Automotive narcissism or influencer syndrome?
Automotive narcissism or influencer syndrome?
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ChrisH79

Original Poster:

255 posts

43 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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Over the past couple of months I’ve joined a few car related groups on the book of faces. There appears to be a theme in a few of them with people constantly asking if anyone has taken pictures of their car in a specific place or at a meet.

Why do they care? They can see their own car whenever they like and in any setting they drive to, am I just so out of touch with social media or for some is being seen to own a nice car more important than driving it?

Simon_GH

996 posts

109 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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I think it’s a sign of the times for some people. Some film music concerts on their phone rather than enjoy the moment. Holidays can become about insta photos rather than pleasure. It’s the age of social media.

hungry_hog

2,898 posts

217 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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The solution here is to leave "Book of Faces" and hence avoid such people...

Nickp82

3,950 posts

122 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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hungry_hog said:
The solution here is to leave "Book of Faces" and hence avoid such people...
But how will he be kept up to date with when all the other members of the car groups have washed their car?

Every day a journey

3,125 posts

67 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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Social media is s***

BUG4LIFE

2,516 posts

247 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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Or, even better, pay attention to the posts that you care about and ignore the rest. People that have a problem with FB and FB groups seem to struggle with this. I’m a member of many many groups. They’ve been very helpful. I just scroll by all the BS. Oh, except when Jaguar released their crazy branding ad, I enjoyed poking certain people!

Mr Penguin

4,686 posts

68 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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ChrisH79 said:
Over the past couple of months I’ve joined a few car related groups on the book of faces. There appears to be a theme in a few of them with people constantly asking if anyone has taken pictures of their car in a specific place or at a meet.

Why do they care? They can see their own car whenever they like and in any setting they drive to, am I just so out of touch with social media or for some is being seen to own a nice car more important than driving it?
Some people like to keep a folder of the car's history. Most people asking will just want attention but some may be asking because they want some different pictures for their folder.
Naturally, the proportion of people doing it for each reason will vary based on which type of car/group it is.

911Spanker

3,634 posts

45 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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Every day a journey said:
Social media is s***
And people are morons

Legacywr

15,611 posts

217 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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It’s a big stretch to identify it as narcissism.

119

19,848 posts

65 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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Every day a journey said:
Social media is s***
scratchchin

fflump

3,490 posts

67 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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Every day a journey said:
Social media is s***
Social media is like every other communication or entertainment medium in this their are elements one perceives to be st and others we find interesting and worthwhile. It’s utterly pointless getting worked up about the content one finds subjectively annoying or irrelevant.

LordHaveMurci

12,336 posts

198 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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119 said:
Every day a journey said:
Social media is s***
scratchchin
rofl

Save Ferris

2,738 posts

242 months

Saturday 10th May 2025
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ChrisH79 said:
Over the past couple of months I’ve joined a few car related groups on the book of faces. There appears to be a theme in a few of them with people constantly asking if anyone has taken pictures of their car in a specific place or at a meet.

Why do they care? They can see their own car whenever they like and in any setting they drive to, am I just so out of touch with social media or for some is being seen to own a nice car more important than driving it?
It happens every day on the Caffeine & Machine FB group!

“Did anyone get any photos of my (insert distinctly average car) I left my phone at home” (blatant lie)