odd experience at 6am!
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caymanred

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714 posts

210 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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just thought i would let you guys know about my morning!

so driving to work with my dad (him driving) at about 6ish, when we encounter a ford fiesta in the fast lane on the motorway...

hes doing an average speed, sees us coming up behind him (middle land is empty and nothing ahead for a while) and does not move over. my dad proceeds to flash him, and still no moving.

after a while we take him on the inside as its getting frustrating (naughty i know sorry frown ), where he then tries to speed up to block us from pasing (no chance in a 1.2 or whatever it was!), flashes a lot and speeds up to the back of the bumper for as long as he can manage.

so bit further a long the journey he ends up at traffic lights in the lane next to us at a red light. we see its him and obviously are both laughing away to ourselves. he then starts waving at the window, so we lower it. he then says the usual 'you got a problem mate', and we continue to laugh and say its a bit sad that he was so bothered and chasing, so he takes back something nasty with some nice noises and spits through the window! to say we were shocked was a big understatement!

has anyone ever had spitting through the window?!?!?! cant say i have ever seen that before!


and why does having to move one lane seem to difficult to some people, it seemed like a huge loss of ego/manhood to this guy!



rubbish rant i know sorry.... getmecoat

Edited by caymanred on Wednesday 13th October 10:45


Edited by caymanred on Wednesday 13th October 10:46

isee

3,713 posts

212 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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So the spit landed inside your dad's car???

isee

3,713 posts

212 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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musclecarmad said:
1. its not a fast lane the speed limit is still 70
2. you shouldn't have flashed him its aggressive and would get you pulled
3. you undertook him
4. you laughed in his face
5. he spat at you and you can't take it

sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.

But, yes, he shouldn't have been in lane 3.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
it's not a lane 3 either....

Edited by isee on Wednesday 13th October 10:50

RudeDog

1,669 posts

203 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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I have never had spitting through a window but I once overtook someone in a Rover 216 (the really old ones) in my Subaru Impreza Turbo (this was back in 1997). Without me realising, he followed me to a friends house who I was on my way to pick up. He pulled up along side me as I parked and through a lit cigarette through my window (I got to it before there was any damage).

I immediately jumped out of the car and chased him as he reversed to drive off. He got away but not without a size 10 imprint in his passenger door and a fist sized hole in the middle of his boot lid.

I wouldn't mind but I didn't even do anything illegal when I overtook him. I think he was just embarrassed because he was trying to drive fast.

caymanred

Original Poster:

714 posts

210 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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musclecarmad said:
caymanred said:
just thought i would let you guys know about my morning!

so driving to work with my dad (him driving) at about 6ish, when we encounter a ford fiesta in the fast lane on the motorway...

hes doing an average speed, sees us coming up behind him (middle land is empty and nothing ahead for a while) and does not move over. my dad proceeds to flash him, and still no moving.

after a while we take him on the inside as its getting frustrating (naughty i know sorry frown ), where he then tries to speed up to block us from pasing (no chance in a 1.2 or whatever it was!), flashes a lot and speeds up to the back of the bumper for as long as he can manage.

so bit further a long the journey he ends up at traffic lights in the lane next to us at a red light. we see its him and obviously are both laughing away to ourselves. he then starts waving at the window, so we lower it. he then says the usual 'you got a problem mate', and we continue to laugh and say its a bit sad that he was so bothered and chasing, so he takes back something nasty with some nice noises and spits through the window! to say we were shocked was a big understatement!

has anyone ever had spitting through the window?!?!?! cant say i have ever seen that before!
1. its not a fast lane the speed limit is still 70
2. you shouldn't have flashed him its aggressive and would get you pulled
3. you undertook him
4. you laughed in his face
5. he spat at you and you can't take it

sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.

But, yes, he shouldn't have been in lane 3.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
we would have been ready and waiting......im not a big guy but my dad sure is smile haha

but anyway thanks for pointing every pointless bit out except for the main point of the thread..... clap

RudeDog

1,669 posts

203 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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musclecarmad said:
sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.
Most people I know would have got out of the car and given him a pasting for spitting, me included. Especially if there were two of you and only one of him.

Edited a formatting cock-up

Edited by RudeDog on Wednesday 13th October 10:55

cmackay81

9,251 posts

195 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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musclecarmad said:
caymanred said:
just thought i would let you guys know about my morning!

so driving to work with my dad (him driving) at about 6ish, when we encounter a ford fiesta in the fast lane on the motorway...

hes doing an average speed, sees us coming up behind him (middle land is empty and nothing ahead for a while) and does not move over. my dad proceeds to flash him, and still no moving.

after a while we take him on the inside as its getting frustrating (naughty i know sorry frown ), where he then tries to speed up to block us from pasing (no chance in a 1.2 or whatever it was!), flashes a lot and speeds up to the back of the bumper for as long as he can manage.

so bit further a long the journey he ends up at traffic lights in the lane next to us at a red light. we see its him and obviously are both laughing away to ourselves. he then starts waving at the window, so we lower it. he then says the usual 'you got a problem mate', and we continue to laugh and say its a bit sad that he was so bothered and chasing, so he takes back something nasty with some nice noises and spits through the window! to say we were shocked was a big understatement!

has anyone ever had spitting through the window?!?!?! cant say i have ever seen that before!
1. its not a fast lane the speed limit is still 70
2. you shouldn't have flashed him its aggressive and would get you pulled
3. you undertook him
4. you laughed in his face
5. he spat at you and you can't take it

sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.

But, yes, he shouldn't have been in lane 3.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
^^^ someone hasn't had their shreddies this morning!

Yeah I agree, driver was an arse. probably looking for trouble IMO.
It wouldn't have mattered what you did; he would have reacted the same way. driving at 60 in the outer lane of an empty motorway is very odd behaviour.

In that situation if all three lanes were free I would have passed him on the nearside lane rather than middle to keep as much distance.
Flashing shouldn't be an issue, but people can be idiots these days. Next time, tell your dad to indicate to the right to show you are wanting to pass. works well for me.

did you get the reg plate of the car? i'd report him just for sh!ts and giggles :P

caymanred

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714 posts

210 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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RudeDog said:
musclecarmad said:
sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.
Most people I know would have got out of the car and given him a pasting for spitting, me included. Especially if there were two of you and only one of him.

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Edited by RudeDog on Wednesday 13th October 10:55
didnt want to carry the story on just incase someones watching...haha


just joking, didnt get a chance as he rolled his window up at the red light when my dad got out and walked over to it.

he was still shouting through the glass though! haha

and then spit again when dad got back in the car when he was safe again.haha



Edited by caymanred on Wednesday 13th October 11:03

caymanred

Original Poster:

714 posts

210 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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isee said:
So the spit landed inside your dad's car???
yes, the fking toe rag

Eddie the Ead

1,696 posts

237 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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musclecarmad said:
caymanred said:
just thought i would let you guys know about my morning!

so driving to work with my dad (him driving) at about 6ish, when we encounter a ford fiesta in the fast lane on the motorway...

hes doing an average speed, sees us coming up behind him (middle land is empty and nothing ahead for a while) and does not move over. my dad proceeds to flash him, and still no moving.

after a while we take him on the inside as its getting frustrating (naughty i know sorry frown ), where he then tries to speed up to block us from pasing (no chance in a 1.2 or whatever it was!), flashes a lot and speeds up to the back of the bumper for as long as he can manage.

so bit further a long the journey he ends up at traffic lights in the lane next to us at a red light. we see its him and obviously are both laughing away to ourselves. he then starts waving at the window, so we lower it. he then says the usual 'you got a problem mate', and we continue to laugh and say its a bit sad that he was so bothered and chasing, so he takes back something nasty with some nice noises and spits through the window! to say we were shocked was a big understatement!

has anyone ever had spitting through the window?!?!?! cant say i have ever seen that before!
1. its not a fast lane the speed limit is still 70
2. you shouldn't have flashed him its aggressive and would get you pulled
3. you undertook him
4. you laughed in his face
5. he spat at you and you can't take it

sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.

But, yes, he shouldn't have been in lane 3.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
Is this typical of PH responses now. It seems the high and mighty have taken over.

isee

3,713 posts

212 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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Hopefully the story ends with your dad getting out of the car and scaring that chav stless.

Agre with the previous comment though, if they are aware of their surroundings, indicating to the right will give them the message without the knee-jerk reaction. If they are unaware of their surroundings then falshing won't help either.

caymanred

Original Poster:

714 posts

210 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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isee said:
Hopefully the story ends with your dad getting out of the car and scaring that chav stless.

Agre with the previous comment though, if they are aware of their surroundings, indicating to the right will give them the message without the knee-jerk reaction. If they are unaware of their surroundings then falshing won't help either.
yeah i dont think he expected my dad to get out of the car! i guess he didnt expect a big bloke in a newish estate!

Mr Gearchange

5,892 posts

235 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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musclecarmad said:
caymanred said:
just thought i would let you guys know about my morning!

so driving to work with my dad (him driving) at about 6ish, when we encounter a ford fiesta in the fast lane on the motorway...

hes doing an average speed, sees us coming up behind him (middle land is empty and nothing ahead for a while) and does not move over. my dad proceeds to flash him, and still no moving.

after a while we take him on the inside as its getting frustrating (naughty i know sorry frown ), where he then tries to speed up to block us from pasing (no chance in a 1.2 or whatever it was!), flashes a lot and speeds up to the back of the bumper for as long as he can manage.

so bit further a long the journey he ends up at traffic lights in the lane next to us at a red light. we see its him and obviously are both laughing away to ourselves. he then starts waving at the window, so we lower it. he then says the usual 'you got a problem mate', and we continue to laugh and say its a bit sad that he was so bothered and chasing, so he takes back something nasty with some nice noises and spits through the window! to say we were shocked was a big understatement!

has anyone ever had spitting through the window?!?!?! cant say i have ever seen that before!
1. its not a fast lane the speed limit is still 70
2. you shouldn't have flashed him its aggressive and would get you pulled
3. you undertook him
4. you laughed in his face
5. he spat at you and you can't take it

sounds to me like you had a lucky escape - some people I know would have got out of their car and given both you and your dad a pasting.

But, yes, he shouldn't have been in lane 3.

Two wrongs don't make a right.
Sorry but bks - he was sat behind a tt who doesn't know what lane to drive in.

Flashing his lights isn't necessarily an aggressive move - he was simply alterting the moron to his presence.

He didn't necessarily undertake him. He moved past the vehicle in the inside lane - I don't read that he moved into lane 2, undertook him, then pulled back into the lane 3 as this would have been pointless and rather negated the original whinge about the idiots lane discipline.

Yes he laughed in his face - what else is he supposed to do when placed in that situation? Cower? Apologise for nothing? Shoot him?

Who can take being spat in the face? I have a very long fuse but that would illicit a very strong physical response from me I'm afraid.



Edited by Mr Gearchange on Wednesday 13th October 11:06

simonej

5,382 posts

209 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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As frustrating as it is, just pass them on the inside and be on your way. Save the stress.

Flashing your lights at them won't teach them a lesson, without sitting them down and explaining things to them they will just assume your flashes are an act of random aggression. It's sad but there's not much you can do other than hope that plod pulls them one day for it.

Fastra

4,289 posts

238 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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isee said:
it's not a lane 3 either....

Edited by isee on Wednesday 13th October 10:50
Is it not?

caymanred

Original Poster:

714 posts

210 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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simonej said:
As frustrating as it is, just pass them on the inside and be on your way. Save the stress.

Flashing your lights at them won't teach them a lesson, without sitting them down and explaining things to them they will just assume your flashes are an act of random aggression. It's sad but there's not much you can do other than hope that plod pulls them one day for it.
you say that though, but if he didnt realise i was there he could end up sideswiping the car. i agree with your point, just you never know with these people...

isee

3,713 posts

212 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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Fastra said:
isee said:
it's not a lane 3 either....

Edited by isee on Wednesday 13th October 10:50
Is it not?
I may be wrong but i believe it is called teh "outside lane"

Hugo a Gogo

23,437 posts

262 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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I wouldn't have bothered flashing etc
I'd have just carried on in lane 1 straight past him (as I did today with 2 idiots who both pulled straight out from the on-ramp, straight into lane 3)

GKP

15,099 posts

270 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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isee said:
Fastra said:
isee said:
it's not a lane 3 either....

Edited by isee on Wednesday 13th October 10:50
Is it not?
I may be wrong but i believe it is called teh "outside lane"
Yep, especially on a four lane motorway...

TommyBuoy

1,297 posts

196 months

Wednesday 13th October 2010
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I do alot of driving in the early hours at the weekend (read 2 or 3am) and the number of times I have had to cruise past cars on a dual carriage way using the inside lane is stupid - all at legal speed too.

Only ever had one person object to it despite me sitting behind them flashing and then indicating, very odd behaviour.