Owning up to damaging someone's car.
Owning up to damaging someone's car.

Poll: Owning up to damaging someone's car.

Total Members Polled: 301

Leave a note/try to contact the owner.: 88%
Drive off without leaving a note.: 12%
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Discussion

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

83 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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If you accidently hit another parked car in a car park and caused some damage, lets assume you scratched the wing mirror and broke an indicator cover that was on the mirror, would you try to contact them or just drive off?

Balmoral Green

42,561 posts

277 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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Always.

Not that I make a habit of it, thinking about it, I've only ever caught another car once, about eight years ago.



Edited by Balmoral Green on Wednesday 8th September 11:56

wiliferus

4,214 posts

227 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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I really dont think PH is the right forum to be asking this question! I hope you have a good quality flame proof suit.... hehe

superlightr

12,920 posts

292 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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yes always.

Kozy

3,169 posts

247 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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Yes I have done when it has happened before.

Petrolhead_Rich

4,659 posts

221 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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always, but the number of dints/scuffs on my cars indicate that 99% of the population would not....

I have never been in this situation but my dad has (with me), took us 30 minutes to find the guy in a house round the corner.


Edited by Petrolhead_Rich on Wednesday 8th September 11:56

Mastodon2

14,324 posts

194 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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If through some cack-handed accident, I did damage someone else's car, I would leave a note or knock on their door. Some plank reversed into my brother's car, got out and inspected the damage to both cars and then drove off - shame for him we saw his numberplate. Would have been much easier and surely less humiliating just to have knocked on our door there and then, rather than be confronted with questioning as to why he left the scene of an accident.

TommyBuoy

1,298 posts

196 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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I reversed into a brand new A3 about three years ago in a car park - it was just gravel / field with no spaces at a show. Had to make a quick exit as I was late so jumped in the car and reversed out the space to find someone had parked an A3 in the road / access row to the rest of the cars.

Should have looked etc but I was inexperienced / rushing / not concerntrating etc.

Left a note with my number - old boy rang up, sent quotes, I sent a check for £300 odd and got one back for £200 odd as his mate did it as there was no structural damage to the bumper smile

I would hate to come back to my car and find damage - once did, but found the car with my paint in the same carpark - offered the guy a chance to own up or I'll request the CCTV - he paid for the repair biggrin

Edited by TommyBuoy on Wednesday 8th September 12:03

CampDavid

9,145 posts

227 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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Girlfriend scratched a neighbours bumper once. She wanted:

A new bumper
A full rear end respray

All had to be done at a main dealer, with a hire car and she wanted compensation for having to deal with it.

Therefore the general public can get fked.

Big Rod

6,265 posts

245 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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SWMBO rammed the towbar of her car through the grille of another car just before Christmas.

To be honest, the damage wasn't actually that noticeable, but it was what seemed to be a new car.

So I left a note hoping that the driver wouldn't care too much and leave it at that.

Turned out to be a main dealer's demonstrator and it had to be repaired to showroom spec'!! £250 later for the part and labour to fit it!!! :'(

Another one the bloke called me to thank me for leaving the note but not to worry about paying for the chip my son had caused on his door when the wind blew the door out of his hand.

I always leave a note. But it's always because of someone else.

magnus911

584 posts

218 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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I've had a couple of dings where people have scarpered afterward. That pissed me off. But the 3 worst ones have left a note, and I've felt slightly better disposed toward the human race immediately after.

I suppose I would do the same. But then it's unlikely to happen because I'm such an amazing driver. AMAZING.

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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I always write a note, the content of which is

'Witnesses think I'm leaving you a name and telephone number, but I'm not.'

cmackay81

9,251 posts

195 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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CampDavid said:
Girlfriend scratched a neighbours bumper once. She wanted:

A new bumper
A full rear end respray

All had to be done at a main dealer, with a hire car and she wanted compensation for having to deal with it.

Therefore the general public can get fked.
what happened with this, did she shell out much for it?

cheadle hulme

2,502 posts

211 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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I knocked the mirror of a BMW once as I passed a bit too close on a country lane. There was only 2 houses and nobody answering the door (maybe elderly or scared?)

There was no damage to the mirror, luckily it had pinged out of its housing. I put it back and left the scene.

Anymore damage and I'd leave a note, and record the reg though. Karma always come around.

daimatt

799 posts

264 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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Caught a people carrier pulling into a car parking space at ASDA and scratched the rear bumper and wing a little. Wrote a note with my number on it and as I put it under his windscreen wiper he returned to his car. I explained what had happened and just said, "Well, it's got so many already another one won't matter" and I never heard from him again. I think owning up has to be done, and sometimes I think the honesty helps reduce the punishment, karma and all that wink

edo

16,699 posts

294 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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To the 8% (currently). You are a sad bunch of s, and I hope an uninsured driver takes your wing mirrors off.

lazyitus

19,931 posts

295 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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Plotloss said:
I always write a note, the content of which is

'Witnesses think I'm leaving you a name and telephone number, but I'm not.'
hehe

Flintstone

8,644 posts

276 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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CampDavid said:
Girlfriend scratched a neighbours bumper once. She wanted:

A new bumper
A full rear end respray

All had to be done at a main dealer, with a hire car and she wanted compensation for having to deal with it.

Therefore the general public can get fked.
So you judge the entire populace by the actions of one person? What if people judged you on the basis of a meeting they once had with someone called David?

Generalisations, eh?

blindswelledrat

25,257 posts

261 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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edo said:
To the 8% (currently). You are a sad bunch of s, and I hope an uninsured driver takes your wing mirrors off.
To the 92%, my experience tells me a fair few of you are lying!

kambites

71,466 posts

250 months

Wednesday 8th September 2010
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blindswelledrat said:
To the 92%, my experience tells me a fair few of you are lying!
Been hit by a lot of PHers who haven't left notes then? hehe