The posthumous post of a cancer victim
The posthumous post of a cancer victim
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RDMcG

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20,832 posts

236 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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Millions have logged onto this blog site of a Canadian who has just died of colon cancer at the age of 41. The final post is poignant.

http://www.penmachine.com/

RacerMDR

5,582 posts

239 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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thanks for posting. The final paragraph is awesome imho

Lefty

21,080 posts

231 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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Very sobering.

Mr Gearchange

5,892 posts

235 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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st man - I'm sat here at my desk crying.

Good job i'm the only person in my office.

anonymous-user

83 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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If only we did all live our lives as he so elequantyl put it:

"pursue what you enjoy, and what stimulates your mind, as much as possible — so you can be ready for opportunities, as well as not be disappointed when things go sideways, as they inevitably do"

It's a shame that life gets in the way sometimes frown

Lefty

21,080 posts

231 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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41 is far too young.

RDMcG

Original Poster:

20,832 posts

236 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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Young indeed. It always makes me pause when I see the words of people who face their fate with dignity, courage, and even some good humour. Mostly, the news is full of how awful humanity has become, so its a welcome reminder.

King Herald

23,501 posts

245 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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I was doing okay until I got to this part:

"Airdrie, you were my best friend and my closest connection. I don't know what we'd have been like without each other, but I think the world would be a poorer place. I loved you deeply, I loved you, I loved you, I loved you"

cry

How on earth do you come to terms with knowing that shortly you will be saying goodbye to your beloved wife and children, forever?? How can you handle that when it has me in tears just sitting here and reading about someone else doing it?


Jasandjules

72,558 posts

258 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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Some people are just incredible. He seems to have been one.

itsnotarace

4,685 posts

238 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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King Herald said:
How on earth do you come to terms with knowing that shortly you will be saying goodbye to your beloved wife and children, forever??
Lots of people go through this every single day mate

Have lost a number of family members to cancer, some very quickly but others over 7 or 8 years. It doesn't get any easier.

The Tea Boy

4,129 posts

264 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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Jasandjules said:
Some people are just incredible. He seems to have been one.
yes this clap

Broomsticklady

1,095 posts

234 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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Beautiful words and makes you appreciate what you've got and how lucky we are.

Swerni - you're very lucky having an all clear - it's something they don't give breaat cancer sufferers cos like the sex of the people it mainly tries to populate it can be a bh sometimes and never knows when to shut up!! And before anyone says it affects men too, I know all too well, my brother in law has secondary bc right now.

drivin_me_nuts

17,949 posts

240 months

Tuesday 10th May 2011
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swerni said:
itsnotarace said:
King Herald said:
How on earth do you come to terms with knowing that shortly you will be saying goodbye to your beloved wife and children, forever??
Lots of people go through this every single day mate

Have lost a number of family members to cancer, some very quickly but others over 7 or 8 years. It doesn't get any easier.
some of us live !!!


Blood test yesterday, 4 1/2 years since I was told I no longer had cancer smile
Good for you Swerni. Long may you shiny bonce be a beacon of light for all those who step beyond the big 'C'.

Nina, I think about you every day. Lots of love, R

Some people just seem to be able to turn cancer into a big and beautiful cake walk. I think they must just be born that way. They glide through it, come what may. For us mere mortals, we keep on going because that is what they would want us to do.

It touches me every time I read someone's story - how often the word love comes into the final few sentences. Love; It's a wonderful, wonderful word.

Boshly

2,776 posts

265 months

Wednesday 11th May 2011
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swerni said:
some of us live !!!


Blood test yesterday, 4 1/2 years since I was told I no longer had cancer smile
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Is that why you can keep cool over missing pieces of paper paperbag which you should now have ears