Thanking cars stopped at traffic lights
Thanking cars stopped at traffic lights
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harrysmith2

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10 posts

162 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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Hello fellow powerfully built dictators and CEOs of the round table of PH, I must admit to having developed a slightly irritating habbit (for the car drivers that is) of "thanking" cars that have stopped at traffic lights. This is done by raising my hand to the drivers, who are sitting ducks as I walk past them so they cannot help but see this irritating gesture of mine. It does occasionally garner an approving nod or palm up from the steering wheel, but mostly elicits a bemused look on the victims face. What does the rest of the fellowship make of this?

TheHeretic

73,668 posts

275 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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I normally do a little wave when cars stop so I can cross the road. Never when the lights are red, and they have no choice. You are clearly an odd fellow, and should be locked up.

Willy Nilly

12,511 posts

187 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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If you are talking about crossing pedestrian crossings then a wave and a smile always goes down well with me and I normally make eye contact with drivers when I cross the road on foot.

fozzymandeus

1,076 posts

166 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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If you really want to thank them and make them feel valued, sit down in the road in front of their cars and start taking photographs of them with your phone.

Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,918 posts

236 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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If the lights are a junction where they go red anyway, no.

At a pelican crossing - if there's more than just me waiting to cross - again no.

If I'm waiting at a pelican crossing by myself, and as a car comes driving up, the lights go red because I've pressed the button - then yeah, I usually pop a little wave and a smile.

Always wave and smile nicely if someone stops and lets me cross at a zebra.


cuprabob

17,594 posts

234 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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I do this at Zebra Crossings as I know the driver has a choice

harrysmith2

Original Poster:

10 posts

162 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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Just to clarify, we are talking about Pelican crossings, the ones where you press the button and the lights change for you.

Eighteeteewhy

7,259 posts

188 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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Zebras - yes

Pelicans - no

Hippos - sometimes

Timberwolf

5,374 posts

238 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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It's not irritating (as a car driver), it's sort of nice for someone to acknowledge there's a human being behind the wheel who had to make a little effort - even if they technically had to. I do the same at zebra crossings and the like, and also when in the car if someone stops where I had the priority anyway. Given the number of selfish drivers and impatient idiots about, I like to think of it as a "thanks for not being a dick" signal.

Doing it for cars already stopped at a red light unrelated to a pedestrian crossing is a little weird, though.

TheHeretic

73,668 posts

275 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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harrysmith2 said:
Just to clarify, we are talking about Pelican crossings, the ones where you press the button and the lights change for you.
Normal run of the mill traffic lights - No
Zebra crossing - Yes
Pelican crossing - Yes

Basically, if I have inconvenienced them, I give them a wave, be it waiting on a zebra, or pressing a button on a pelican.

ShampooEfficient

4,278 posts

231 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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From the other point of view - we should be entitled to mow people down if they don't thank you, when you've stopped to allow them to cross the road, say in slow moving traffic.

John D.

19,859 posts

229 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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I don't get thanking cars stopping at zebra crossings in most normal circumstances. They are only obeying the rules of the road after all.

TheHeretic

73,668 posts

275 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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John D. said:
I don't get thanking cars stopping at zebra crossings in most normal circumstances. They are only obeying the rules of the road after all.
It is the rules of the road, yes, but they are stopping for you. I have no issue.

John D.

19,859 posts

229 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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TheHeretic said:
It is the rules of the road, yes, but they are stopping for you. I have no issue.
Do you wave and smile at other drivers giving way on a roundabout for instance? They are stopping for you just the same.

TheHeretic

73,668 posts

275 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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John D. said:
Do you wave and smile at other drivers giving way on a roundabout for instance? They are stopping for you just the same.
No, but I will wave if someone stops to allow me through a narrow road, even if the laws of the land say I have right of way.

John D.

19,859 posts

229 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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TheHeretic said:
No, but I will wave if someone stops to allow me through a narrow road, even if the laws of the land say I have right of way.
Sure. That makes sense. Bit of different scenario that to me, less clear cut.


DonkeyApple

65,436 posts

189 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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harrysmith2 said:
Hello fellow powerfully built dictators and CEOs of the round table of PH, I must admit to having developed a slightly irritating habbit (for the car drivers that is) of "thanking" cars that have stopped at traffic lights. This is done by raising my hand to the drivers, who are sitting ducks as I walk past them so they cannot help but see this irritating gesture of mine. It does occasionally garner an approving nod or palm up from the steering wheel, but mostly elicits a bemused look on the victims face. What does the rest of the fellowship make of this?
Have you contemplated adding to your repertoire?

I can highly recommend also pointing to the front of their car and making a strange hand signal that makes no sense. This results in them driving away trying to work out what is wrong with the front of their car from your abstract gesture.

wolfy1988

1,426 posts

183 months

Pig Skill

1,368 posts

223 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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A bit silly OP but there's nothing wrong with being polite and friendly.

Hoofy

79,132 posts

302 months

Tuesday 12th June 2012
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Eighteeteewhy said:
Zebras - yes

Pelicans - no

Hippos - sometimes