the mail conversation where she learns nothing new about my life in the last 12 years she uses my wife's name and mentions a friend I made since we last spoke.

Freaked me out. How did she know this stuff? The only way I can think is that she saw me on Facebook but then I checked my settings and she wouldn't be able to see that.

Anyone else have any ideas.

Its certainly not by following me as she lives in Paris


Timmy35

13,014 posts

229 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Or does she?

You know females if they are happily moved on generally won't initiate contact, which presumably means she only needs one more thing to complete her "shrine" to you, or rather of you.

I'd be worried.

Edited by Timmy35 on Monday 19th July 17:14

funkyrobot

18,789 posts

259 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Leave the country, now! smile

Edited to add - is she fit? + pics?

Edited by funkyrobot on Monday 19th July 17:12

Soovy

35,829 posts

302 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Not any more she doesn't. She's back, and she's been digging.

Don

28,378 posts

315 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Mikeyboy said:
So odd thing has happened in the last week.
An ex girlfriend who I really didn't want to speak to again sent me an email, you know the sort.
How are you, long time etc. Nothing scary about that despite her being a little odd when I knew her.

So I wrote back with some pleasantries but no real information and then at the end of the mail conversation where she learns nothing new about my life in the last 12 years she uses my wife's name and mentions a friend I made since we last spoke.

Freaked me out. How did she know this stuff? The only way I can think is that she saw me on Facebook but then I checked my settings and she wouldn't be able to see that.

Anyone else have any ideas.

Its certainly not by following me as she lives in Paris
Google is a powerful thing.

Honestly.

Your on-line life leaves behind a trail that can be picked over for details by anyone with a modicum of searching talent. No equipment other than a web-browser is required.

If you re-use your PH handle around the net, for example.

Just try hunting for yourself and see what you can dig up and you'll get the idea.

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

224 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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You don't have any mutual friends do you?

If I was you, I'd lock all your pets away just in case

funkyrobot

18,789 posts

259 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Don said:
Mikeyboy said:
So odd thing has happened in the last week.
An ex girlfriend who I really didn't want to speak to again sent me an email, you know the sort.
How are you, long time etc. Nothing scary about that despite her being a little odd when I knew her.

So I wrote back with some pleasantries but no real information and then at the end of the mail conversation where she learns nothing new about my life in the last 12 years she uses my wife's name and mentions a friend I made since we last spoke.

Freaked me out. How did she know this stuff? The only way I can think is that she saw me on Facebook but then I checked my settings and she wouldn't be able to see that.

Anyone else have any ideas.

Its certainly not by following me as she lives in Paris
Google is a powerful thing.

Honestly.

Your on-line life leaves behind a trail that can be picked over for details by anyone with a modicum of searching talent. No equipment other than a web-browser is required.

If you re-use your PH handle around the net, for example.

Just try hunting for yourself and see what you can dig up and you'll get the idea.
Found him:

http://www.dontstayin.com/members/mikeyboy-raver

smile

Timmy35

13,014 posts

229 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Buggles said:
Soovy said:
Not any more she doesn't. She's back, and she's been digging.
yes She's back! Sounds like she is trying to st you up a bit too.
idea stalk her back.

Jonny671

29,904 posts

220 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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funkyrobot said:
Don said:
Mikeyboy said:
So odd thing has happened in the last week.
An ex girlfriend who I really didn't want to speak to again sent me an email, you know the sort.
How are you, long time etc. Nothing scary about that despite her being a little odd when I knew her.

So I wrote back with some pleasantries but no real information and then at the end of the mail conversation where she learns nothing new about my life in the last 12 years she uses my wife's name and mentions a friend I made since we last spoke.

Freaked me out. How did she know this stuff? The only way I can think is that she saw me on Facebook but then I checked my settings and she wouldn't be able to see that.

Anyone else have any ideas.

Its certainly not by following me as she lives in Paris
Google is a powerful thing.

Honestly.

Your on-line life leaves behind a trail that can be picked over for details by anyone with a modicum of searching talent. No equipment other than a web-browser is required.

If you re-use your PH handle around the net, for example.

Just try hunting for yourself and see what you can dig up and you'll get the idea.
Found him:

http://www.dontstayin.com/members/mikeyboy-raver

smile
Its started!

hehe

PH can find anything, about anyone.. Its scary.

Don

28,378 posts

315 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Maybe she read your blog.

Honestly - doesn't take much.

goldblum

10,272 posts

198 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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She'll entangle herself betwixt your wife and yourself and try to gain the trust of wifey.

Then when she has she'll tell wifey that your having an affair with her.

When wifey's left you she'll say she's "really" the only one for you,and always was.

You'll reject her psychotic advances and she'll kill you.

Leave the country,NOW

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

286 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Hide...

Mattygooner

5,304 posts

235 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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I hope you like somone tugging on your cord because your going to be a lampshade for the rest of your life.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

286 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Have you looked in your cupboards...?

Timmy35

13,014 posts

229 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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mybrainhurts said:
Hide...
in the pub.

Jonny671

29,904 posts

220 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Timmy35 said:
mybrainhurts said:
Hide...
in the pub.
Like on that Shaun Of The Dead or whatever it was with the Zombies.

Good idea!

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

224 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Jonny671 said:
Timmy35 said:
mybrainhurts said:
Hide...
in the pub.
Like on that Shaun Of The Dead or whatever it was with the Zombies.

Good idea!
Just don't put on the jukebox

Mazda Baiter

37,069 posts

219 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Penny-lope said:
Jonny671 said:
Timmy35 said:
mybrainhurts said:
Hide...
in the pub.
Like on that Shaun Of The Dead or whatever it was with the Zombies.

Good idea!
Just don't put on the jukebox
Don't stop me now...

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

224 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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Mazda Baiter said:
Penny-lope said:
Jonny671 said:
Timmy35 said:
mybrainhurts said:
Hide...
in the pub.
Like on that Shaun Of The Dead or whatever it was with the Zombies.

Good idea!
Just don't put on the jukebox
Don't stop me now...
...am having such a good time

Jonny671

29,904 posts

220 months

Monday 19th July 2010
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I'm the chubby one, Penny you can be the woman and Mazda your the ginger biggrin