Glioblastoma Multiformae child
Glioblastoma Multiformae child
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Lanby

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1,106 posts

243 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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I think it only fair to point out beforehand it might be upsetting for some to read this post..

I haven't posted on PH for a while as I have been rather distracted.

17 months ago my little boy was diagnosed with a brain tumour - Glioblastoma Multiformae.

Without going into details his treatment included debulking surgery, 2 months in hospital, 6 weeks of radiotherapy everyday, a peg (a tube to deliver food directly into his stomach), a second round of radiotherapy six months later and a massive drugs regime throughout.

He was a tough little guy who gave everything 110%

From being unable to stand up, he learnt how to walk and ride his bike again, he managed to attend school for a year and we were so proud when not only did he enter his sports day he didn't come last in the running race!! smile

Unfortunately his condition worsened and Yesterday he died aged 5.

I feel numb, upset, angry, hurt,

I miss him so much frown

Well fk you cancer fk you!

The Moose

23,676 posts

238 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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I’m terribly sorry to read this. I don’t have much more to add. I guess other than come here to vent when needed.

You have some tough times ahead of you, but remember that while you had him for such a short period of time, he accomplished so much and has left an indelible mark on you. Grow closer to your wife, talk, don’t bottle it up.

Taita

7,995 posts

232 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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Sorry to hear that frown

CrgT16

2,524 posts

137 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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Really sorry to hear that! All the best to you and your family Richard in this difficult times.

irocfan

48,995 posts

219 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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Nothing I can say beyond I'm aiming sorry to read this frown

MXRod

2,853 posts

176 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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Once again a PH personal tragedy brings me to tears , there are no words ............

Scrump

23,933 posts

187 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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I am so sorry to hear your news. As a parent I know how precious one’s children are and can appreciate how your world must have been wrenched apart by this.
My thoughts are with you and your family.

mcelliott

10,491 posts

210 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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So sorry for your loss.

didelydoo

5,533 posts

239 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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No words, so sorry for your loss.

Stay strong.

lrdisco

1,729 posts

116 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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I can only give you my deepest sympathy. I am at a total loss as to how hard it must be for you.
May he have the gentlest of the longest sleeps.

Legend83

10,572 posts

251 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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My condolences - utterly heart-breaking.

I wish you and your family all the very best in the times ahead.

TwigtheWonderkid

49,038 posts

179 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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That's awful OP, my heart goes out to you.

Can I ask, if it's not too painful to discuss, when they diagnosed this 17 months ago, what did they say re his survival chances?

There was another thread recently about the same condition, guy writing about his brother in his 40s, who seemed to have been given the impression that with treatment, his brother would be fine, which ultimately he wasn't. Because the outcome for GM brain tumours is rarely good.

Lanby

Original Poster:

1,106 posts

243 months

Friday 4th October 2019
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Hi,

Thank you for your thoughts guys, it doesn't change anything, but in a strange way it does help a little.

Twigthewonderkid - I did see that thread - I do not know what his current situation is but GBM is one of the most aggressive forms of tumour and the outcome is rarely positive.
I did read recently the 1 year survival rate is 25%, the 3 year survival rate is around 6%, and the average lifespan from diagnosis is about 14 months.

In our experience I would suggest to him to make a bucket list and start making as many memories as soon as possible whilst he is able.


anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 5th October 2019
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I’m so sorry to hear of your loss, every parents worse nightmare and you’re going through it. Be proud of him every day as he was surely proud of you.

mikees

2,890 posts

201 months

Saturday 5th October 2019
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Lanby said:
Hi,

Thank you for your thoughts guys, it doesn't change anything, but in a strange way it does help a little.

Twigthewonderkid - I did see that thread - I do not know what his current situation is but GBM is one of the most aggressive forms of tumour and the outcome is rarely positive.
I did read recently the 1 year survival rate is 25%, the 3 year survival rate is around 6%, and the average lifespan from diagnosis is about 14 months.

In our experience I would suggest to him to make a bucket list and start making as many memories as soon as possible whilst he is able.
Agree I lost my late wife to GBM and there is only one outcome plus it’s horrible towards the end. My sincere condolences lanby


Mr E

23,040 posts

288 months

Saturday 5th October 2019
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No words.
My condolences. Can’t begin to imagine the pain.

My only thoughts would echo someone else who went through something similar.

Remain the people he knew you were; don’t become shells of them.

Easy to say.

Blowfish

299 posts

176 months

Saturday 5th October 2019
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So sorry to read this. Can not imagine what you are going through.

anonymous-user

83 months

Sunday 6th October 2019
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My son is a little older than yours and my daughter a little younger. I am not a religious person, but there by the grace of god we go and bless you in dealing with your loss.

Children are so life affirming, yet delicate. I can't imagine losing a child at that age. OP I wish you all the strength in the world.

Lanby

Original Poster:

1,106 posts

243 months

Sunday 6th October 2019
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Mr E said:
No words.
My condolences. Can’t begin to imagine the pain.

My only thoughts would echo someone else who went through something similar.

Remain the people he knew you were; don’t become shells of them.

Easy to say.
That is nice, thank you smile

underwhelmist

2,049 posts

163 months

Sunday 6th October 2019
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So sorry to hear of your loss, it must be devastating. I can’t begin to imagine how you must be feeling. My sincere condolences.