Roadside shrines

Poll: Roadside shrines

Total Members Polled: 337

No, I don't want one. : 83%
Yes, it would please me: 3%
Not bothered : 14%
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GTIR

Original Poster:

24,741 posts

295 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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We've all seen them (sadly maybe even built one) at the side of roads. Complete with crosses, flowers, teddy bears and heartfelt messages of love. frown

What does PH think of these shrines to lost family members?
Would you like one in the unfortunate event you're killed on our roads?

Personally I'd be horrified my family members were putting themselves in danger at the exact spot I was killed!
"Yeah, let's all stand at the side of an obvious dangerous road!"

Or does it serve as a reminder to slow down or not drink drive or take care whilst driving?

Jim the Sunderer

3,261 posts

211 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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It's a bit common, like a trampoline in the back garden.

forzaminardi

2,298 posts

216 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Good answer, Jim. I like your style.

McWigglebum4th

32,414 posts

233 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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We have one at the end near us where we join the dual carriageway.

Yes nothing sayes we remember you like a 3 year old dirty torn dundee football top draped over a cable marker

http://goo.gl/maps/lLZ0V


coppice

9,716 posts

173 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Tasteless ,ghastly and mawkish crap. By the way, PH , it should be a crack team of hamsters IS counting the votes.

Chaffs

247 posts

216 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Certainly don't want people thinking "how on earth did he do himself a mischief on this stretch of road - what a lack of driving talent!"

Snowboy

8,028 posts

180 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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In France they put out black silhouettes of people.
Full size, men, women and children.

It's not a shrine afaik, but a warning to other drivers that it's a potentially dangerous stretch of road.

It's quite sombre to see so many of them on some stretches.


As for the shrines here.
I hate seeing the neglected - it's very sad.
Like people have stopped caring.

Mr2Mike

20,143 posts

284 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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coppice said:
By the way, PH , it should be a crack team of hamsters IS counting the votes.
Quite. I'm pleased someone has the balls to discuss the important issue here.

Triumph Man

9,586 posts

197 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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I've said before to my Dad (and he has said the same to me) that if I bugger it up and die, I don't want a memorial. 1. it's tacky 2. I don't want people to drive by and say "how did he manage to fk up there?!"

Mr Will

13,719 posts

235 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Mr2Mike said:
coppice said:
By the way, PH , it should be a crack team of hamsters IS counting the votes.
Quite. I'm pleased someone has the balls to discuss the important issue here.
If only it was a team of crack hamsters instead. The counting would be done so much quicker...

jmorgan

36,010 posts

313 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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If you were going to have one, then a Del Boy special in day glo please.

Megaflow

11,505 posts

254 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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There is one near me which always struck me as the height of stupidity. A chap was run over crossing the road, his relatives are still maintaining the shrine today, including crossing the road to do so...

silly

https://www.google.co.uk/maps/@52.670078,-0.312003...

Dr Interceptor

8,183 posts

225 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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When I worked in Old Woking, the regular drive across from Mytchett to Pirbright over the ranges saw lots of shrines - usually surrounding a tree that has a piece of bark missing. Some came and went, others were maintained on a more permanent basis.

For me they served as a reminder of how fragile life is, and probably slowed me down a bit on a few occasions.

If I ever bite the bullet wrapped around a tree, and my family want to stick something there which in turn slows someone down and prevents another fatality, then I'm happy for them to do it.


HumbleJim

28,989 posts

212 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Very common on the mountain roads in Greece, these are permanent however (with a picture of the deceased and candles etc). Some tight hairpins have a whole collection of them.

Me no thanks.

morebeanz

3,283 posts

265 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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There are over seven billion people on this planet, why mark the passing of one of them? My passing will be important only to a few.

We have such inflated views of the importance of individual lives frankly...

TooMany2cvs

29,008 posts

155 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Chaffs said:
Certainly don't want people thinking "how on earth did he do himself a mischief on this stretch of road - what a lack of driving talent!"
This.

Let's face it, most of them get you wondering exactly how f'witted the deceased was being at the time...

deltashad

6,731 posts

226 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Theres loads of them in Romania. Not the best drivers. It wouldn't bother me as I would be dead so opinion doesn't matter.

But I dont see the point in them. Imagine if they put a shrine everywhere someone died?

Bizarre

y2blade

56,318 posts

244 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Jim the Sunderer said:
It's a bit common, like a trampoline in the back garden.
yes

hehe

LovesSweetExile

22,722 posts

263 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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I want a sign that says; "LOVESSWEETEXILE RAN OUT OF TALENT HERE."

Bisonhead

1,598 posts

218 months

Tuesday 25th February 2014
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Several on the A1307 from Cambridge to Haverhill. They are always meticulously maintained and have been there for a good 4 years.
I do often wonder if it is the local authority who maintain them with the family's permission. Especially seeing as the road is considered a 'High Risk' route with signs telling you how many casualties there were.

Not for me though. I would hope that if my family thought of remembering me that way they would soon realise that I would have thought it an especially tacky and careless tribute to my life.
One down the road from me was decorated for christmas with tinsel, christmas tree and presents. Poor person must be spinning in their grave!