Things that make you think, 'Good job fella!'
Things that make you think, 'Good job fella!'
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Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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This may have been done before but I got to thinking that there're plenty of threads inviting us to vent our spleen regarding 'bad' motoring skills and having borne witness to a bit of 'good' driving I thought I'd open the door to give praise.

I was encouraged to do this from having witnessed someone on the A1 this morning driving a Lancia Thema, (I'll admit that approaching it I thought it was a Saab!), but whoever it was seemed to be very aware of their surroundings and other traffic, especially considering the very wet conditions.

They, (I say 'they' as it was dark and couldn't make out their gender.), were making good progress and kept good space between themselves and vehicles in front. When I changed lanes to overtake them I realised they were gaining on the vehicle in front of them so 'flashed' to indicate they were clear to pull out...

Not only did they have the decency to indicate briefly to the left to allow me to pass, they managed to gracefully maintain their distance without braking then pull out behind me once I'd 'pressed on'.

Nothing special, but I think if more people conducted themselves in this way the roads would be a much more pleasant and safer place to be.

Go on then, take the p155!!!

Bisonhead

1,598 posts

219 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

I started one a few months ago...didn't last too long although it had positive comments, I think people appreciate a good moan over praise at the moment. I blame the government smile

Edited by Bisonhead on Monday 26th November 21:33

Pints

18,451 posts

224 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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It always feels good to get a thank you gesture from a motorcyclist when you acknowledge them and give extra space.

Just makes them come across as better road users.

Blayney

2,949 posts

216 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Pints said:
It always feels good to get a thank you gesture from a motorcyclist when you acknowledge them and give extra space.

Just makes them come across as better road users.
I always indicate left and maintain a constant speed if a motorcyclist indicates they are passing, they never fail to give a thank you wave. Good lads.

Jasandjules

72,607 posts

259 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Yes, I often flash people when I know they are going to need to overtake so they can go, it's amazing how many don't notice, so I have to wait until I see them check the side mirror too.. THEN they go....

And every now and again someone does it for me - I always give a thanks!

I also will move over in my lane to let motocyclists filtering through - almost invariably get a thanks for that too.


Mysterae

93 posts

171 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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It's the little things. For example when you are on a not so busy motorway and you are in the middle lane making progress, overtaking others. Then you see a car in lane 1 that is gaining on it's car/lorry in front and you anticipate they'll be wanting out before they even think it. You move over to lane 3 so they can get out. That little wave or thumbs up of appreciation from the receiving driver goes a long way.

Un-moaned!





Edited by Mysterae on Monday 26th November 22:35

SMGB

790 posts

169 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Jasandjules said:
Yes, I often flash people when I know they are going to need to overtake so they can go, it's amazing how many don't notice, so I have to wait until I see them check the side mirror too.. THEN they go....

And every now and again someone does it for me - I always give a thanks!

I also will move over in my lane to let motocyclists filtering through - almost invariably get a thanks for that too.
You need to be careful about this on the A40 as you often get bikes passing on both sides at once, and not at sensible filter speeds either.
Oh sorry, not supposed to moan on this thread.

Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Bisonhead said:
http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

I started one a few months ago...didn't last too long although it had positive comments, I think people appreciate a good moan over praise at the moment. I blame the government smile

Edited by Bisonhead on Monday 26th November 21:33
It is a shame.

I do enjoy sharing space with 'good' drivers. Sadly...

<moan>
Good driving seems to go relatively un-noticed.
</moan>

Some may slate this but I've frequently been in 'ad-hoc' convoys of four or five cars on motorways where it's quite obvious we all know the 'rules' and (ab)use them accordingly AND safely. It's a lovely thing to be part of.

Similarly on 'A' roads where you can tell 'drivers', by the positioning of their vehicles in any given situation to allow visibility, overtaking and advertise their intentions.

I'm far away from being the best but I do consider 'driving' to be somewhat of an art form.


Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Mysterae said:
More often they are oblivious to you or your gesture. Or you are the driver wanting out and the fecker doesn't switch when they can so easily do so.
No moanin'!!! tongue out

Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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SMGB said:
Oh sorry, not supposed to moan on this thread.
Right on!! thumbup

Baz Tench

5,648 posts

220 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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I was in lane 3 one day on the M6, and every lane was busy and all flowing at about 40mph maximum. I saw a bike approaching from behind, filtering between lanes 2 and 3.

I was in the van, which has no rear windows, but I had clocked him in the passenger mirror. As he reached me, a gap opened in the middle lane and he hesitated as he wasn't sure if I knew he was there or not. I flicked my right indicator on for a couple of flashes and he nodded his head and came through. Gave me a big thumbs-up.

I agree, Little moments like that make tedious journeys like that a little more satisfying.

Big News

1,937 posts

209 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Big Rod said:
Some may slate this but I've frequently been in 'ad-hoc' convoys of four or five cars on motorways where it's quite obvious we all know the 'rules' and (ab)use them accordingly AND safely. It's a lovely thing to be part of.
yes

If I'm on a long motorway journey I'll often find a 'motorway friend' in front who seems to want to go at the same pace and will generally have the same driving style as me. Tacking yourself onto them is quite good fun and somewhat therapeutic, ha.

RyanDD

96 posts

181 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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I'm all for thanking motorists who let me out of a junction, or change of lane on a motorway.

Its nice to get the occasional thank you in return, it lifts the mood a bit. so always give a flash of the hazards or a wave to say thanks folks.

Big Rod

Original Poster:

6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Bisonhead said:
http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

I started one a few months ago...didn't last too long although it had positive comments, I think people appreciate a good moan over praise at the moment. I blame the government smile

Edited by Bisonhead on Monday 26th November 21:33
Sorry bud', I had no intention of stealing your thunder. I just hadn't seen it. wink

Baz Tench

5,648 posts

220 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Big News said:
Big Rod said:
Some may slate this but I've frequently been in 'ad-hoc' convoys of four or five cars on motorways where it's quite obvious we all know the 'rules' and (ab)use them accordingly AND safely. It's a lovely thing to be part of.
yes

If I'm on a long motorway journey I'll often find a 'motorway friend' in front who seems to want to go at the same pace and will generally have the same driving style as me. Tacking yourself onto them is quite good fun and somewhat therapeutic, ha.
Had this too. During the early hours usually. smile

Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Big News said:
yes

If I'm on a long motorway journey I'll often find a 'motorway friend' in front who seems to want to go at the same pace and will generally have the same driving style as me. Tacking yourself onto them is quite good fun and somewhat therapeutic, ha.
Oh yes it is!

It's also nice when you've stopped for fuel/refreshments and a few miles down the rod you catch up with them 'cos they've done the same thing at another 'station'.

While I have no problems with keeping focus I find that having a 'mate' makes it easier and mutually beneficial.

I once drove from Pompeii to Rome in convoy with a couple of other, (known), like minded individuals, and while it was a little frantic at times, we all instinctively knew what the other one was thinking.

OK, driving in Italy is fast anyway, but sharing the road with some people on the same wavelength is absolute bliss.

Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Baz Tench said:
Big News said:
Big Rod said:
Some may slate this but I've frequently been in 'ad-hoc' convoys of four or five cars on motorways where it's quite obvious we all know the 'rules' and (ab)use them accordingly AND safely. It's a lovely thing to be part of.
yes

If I'm on a long motorway journey I'll often find a 'motorway friend' in front who seems to want to go at the same pace and will generally have the same driving style as me. Tacking yourself onto them is quite good fun and somewhat therapeutic, ha.
Had this too. During the early hours usually. smile
Acknowledged and agreed! wink

You find you swap places on a frequent basis too?

I do. I think it's a subconsconscious thing of sharing responsibility. Whether it be lead or 'wing man' everyone takes a turn.

Edited by Big Rod on Monday 26th November 22:20

Dog Star

17,608 posts

198 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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I always give a little cheer when I see someone undertake a "fast lane" hog on the motorway. Good on 'em, I say!

Mysterae

93 posts

171 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Big Rod said:
No moanin'!!! tongue out
Sorry!

Big Rod

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6,265 posts

246 months

Monday 26th November 2012
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Dog Star said:
I always give a little cheer when I see someone undertake a "fast lane" hog on the motorway. Good on 'em, I say!
As long as it's done safely and considerately then great! angel