Dealing with the general public... What a job!
Dealing with the general public... What a job!
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buzzer

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3,621 posts

269 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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How the hell do you guys n girls cope with a job where you deal with the general public on a daily basis?

There have been quite a few occasions recently where I have seen people in public facing roles having to deal with the most rude, obnoxious, ignorant, arrogant, ill informed and downright nasty people.

We went out yesterday and my own farther-in-law was very rude to the staff in a restaurant to such an extent I stopped him in his tracks, he was making the whole family cringe with his behaviour... he is just downright nasty with just about everyone...

I have never been customer facing in any role in my long working career... If I had, it would not have lasted long as I would have punched someone on day 2!

How the hell do you deal with it on a daily basis?


Janesy B

2,625 posts

215 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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I cope by crying myself to sleep every night.

Y282

20,566 posts

201 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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i drink.

poo at Paul's

14,611 posts

204 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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They jizz in his gravy. Job done.

TonyHetherington

32,091 posts

279 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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buzzer said:
We went out yesterday and my own farther-in-law was very rude to the staff in a restaurant to such an extent I stopped him in his tracks, he was making the whole family cringe with his behaviour... he is just downright nasty with just about everyone...
I'm going to take a stab in the dark; mother's day lunch and it was mega busy?

buzzer

Original Poster:

3,621 posts

269 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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TonyHetherington said:
buzzer said:
We went out yesterday and my own farther-in-law was very rude to the staff in a restaurant to such an extent I stopped him in his tracks, he was making the whole family cringe with his behaviour... he is just downright nasty with just about everyone...
I'm going to take a stab in the dark; mother's day lunch and it was mega busy?
No, It was on the Severn Valley railway and it was just like a normal day... he was rude to the girl on the tills, when she asked what kind of coffee he wanted and gave him the choice of about 4... he replied in a loud voice "just coffee, don't you understand English" then at the table all the sandwiches came first,and the cooked food was a little longer, he moaned like hell at the waiter, compleatly unjustified... he is like this all the time, we dont very often take him out as he is so rude...

but it not just him is it...

anonymous-user

83 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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I just don't take any notice. Counter ignorance.

TonyHetherington

32,091 posts

279 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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Ah I see smile

I noticed a lot of irate chaps yesterday so assumed he'd be the same!

Janesy B

2,625 posts

215 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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buzzer said:
he was rude to the girl on the tills, when she asked what kind of coffee he wanted and gave him the choice of about 4... he replied in a loud voice "just coffee, don't you understand English"
My dad does this, he walked into Costa and shouted COFFEE PLEASE and got the right arse when questioned what type. Maybe the next time when I go to look at a car with him, I'll just shout in the face of the salesman CAR PLEASE, DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND?!

Edited by Janesy B on Monday 4th April 13:07

ZOLLAR

19,920 posts

202 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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Its just as bad on the phones when dealing with the general public, people seem to think that because they can't see the other person they can't be rude and abusive.
Thankfully companies are taking a strong stance against this and with ourselves it could end up with your policy cancelled and listed as an abusive caller with all correspondence in writing.
Manners cost nothing yes

JonnyFive

29,897 posts

218 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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I've always been in a customer facing role, and you just can't let it get to you or else you'll hang yourself by the age of 20 hehe

Jasandjules

72,588 posts

258 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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I try not to be involved in things which require dealing with the general public.

anonymous-user

83 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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The few times i've been in customer facing roles, it hasnt been an issue, but i know of people who've had major abuse, including one young lady who quit her job because of an abusive arsewipe. He didnt do it for much longer, her fella got involved, and ttted the guy, he became a much nicer person after that for some reason

ZOLLAR

19,920 posts

202 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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snowy slopes said:
The few times i've been in customer facing roles, it hasnt been an issue, but i know of people who've had major abuse, including one young lady who quit her job because of an abusive arsewipe. He didnt do it for much longer, her fella got involved, and ttted the guy, he became a much nicer person after that for some reason
Oh so that's why you're so nice these days..... hehe

cal72

7,839 posts

199 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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I have found tearing A4 sheets of paper into strips whilst murmuring Shut up! Shut up! is very soothing.


defblade

8,054 posts

242 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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If there's a problem (real or imagined), "please" and "thank you" will go about a 1000 times further with me than ranting/shouting.

This means I don't go out of my way to sort stuff out very often......

MadMullah

5,299 posts

222 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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i close my eyes and just imagine the moment my life finally ends.

thankfully i got moved off the phones and to the complaints department which is actually awesome cause i dont have to speak to the customers - email only wink

snakeswitht1ts

239 posts

195 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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You soon learn to accept that people can be utter wkers at times. You get used to it.
Take comfort in the fact they probably live very sad lonely lives, have no friends and the only sex they get is with a latex fanny.

Or sign there mobile number to a gay bondage fettish text service...

Penny-lope

13,645 posts

222 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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I did it for 10 years...never again. I would rather work with 250 kids any day

anonymous-user

83 months

Monday 4th April 2011
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ZOLLAR said:
snowy slopes said:
The few times i've been in customer facing roles, it hasnt been an issue, but i know of people who've had major abuse, including one young lady who quit her job because of an abusive arsewipe. He didnt do it for much longer, her fella got involved, and ttted the guy, he became a much nicer person after that for some reason
Oh so that's why you're so nice these days..... hehe
Not me mate, i'm never abusive to people doing a job i wouldnt, you never know what they might get upto if you aren't paying attention.