have you got to that stage...?
have you got to that stage...?
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Y282

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20,566 posts

192 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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got in the m3 this morning and the abs light is staying on.

a couple of years ago i'd have had it up in the air, all wheels off, checking sensors and mucking around, looking up diagnoses and whatnot. i just rang the specialist and booked it in instead.

i think i've got to an age/attitude with the car now of really, really not enjoying spannering on it anymore. if i have to do anything involving jacking it up or lying under it i don't want to know and yet i used to love all that.

has anyone else got like this and if so, where do you draw the line in the sand regarding what you will and wont attempt on your own car anymore?

powwerr

1,978 posts

192 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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if it involves more than taking a few plastic covers or a wheel then im out. Im more than capable, just detest working on cars.

cramped, cold, sweating, swearing, dirty, bleeding, cant reach, dont have right tool. Just stresses me out and because theres more than 1 car to choose, book the fooked one in and use the other.

simples.

toon10

6,929 posts

177 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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Y282 said:
got in the m3 this morning and the abs light is staying on.

a couple of years ago i'd have had it up in the air, all wheels off, checking sensors and mucking around, looking up diagnoses and whatnot. i just rang the specialist and booked it in instead.

i think i've got to an age/attitude with the car now of really, really not enjoying spannering on it anymore. if i have to do anything involving jacking it up or lying under it i don't want to know and yet i used to love all that.

has anyone else got like this and if so, where do you draw the line in the sand regarding what you will and wont attempt on your own car anymore?
Yes, it is an age thing. At 17, my car was washed, polished and tinkered with every weekend. Now, I pay the Turks to wash it every 4 or 5 weeks and for everything else, there's the local garage. The older I get, the nicer my cars get and the less bothered I become about getting my hands oily.

I've also started shaving less despite grey bits appearing in my chin, picking my nose at work and not caring who is watching and referring to anyone under the age of 30 as a "young un".

:-)

Benny Saltstein

762 posts

233 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I have reached this point. Life, for me at least, is too short and whilst I could while away hours tinkering, its not worth the price of annoying my wife and family.

I guess its down to how much you value your time. In my case I'm lucky enough to have a good reliable and honest local garage who will do a better job than I ever could.

Chicane-UK

3,861 posts

205 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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Y282 said:
got in the m3 this morning and the abs light is staying on.

a couple of years ago i'd have had it up in the air, all wheels off, checking sensors and mucking around, looking up diagnoses and whatnot. i just rang the specialist and booked it in instead.

i think i've got to an age/attitude with the car now of really, really not enjoying spannering on it anymore. if i have to do anything involving jacking it up or lying under it i don't want to know and yet i used to love all that.

has anyone else got like this and if so, where do you draw the line in the sand regarding what you will and wont attempt on your own car anymore?
Most definitely. To be fair spannering was never in my mindset but I was very car proud. Work and life just seem to beat that enthusiasm out of you - I find it hard to find 1/10th the motivation I had just 5 years ago! frown

wolf1

3,091 posts

270 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I work On the damn things everyday hence the reason why i drive round in a shed. Whatever is broken can wait till it stops the car working or just plain falls off.

Caulkhead

4,938 posts

177 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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For me it depends - if it's on a Land Rover I'll probably have a go myself because everything is simple, there's plenty of room to work and I often enjoy it. If it's any of my other vehicles they'll be into the dealer.

BliarOut

72,863 posts

259 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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Would you pay another man to fk your wife?

M3333

2,321 posts

234 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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Yup i have totally reached this stage. Had many an old banger over the years and really enjoyed diy mechanics when younger. These days i also have an M3 and know a very good specialist, i try not to get my hands dirty unless stuck on the side of the road - which buying Munichs finest i certainly never hope to do!!

Cold wet weekends taking the skin off my knuckles does not appeal anymore...

toast boy

1,242 posts

246 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I'm going the other way, the older I get the more I'm prepared to tackle. I think though that's a combination of having a workshop with an ever expanding selection of tools and just enough free time in the workshop to do jobs on my own cars.

Some things though I do still leave to my local garage as they are very competent and charge me very little for what they do. Stuff like changing the clutch they can do massively faster than I can and it's not really a job I'd get much satisfaction out of doing.

I think my outlook might differ if I had more modern cars though, a lot of the new stuff is so tightly packaged that it's just no fun to work on whatsoever and everything seems to have an ECU that can malfunction.

crofty1984

16,678 posts

224 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I have limited space and only 1 car so I don't do anything more than service the car really.
I'm doing all the work on my boat though. Except the canopy.

B.J.W

5,849 posts

235 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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Confession time.

I paid for Halfords to fix the front wipers onto my A6 the other day because I really couldn't be arsed with the hassle of doing it myself.

I know, I should be ashamed.

98elise

30,905 posts

181 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I gave up after trying to do the cam belt on a mk2 mondeo. The wheel had to come off, the arch liner out, and an engine mount off. I fought with it for a couple of hours in the baking sun, the called a specialist.

They quoted £90 if I was supplying a ford belt. I was with them 20 minutes later smile

Ozzie Osmond

21,189 posts

266 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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Some things are best left to the experts....

But I do all the simple stuff like oil changes and checks myself; things where you can just go and buy a new part and bolt it on; or minor bodywork corrections.

Y282

Original Poster:

20,566 posts

192 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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thing with this is, it's an abs light. i could spend all weekend poncing about with all 4 wheels off and it could still turn out to be a relay or some other electrickery.

if they diagnose it and tell me which bit it is, i'd consider doing it myself but i'm not fault diagnosing.

Jasandjules

71,669 posts

249 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I haven't tinkered with my own cars since I got my first MR2. Anything that wasn't a fiesta or some other cheap and nasty machine isn't going to be worked on by me in case I f**k it up.....


RizzoTheRat

27,560 posts

212 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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I use to do everything but modern cars have got a lot more complicated. The girlfiends got a T plate Fester so I tend to do most of the work on that (although I've wimped out of doing the valve clearances due on the latest service), but on the Octavia I'll probably do stuff like pads and oil changes but let the local dealer (who has a good reputation according to the owners forum) do the rest.

I do all the work on our bikes, and over the alst few years have done stuff like piston rings and valve stem seals, but I did have to visit a shop to get one of the head race bearings out that I couldn't budge.





BliarOut said:
Would you pay another man to fk your wife?
M3333 said:
Yup i have totally reached this stage.
If you put up some photos I'm sure we can work something out biggrin

shirt

24,895 posts

221 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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depends what it is. i am pretty handy with the spanners but there's certain jobs i just know are gonna be more trouble than they're worth. most of us will, at some point, been outside in the cold at 10pm with the floodlight on because the job has taken wayyyy longer than expected and you need the car for work in the morning.

however, working environment and the right tools make a huge difference. if i had a garage, a 2 post lift and a fully stocked tool chest things would be easier.


Y282

Original Poster:

20,566 posts

192 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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shirt said:
depends what it is. i am pretty handy with the spanners but there's certain jobs i just know are gonna be more trouble than they're worth. most of us will, at some point, been outside in the cold at 10pm with the floodlight on because the job has taken wayyyy longer than expected and you need the car for work in the morning.

however, working environment and the right tools make a huge difference. if i had a garage, a 2 post lift and a fully stocked tool chest things would be easier.
dead on.

mgmrw

20,951 posts

177 months

Wednesday 21st September 2011
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powwerr said:
if it involves more than taking a few plastic covers or a wheel then im out. Im more than capable, just detest working on cars.

cramped, cold, sweating, swearing, dirty, bleeding, cant reach, dont have right tool. Just stresses me out and because theres more than 1 car to choose, book the fooked one in and use the other.

simples.
yes my dad does this. Years ago he'd tackle all sorts on his cars...... Servicing, paint work, anything really (depending on which vehicle).

Now, changing a wheel if he's got a flat is pushing the boundaries. He ran the XK8 with a slow puncture for 3 weeks before even bothering to get it plugged.

And as he's out of practice, anything he tries to do, results in bad mood and bad job done