Never get a shared ownership car.
Never get a shared ownership car.
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ED209

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6,013 posts

271 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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Well I have an old mx5 shared 50/50 with my dad, its red and last week i noticed he has had a massive decal put on the bonnet saying "rust-eeze racing" in an effort to look like lightning mcqueen for cars in order to please my 2 1/2 year old nephew who is obsessed with the film. I understand his reasons for doing this but we had a frank discussion about asking in future before he does anything to make the car look crap.

So fast forward to today I go to see him to find out he has replaced the oem wheels i spent a couple of days refurbing last month with some new ripspeed bling alloys from halfrauds wearing some nangkang ditchfinder tyres. The oem alloys had perfectly good dunlop tyres on them. No doubt these new alloys will weigh about 3 times what the oem ones do and the tyres will be lethal in the wet. He has done the new wheels.tyres at his expense but why?

To say I am pissed off by this is a bit of an understatement especially as only a week earlier we had the discussion about not tampering with the car without me knowing. Now i will have to drive round looking like some deranged barry boy every time i use the car and he has probably ruined the handling.

Watchman

6,391 posts

272 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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Your title says it all.

SystemParanoia

14,343 posts

225 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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make him buy you out of your 50%

Motorrad

6,811 posts

214 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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He's your Dad, more than likely a top fella, if a little 'off message'. Tell him you'd like him to have the car and NEVER EVER get involved again. Otherwise it will do your head in, you'll have to drive some P.O.S. and you will risk offending one of the best blokes you'll ever know if it all comes to a head.

Butter Face

34,451 posts

187 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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I'd be livid.

Buy a cheap as chips one yourself and enjoy as is.

ED209

Original Poster:

6,013 posts

271 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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Having thought about it, i suppose i now have a set of alloys and tyres i could use on a track if i was of that persuasion.

m444ttb

3,180 posts

256 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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I owned a car jointly with my ex 9 years ago. Never again. Definitely a contributing factor to that relationship ending.

That said technically I suppose I now own 3 cars 50:50 along with a house and 2 cats. Mrs B is welcome to the cats though.

AlexKing

613 posts

185 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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ED209 said:
Having thought about it, i suppose i now have a set of alloys and tyres i could use on a track if i was of that persuasion.
That's the spirit! Take it to a track / disused car park and rag the tits off of it until the thing's running on rims and the ditchfinder supremes are naught but dust. then do it some more. Then give it back to your dad. If you and your dad are grown up enough to be driving, he should be comfortably old enough to know better. You'll be doing him a favour.

wink

BoRED S2upid

21,028 posts

267 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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What's he done with the alloys? I'd be showing him articles on turbo conversations.

balls-out

3,794 posts

258 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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I've owned a race mini, land rover and range rover classic with a mate.
Saved a fortune and somebody to help fix it.
It worked for us.
Been considering a proper cobra replica next.

4key

11,905 posts

175 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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I would print out a poster with his picture on it and a strap line of 'DO NOT SERVE THIS MAN' and hand it out at local Halfords before you end up with a big gay wing and ripspeed shiney bits hehe

Vitorio

4,296 posts

170 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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Never get a shared ownership car together with someone who isnt willing to keep his end of the deal, i.e. discuss any mods.

As for the mx-5, i'd say try to get your dad to buy you out and buy something fun yourself

Bisonhead

1,598 posts

216 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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Motorrad said:
He's your Dad, more than likely a top fella, if a little 'off message'. Tell him you'd like him to have the car and NEVER EVER get involved again. Otherwise it will do your head in, you'll have to drive some P.O.S. and you will risk offending one of the best blokes you'll ever know if it all comes to a head.
Are you his dad? wink

AlexKing

613 posts

185 months

Wednesday 22nd August 2012
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Motorrad said:
He's your Dad, more than likely a top fella, if a little 'off message'. Tell him you'd like him to have the car and NEVER EVER get involved again. Otherwise it will do your head in, you'll have to drive some P.O.S. and you will risk offending one of the best blokes you'll ever know if it all comes to a head.
You're making some pretty big assumptions there...

ED209

Original Poster:

6,013 posts

271 months

Thursday 23rd August 2012
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These are the tyres that are on,

http://www.camskill.co.uk/m53b115s99p545/Nankang_T...

They actually get mixed reviews, most positive but some that make them out to be worse than ebola.

I think the wheels are ripspeed nurburgs, though im not sure as i was a bit too angry to check properly.



Now i think i might go and get the car and use it for work today, theres heavy rain forecast for tonight, might be a good chance to test the alledgedly dodgy wet grip.

And yes my dad is a top fella! I would however rather him waste his money on some coilovers or a roll bar.

matthias73

2,901 posts

177 months

Thursday 23rd August 2012
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Well I share a house and a car with my mum. As do a lot of people my age.

Can't say I've ever had a problem with her trying to fit halfords tat though. hehe

gtdc

4,259 posts

310 months

Thursday 23rd August 2012
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DNA test now. Then phone ChildLine. Your mother has some explaining to do. This man is not your father.

Boydie88

3,283 posts

176 months

Thursday 23rd August 2012
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Lightning McQueen can be cool...


Stinkfoot

2,245 posts

219 months

Thursday 23rd August 2012
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ED209 said:
These are the tyres that are on,

http://www.camskill.co.uk/m53b115s99p545/Nankang_T...

They actually get mixed reviews, most positive but some that make them out to be worse than ebola.

I think the wheels are ripspeed nurburgs, though im not sure as i was a bit too angry to check properly.



Now i think i might go and get the car and use it for work today, theres heavy rain forecast for tonight, might be a good chance to test the alledgedly dodgy wet grip.

And yes my dad is a top fella! I would however rather him waste his money on some coilovers or a roll bar.
They aint that bad. I ran them on my M5 with no problems at all in all weathers.

monthefish

20,467 posts

258 months

Thursday 23rd August 2012
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Stinkfoot said:
ED209 said:
These are the tyres that are on,

http://www.camskill.co.uk/m53b115s99p545/Nankang_T...

They actually get mixed reviews, most positive but some that make them out to be worse than ebola.

Now i think i might go and get the car and use it for work today, theres heavy rain forecast for tonight, might be a good chance to test the alledgedly dodgy wet grip.

And yes my dad is a top fella! I would however rather him waste his money on some coilovers or a roll bar.
They aint that bad. I ran them on my M5 with no problems at all in all weathers.
yikes

They have shocking grip on the wet. I tried some on the rears of a E36 328i and the wet grip was comical/downright lethal, depending on your viewpoint.


OP - if the ownership is 50:50, how do you decide whose modifications are right?

I've actually considered buying an MX-5 and deliberately putting Nankangs on the rear, so you should just get out there an enjoy it. In the wet, it will be like driving on ice.