examples of your mrs doing ilogical things
examples of your mrs doing ilogical things
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housen

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2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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had the worst weekend ever with my mrs

walks down street and says I saw a shop I want to visit earlier ...I then told her we have never been down this street in our lives !!!

we go to restaurant in France she speaks French . I ask her to ask the waiter to suggest the best wine from burgundy ...he suggests another region and she chooses that . I only only wanted the wine from that region !!!!!!!

I ask her to check traffic on her side of car she looks out my window !!!!!!!

walk into restaurant and i say to her its in my name (france) at 9pm...she asks me did I book a table !!!???

I challenge her and ask her why she does these things and she has 0 answer .


it may seem petty but how can someone be soo nonsensical ???

can you please give examples of what your mrs does that makes 0 sense

my mate says all women are like this ...but it cant be true can it ?

Edited by housen on Monday 31st October 08:25

daddy cool

4,106 posts

258 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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housen said:
had the worst weekend ever with my mrs
Shopping and drinking wine.

kev b

2,756 posts

195 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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If thats the worst she can do then you are a very lucky man.

Have a look at the many divorce threads an here and see if you still feel hard done by.

housen

Original Poster:

2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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kev b said:
If thats the worst she can do then you are a very lucky man.

Have a look at the many divorce threads an here and see if you still feel hard done by.
thx man is it in the health matter area ?

I wasn't sure if im in the right section

but I do feel like im going to have a heart attack

housen

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2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Purity14 said:
Sorry mate, but that is more than normal.

"Its pancake day and we havent even made anything" she says.

She returns home after nipping out, and I have laid on the most fantastic spread of honey, lemon, syrup, nutella, with strawberries, bananas all chopped up in little bowls etc ready for pancakes. With pancake mix all ready to pour into the pan..

...as she returns home I cup her eyes and walk her into the kitchen and do the big reveal.

"You know I hate pancakes"

...

Within the week I get the "You never surprise me anymore" line.

...


Surprise, We are going to do X
"... I have already arranged Y, why would you do that"
"Im being sponantious, surprising you thats all"

"You know I hate surprises"

wobble
what did u say ?

did u lose your st ?

life cant be this un fair

Alapeno

1,391 posts

176 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Purity14 said:
"You know I hate surprises"

wobble
Had mine complain about never getting surprises, in particular flowers, a couple of years ago.

Waited a while so hopefully she'd forgotten she mentioned it and then sent some to her work when she was having a particularly bad day.

Decided to go into town to take her for dinner and some drinks straight from work. In the space of a few hours she has decided that she doesn't like flowers and they're an inconvenience, promptly thrusts them into my hand and says "Don't want to keep these at work, you're going to have to carry them everywhere tonight now."

Every time she mentions flowers now, I gently remind her of this.


SHutchinson

2,363 posts

213 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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housen, are you okay? You seem pretty stressed out fella. I'm no expert but I think you are projecting.

housen

Original Poster:

2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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SHutchinson said:
housen, are you okay? You seem pretty stressed out fella. I'm no expert but I think you are projecting.
im fine thx ...but stressed yes

just really disappointed in her

daddy cool

4,106 posts

258 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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"...before turning the gun on himself."

housen

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2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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it was just this weekend

that compounded it for me


Cudd Wudd

1,118 posts

154 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Purity14 said:
If someone burgled my house, or threatened me with physical danger I would lose my st.
Do I sense another thread about dominating staircases in the making..? smile

housen

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2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Cudd Wudd said:
Purity14 said:
If someone burgled my house, or threatened me with physical danger I would lose my st.
Do I sense another thread about dominating staircases in the making..? smile
what is this ?


look I may be over reacting ...maybe ....but seriously I just cant fathom how she can be like this

she can also barely use her iPhone that also gets me

Riley Blue

23,205 posts

255 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Be thankful for what you have, I've sat through nights looking at my O/H wired up to monitors and tubes every whichway in an emergency medical unit. After surviving that, she's allowed to have whatever dippy female ideas she wants, whenever she wants them. They're not that bad, these females, just different - most of them... some of the time... wink

Dan_1981

18,093 posts

228 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Just checking in.

Cudd Wudd

1,118 posts

154 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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housen said:
what is this ?


look I may be over reacting ...maybe ....but seriously I just cant fathom how she can be like this

she can also barely use her iPhone that also gets me
Sorry, it was just a tongue in cheek comment in reference to the lengthy stolen Golf R/Touareg discussion in General Gassing. Rubbish topic for the OP, but quite an amusing series of posts followed from others.

Back on your topic, nothing sounds that bad, although perhaps that is easy to say from the outside. Has she always been like it, or are you sensing some sort of recent deterioration?

Edited by Cudd Wudd on Monday 31st October 10:14

anonymous-user

83 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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housen said:
what is this ?


look I may be over reacting ...maybe ....but seriously I just cant fathom how she can be like this

she can also barely use her iPhone that also gets me
Why don't you just leave her?

HTP99

25,146 posts

169 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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All the time, too numerous and fairly insignificant to remember specifics; usual daily things, she will say one thing one day and then completely contradict herself the next and say the complete opposite and swear blind that she didn't say what she said the day before, sometimes I swear that I need to record absolutely everything that she says so I have proof.

Expects me to be a mind reader.

Used to complain that I wasn't thoughtful enough, however I always without fail remembered the anniversary of our getting together, she never did and used to just shrug when I brought it up after her telling me I wasn't thoughtful.

Hates pork; loves gammon, ham and bacon!!

Still love her though and I'm sure I'm far from perfect.

Hoofy

80,003 posts

311 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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housen said:
had the worst weekend ever with my mrs

walks down street and says I saw a shop I want to visit earlier ...I then told her we have never been down this street in our lives !!!

we go to restaurant in France she speaks French . I ask her to ask the waiter to suggest the best wine from burgundy ...he suggests another region and she chooses that . I only only wanted the wine from that region !!!!!!!

I ask her to check traffic on her side of car she looks out my window !!!!!!!

walk into restaurant and i say to her its in my name (france) at 9pm...she asks me did I book a table !!!???

I challenge her and ask her why she does these things and she has 0 answer .


it may seem petty but how can someone be soo nonsensical ???

can you please give examples of what your mrs does that makes 0 sense

my mate says all women are like this ...but it cant be true can it ?

Edited by housen on Monday 31st October 08:25
Um. It's not illogical. She doesn't sound very bright. Sorry to sound rude.

kev b

2,756 posts

195 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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She can't be too thick, she speaks French and the OP doesn't.

housen

Original Poster:

2,366 posts

221 months

Monday 31st October 2016
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Hoofy said:
housen said:
had the worst weekend ever with my mrs

walks down street and says I saw a shop I want to visit earlier ...I then told her we have never been down this street in our lives !!!

we go to restaurant in France she speaks French . I ask her to ask the waiter to suggest the best wine from burgundy ...he suggests another region and she chooses that . I only only wanted the wine from that region !!!!!!!

I ask her to check traffic on her side of car she looks out my window !!!!!!!

walk into restaurant and i say to her its in my name (france) at 9pm...she asks me did I book a table !!!???

I challenge her and ask her why she does these things and she has 0 answer .


it may seem petty but how can someone be soo nonsensical ???

can you please give examples of what your mrs does that makes 0 sense

my mate says all women are like this ...but it cant be true can it ?

Edited by housen on Monday 31st October 08:25
Um. It's not illogical. She doesn't sound very bright. Sorry to sound rude.
not rude at all sir, all opinions help me right now