Am I a bad person?

[midnight rambler]

Apologies, another quite recently seperated PHer here (who usually lurks).

Just went round to drop my boy off with the ex, and her new "friend" was round there looking quite comfortable.

Anyway as I left, I got the urge to p**s over the door handle of his pox ridden 316.

Does this make me a bad person?

[ronj]

Yes,you should have done it,you would then be a good and happy person.

[farmboy]

You certainly are a bad person.

You should have cr@pped on the bonnet.

[Mrs Fish]

farmboy said: You certainly are a bad person.

You should have cr@pped on the bonnet.

[Ballistic Banana]

no thats not Bad.

'Putting Razor Blades under the handle' now thats BAD.

BB

[Bodo]

The urge doesn't make you a bad person; it's quite normal for humans as we are

but ...
[-mode on]
You could as well been the new one, and you wouldn't want an old one to p*ss on you motor, would you?!
[-mode off]

cheers, Bodo

[ABBTVR]

Anyway as I left, I got the urge to p**s over the door handle of his pox ridden 316.

Does this make me a bad person?

Depends on what you've been drinking!
Big Al.

[Agent006]

If he's the reason that she's an ex, then noting wrong with pissing on his pride and joy. If he wasn't... errr, still no reason not to.

[chris watton]

I don't blame you for feeling like that, and I can empathise with what you must be going through, especially with children involved ( am assuming she did the dirty on you!)
My wife (ex), asked me to leave over 5 years ago now as she was having an affair, and I had to leave my 1 year old son at the time, ( I am now relagated to seeing my son once a fortnight!) something I shall never forgive her for.
However, from that, I have had a few relationships,mistakes and more mistakes I now have what I consider to be the perfect partner. She is everything my ex wasn't, ie: honest, non materialistic, loving, open, I could go on,, but the best thing is, she loves TVRs!!! We are getting married in a few months, and I am very happy, which, with the benefit of hindsight, I wasn't happy with my marriage to my ex, but I could not leave purely because I love my son too much. How it panned out though was worth the agony I had to endure.
I think that if you are straight and honest with yourself and others, that will pay off in one form or another, and I'm sure one day (soon hopefully), you will feel the same.
Have I gone on too much!!!

Chris