How to Get Motivated and Stay Motivated?
How to Get Motivated and Stay Motivated?
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expensivegarms

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683 posts

226 months

Wednesday 7th January 2015
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Right, I'd like to lose some weight ready for my forthcoming holiday in July. I'm one of these sorts of people that gets motivated to go and do something, like go for a run, and I'll do that for a week or so, and then just lose interest and won't be bothered to go.

I have addressed my diet over the last few days, and cut out most of the rubbish, but now I need help to stay motivated! I'm not massively fat, but want to become a bit slimmer to show some of the muscles I actually do have hiding! Maybe I just need to tone up a bit? Joining a gym may be a bit difficult to do due to finances at the moment, so anything I can do at home is definitely the way to go! I did try the insanity workout stuff, but not being too fit anyway, it might have been a bit too much!

So, how do I keep the motivation up? How do I carry it on?!

WolfAir

456 posts

164 months

Wednesday 7th January 2015
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If you are training by yourself that can be difficult. A mate to train with always increases chances of sticking with it.
Also personally I have found you need to keep training for 2 weeks minimum before your body begins to adapt to exercise and you begin to see results.
Good luck with it.

expensivegarms

Original Poster:

683 posts

226 months

Wednesday 7th January 2015
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Thats quite a good shout actually. I'll have to try and find someone to go with as I've just moved to a new area where I don't know anyone!

The other thing I was going to do was walk to work as well. I walked it earlier this evening to see how long it would take and it's just over half an hour, so I will hopefully keep that going as well as its somewhere I have to go! Does walking actually do anything though?!

I want to put in the time to get thinner, but I wish there was an easier way sometimes!

Edited by expensivegarms on Wednesday 7th January 22:10

tgr

1,252 posts

200 months

Wednesday 7th January 2015
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Get into a routine

JQ

6,780 posts

208 months

Wednesday 7th January 2015
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Enter an event, whether that's a run, distance walk, cycle event or swim event. Suddenly you've got a goal. Tell everyone you're doing it (stops you backing out) and see if you can persuade someone else to do it with you. You don't need to train with them but someone to have training banter and competition with and again stops you backing out. Perhaps do it for a charity.

grumbledoak

32,565 posts

262 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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A good (if a little sweary) answer here: http://imgur.com/sM00I9Q

It's mostly diet to lose the flab anyway. So put the cake down, fatso. wink

Hoofy

79,993 posts

311 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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It's the same motivation for someone who wants to be a lawyer or whatever. What motivates you to get something done, whatever it is?

expensivegarms

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683 posts

226 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Hoofy said:
It's the same motivation for someone who wants to be a lawyer or whatever. What motivates you to get something done, whatever it is?
To be honest, money is the motivator usually! However on this occasion, money won't work. I'm going to look into doing a 5k fun run, so if I'm raising money for something else that's probably going to do the trick!

expensivegarms

Original Poster:

683 posts

226 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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grumbledoak said:
A good (if a little sweary) answer here: http://imgur.com/sM00I9Q

It's mostly diet to lose the flab anyway. So put the cake down, fatso. wink
Thank you for the link, very useful. No cakes for me for a while, thankfully! I specifically said to people who asked what I'd like for Christmas 'no chocolate or cakes!' Which seems to have worked well. I now have a mountain of chocolate and cake which I'm trying to give away to colleagues at the moment!

BritishRacinGrin

26,489 posts

189 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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I'm just starting on this really, but at the moment there are a couple of things which are motivating me which you might not have necessarily thought about. Both are free mobile phone apps!

'Pacer' app- counts and logs how many steps you walk every day, and the subsequent calorie burn. Walking makes a surprisingly big difference and it is exactly the kind of low intensity long duration activity which is perfect for fat burn. If I look at it at the end of the day and I've only done 6,000 steps that day I really want to do better the next day for fear of bringing my average down!

'MyFitnessPal' app- syncs with pacer and gives me a calorie consumption target based on knowing some basic parameters about me and how much I want to lose. It has a huge database of foods so I can always just select what I've eaten from the list rather than having to constantly weigh stuff and check labels. Also your calories burned from Pacer are added to your daily target so you know what the net effect of your diet and exercise combined is. Every day you either fail or suceed to meet your target, and when you have entered your daily food (which is much less of a pain than I thought it'd be) the app projects how much weight you could theoretically lose if you keep it up for e.g. 8 weeks.

Foliage

3,861 posts

151 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Don't get motivated, you need to form a habit even when you don't feel like exercising or whatever you still need to do it, its should be like brushing your teeth or having a shower, you may not want to but you know you have to.

Vocal Minority

8,582 posts

181 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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BritishRacinGrin said:
I'm just starting on this really, but at the moment there are a couple of things which are motivating me which you might not have necessarily thought about. Both are free mobile phone apps!

'Pacer' app- counts and logs how many steps you walk every day, and the subsequent calorie burn. Walking makes a surprisingly big difference and it is exactly the kind of low intensity long duration activity which is perfect for fat burn. If I look at it at the end of the day and I've only done 6,000 steps that day I really want to do better the next day for fear of bringing my average down!

'MyFitnessPal' app- syncs with pacer and gives me a calorie consumption target based on knowing some basic parameters about me and how much I want to lose. It has a huge database of foods so I can always just select what I've eaten from the list rather than having to constantly weigh stuff and check labels. Also your calories burned from Pacer are added to your daily target so you know what the net effect of your diet and exercise combined is. Every day you either fail or suceed to meet your target, and when you have entered your daily food (which is much less of a pain than I thought it'd be) the app projects how much weight you could theoretically lose if you keep it up for e.g. 8 weeks.
Is there a way to turn pacer off? I record bike rides on Strava and wouldn't want to 'double count' as it were

Hoofy

79,993 posts

311 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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expensivegarms said:
Hoofy said:
It's the same motivation for someone who wants to be a lawyer or whatever. What motivates you to get something done, whatever it is?
To be honest, money is the motivator usually! However on this occasion, money won't work. I'm going to look into doing a 5k fun run, so if I'm raising money for something else that's probably going to do the trick!
Put a £10k bet with Paddy Power that you can lose your target then. evil

expensivegarms

Original Poster:

683 posts

226 months

Sunday 11th January 2015
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Right, just weighed myself, down 6lbs to 13.4 stone in just over a week! Seems rather quick to me... Have been walking to work and back again since Thursday, changed my diet massively and drank a small countrys worth of water (or what it feels like; in reality it's about 2 litres a day). It's quite nice seeing a lower number on the scales!

Hoofy

79,993 posts

311 months

Sunday 11th January 2015
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See how long your change of diet is sustainable for.

expensivegarms

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683 posts

226 months

Sunday 11th January 2015
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It's more a change from things like instead of buying a kebab on Friday night, I made a home made one, and had it without chips, and with a wholemeal pitta instead of a white one. Enjoying the walking to work, feeling good after it, and I actually feel like work is a bit easier as well. Will keep updated though, you never know, my motivation may drop again!

Hoofy

79,993 posts

311 months

Sunday 11th January 2015
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expensivegarms said:
and had it without chips, and with a wholemeal pitta instead of a white one.
Well, not having it with chips is the main thing. Wholemeal vs white is irrelevant to losing weight. Just cutting out chips will save you about 500 kcals!!

ShortShift811

634 posts

171 months

Monday 12th January 2015
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As others have said, habit and routine is key. JFDI.

Once you're out running / swimming / at the gym / whatever you'll be fine. The thought of going when you are lacking desire is always worse.

Without fail, I always feel miles better once I've completed a workout, so I just remind myself of that.

MitchT

17,114 posts

238 months

Monday 12th January 2015
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Force yourself until it becomes habit. I had the same issues in the beginning but I don't give it a second thought now.

selym

9,581 posts

200 months

Monday 12th January 2015
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http://www.fetcheveryone.com/

I found this site useful when I started running; I'm not sure if it is still rated by runners. As someone said above, keep forcing yourself until you are actually looking forward to going out for a run. It'll all be so easy then.