What did you change as you hit middle age?
What did you change as you hit middle age?
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TameRacingDriver

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20,561 posts

301 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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So very soon I'll be hitting the big 4-0 and its certainly got me thinking, my overall health is poorer than I would like for this time of life. Some people tell me that this is what to expect and get used to it, but surely I should probably feel better than I do most of the time. Specifically, I have quite fragile guts (a problem I've had on and off since teenage years), my energy and motivation could be better and overall I never feel energised or otherwise any better than 'meh'.

Overall, at this point in time, I'd say my diet is quite good, I walk a lot and lift weights a couple of times a week, and generally I get enough sleep (7.5-8 hrs). However, I think my fitness could be better, and I know I need to cut down on the alcohol which I've started doing now. I'm not fat but I could lose a couple of stone probably (which would probably see me almost ripped).

It's got me wondering, did you change anything when you hit middle age to improve your health, and how did it go?


Edited by TameRacingDriver on Friday 5th April 10:21

coldel

11,077 posts

175 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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I did stuff similar to you, tried to do more exercise etc. then developed psoriatic arthritis which crippled me and put me on crutches! Fortunately the medication I take has got me back to around 90% mobility but it made me more aware than ever how important exercise and especially diet is. I gym 3-4 times a week including the occasional personal training session plus play 5 a side football once a week. I eat a lot more fish and get my fibre intake etc. But definitely never take for granted being able to move without pain, the longer you can stave it off with healthy living the better because I can say from experience it is horrendous!

I also bought a succession of impractical fast cars biggrin

mcelliott

10,490 posts

210 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Nothing really, if anything I upped the ante, no reason not to reach even higher levels of fitness in your forties

Edited by mcelliott on Friday 5th April 10:49

jontysafe

2,370 posts

207 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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I was a social smoker and drank far too much, did no exercise and was 25kgs overweight. Between my wife and I we drank 10 bottles of wine odd a week plus pub visits.

Turning 40 coincided with my daughter being born so changed everything as it felt right. Not one ciggie more, no drinking at home or really at all apart from customer entertaining which can`t be helped. Found cycling again after a 25 year hiatus! Lift weights 1-2 times per week. Cut RIGHT back to almost zero intake on pork and red meat. Sounds very parsimonious but somehow doesn`t feel it.

Basically alcohol is a poison and once you realise that, all the work you put into getting fit, healthy and strong, you don`t want to take steps backwards by over doing it. Thaaaaaat being said when I find myself in Pattaya with work I go mad occasionally because I`m not a priest.

av185

20,464 posts

156 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Gut health becomes more important in your 40s as evidence shows it can dictate your overall wellbeing.

Good bacteria from live yogurts blue cheeses etc is the way to go.

funinhounslow

2,006 posts

171 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Quit drinking for good in my mid 40s. Really wish I'd done it 10 years earlier.

The health, lifestyle and financial benefits really can't be overstated imo. And I was just a "average" drinker...

monkfish1

12,348 posts

253 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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I did nothing different, though at the time, my job was such that half the day was spent "on my feet" so releatively active.

2 years ago, i pretty much became desk bound. Thats definitely had a negative effect. Though i cant say ive done much about it.

But i know i should.

I too bought some fast/interesting cars smile

TameRacingDriver

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20,561 posts

301 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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The booze does seem to be a common theme. I've been a daily drinker for years, already gave up red wine last year and switched to beer in an effort to reduce units, which it has, considerably, but i still feel like its causing me problems - gut problems, and depression, so I'll be knocking that on the head and just drinking when i go out, just wish I hadn't discovered craft beer as it tastes so damn good (any suggestions welcomed).

I am certainly not as consistent as I would like to be with the weights, I aim for twice a week but in reality its more like 1.5x a week as I'm often feeling a bit too crap to be bothered, but i must make more effort. Also the walking is good but I dont get enough vigorous cardio. I've switched my routine to lighter weight sets and much short rests to try and counter this for now, but I want a bike or exercise bike to try and get more cardio in.

Thanks for the replies so far, very interesting.

WestyCarl

4,060 posts

154 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Stopped booze (big benefits), upped the intensity of exercise (especially cardio) and more careful about eating lots of sugar. (seems to affect me more in 40's)

I really wish I'd increased the intensity in my 30's though as I've seen big benefits.

MrOrange

2,039 posts

282 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Jeans size went up

PositronicRay

28,973 posts

212 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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I hit middle age a little later, aged 54. I got a dog.

interstellar

5,051 posts

175 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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I certainly felt I was in the heart attack bracket (40-54) when I hit 40.

I got into mountain biking and now running, lost 3 stone and now 5 years on I ride twice a week and run a couple of times too. Park runs, mtb events and riding abroad on holiday are now a big part of my life.

Simple motto got me through - eat less,drink less, ride more - simple buts it’s worked.

Anthony Micallef

1,128 posts

224 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Interesting thread. I'm 47 next week and have managed to go to the gym at least 3/4 times a week to do weights since the new year. I have been to the gym prior to that but only ever lasted a few weeks. I am starting to see the difference in my physique and strength.

I try and log my food in MFP every day and keep to my calorie and macro allowances. I have found it quite interesting learning about nutrition and exercise.

williamp

20,390 posts

302 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Now 42. Started running, can do 10k now. Resting heartrate is 56bpm, normal blood presure.

Just cant get and lighter/thinner. Its like my body has said it doesnt matter how fit I get, I will always be this weight. 102kg, so not happh about my bodies decision but not overly worried either.

Its the lack of real friendhsips thats noticeablde. I have lots of poeple I talk to, but nobody I can share **anything** with anymore

anonymous-user

83 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Being realistic about what you're like is important.

TameRacingDriver said:
I'm not fat but I could lose a couple of stone probably (which would probably see me almost ripped).
If you could lose a couple of stone, I'd say you were fat. Soz.

I'm probably at the upper end of a healthy BMI but am pretty active. If I lost a couple of stone I'd look like I was dying.

interstellar

5,051 posts

175 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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williamp said:
Its the lack of real friendhsips thats noticeablde. I have lots of poeple I talk to, but nobody I can share **anything** with anymore
That's not good to hear mate.

Don Veloci

2,194 posts

310 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Will be 43 in November and know the 'Meh' feeling.

Pulled out the 2013 Tough Mudder t-shirt recently and reminded me that peak fitness was around 36-38 years old.

Since ticking over to 40 injuries have been more frequent, ability to exercise has declined, and generally feeling great is a rarer thing. Certainly spent most of this year so far feeling flat with a kind of lurgie feeling hanging around that doesn't seem to want to leave.

I'm very aware there are people I exercise with 10 plus years older doing better, so I too need to ask and force myself "what am I going to do about it". I know how overing boozing makes me feel, so that's an easy one. Will be keeping an eye on this thread for inspiration.

Martin30

133 posts

156 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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TameRacingDriver said:
Specifically, I have quite fragile guts (a problem I've had on and off since teenage years), my energy and motivation could be better and overall I never feel energised or otherwise any better than 'meh'.
I found giving up dairy helped hugely for me. I used to drink pints and pints of milk daily, then started getting all the symptoms you describe in my late 30s. Gave up milk - still eat cheese, huge improvement. After a brief period of minor taste adjustment, almond milk works in everything except tea.

Martin.

Roger Irrelevant

3,388 posts

142 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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mcelliott said:
Nothing really, if anything I upped the ante, no reason not to reach even higher levels of fitness in your forties

Edited by mcelliott on Friday 5th April 10:49
Well said - I'll be 40 towards the end of this year which means that next year I'll be in the SEN40 category for fell racing. If it isn't my best season yet I'll be disappointed, and I haven't exactly done badly in previous years. Like others I have cut down on the booze in recent years though - not so much out of health concerns but just because most of the time - especially in the week - it just seemed pointless.

Bill

58,630 posts

284 months

Friday 5th April 2019
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Cut back on the booze and portion size, lost 2.5 stone, rediscovered my jaw line... Rediscovered mountain biking and climbing, and my abs*...


*in the right light at least. biggrin