I am a C*ck for not giving way to a pedestrian.

I am a C*ck for not giving way to a pedestrian.

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Tuvra

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7,926 posts

240 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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Ill just show you the scene:

I had just visited the bank and was parked where the BMW is (lower right corner), I check my mirrors and pull out, In the distance (in the corner of the bus stop marking) I see a bloke making progress into the road so I ease off expecting him to jog, he acknowledges me and goes to stop, I in turn go to accelerate again only for him to continue walking again. This is like that thing where you "dance" with someone in the street, you go right, they go right etc.

In the end I just stopped and let him walk in front of me - I gave him a look of bemusement as in "what are you doing? you clearly seen me and this is a road" he then starts gobbing off something at me rather angrily, he moves out of the way so I wind the window down to hear his opinion. It was at this point I noticed how tasty the guy looked, a 45-50 yo old school doorman type. The exchange went a little something like this:

Him: “What are you doing? You could see me crossing the road you d*ck!”
Me: “You also seen me coming why did you continue to walk in front of me?”
Him: “I had already started crossing the road, If I am in the road already its my f*cking right away not yours”
Me: “That’s funny, I thought roads were for cars, theres also a pedestrian crossing 20 metres away (by the saab in the pic) and you were not actually in the road, you were in the bus stop”
Him: “IT WAS MY RIGHT AWAY – I WAS ALREADY IN THE ROAD YOU F*CKING C*CK”

To which I just laughed and pulled off. Considering it was only 20m away from where I pulled off you can imagine the speed involved (15mph max) so it wernt as If I really gunned for him. And the turn of events clearly showed that I had acknowledged the threat he posed by slowing first and then eventually stopping.

Did he actually have the right away?

AcidReflux

3,207 posts

269 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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Right away = Right of way?

odyssey2200

18,650 posts

224 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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IIRC the Green Cross code is aimed at Pedestrians

Stop
Look
Listen
and if it's all safe, walk straight across the road.


road_rager

1,091 posts

214 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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as i understood it, if ped is already in the road it's their right of way, so I think dick head was right on this occasion

Tuvra

Original Poster:

7,926 posts

240 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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road_rager said:
as i understood it, if ped is already in the road it's their right of way, so I think dick head was right on this occasion
Even if he was in the bus stop area?

Edited by Tuvra on Friday 21st January 14:15

Superhoop

4,764 posts

208 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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road_rager said:
as i understood it, if ped is already in the road it's their right of way, so I think dick head was right on this occasion
That's definitely the case if you are turning a corner, and a pedestrian is already on the road, not sure about in this situation though

STW2010

5,855 posts

177 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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This is one of those hindsight situations where you wish you had just gone. Or waved him across, so none of this 'dancing' stuff.

Pannywagon

1,044 posts

201 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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Tell you what, if this happens again, just hit the mouth-breathing scum sucker, wait for the police to arrive and see what happens.

Yes, pedestrians DO have right of way. Much like a kayak in a shipping lane has right of way over an oil tanker. (Wouldn't want to try it mind)


SEE YA

3,522 posts

260 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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I may be wrong here, but if he is already in the road crossing you give way.

Let the person cross then you move on, no problem then.

Edited by SEE YA on Friday 21st January 14:19

heebeegeetee

29,494 posts

263 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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I don't know why you expect people to run. Are you *that* important that people must clear the way for you?

The right of way isn't an issue - you could see what was happening but reacted in exactly the same way as 90% of the driving population would, and conjured an argument out of fresh air, just like 90% of people would.

If you were a better driver there'd have been no confrontation and you'd have known that you belong in the elite 10% of better drivers.

In my humble opinion. smile


anonymous-user

69 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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I would've just let him go personally and not bothered to enter into a conversation over it, what's the point?

T_Pot

2,542 posts

212 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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neath one way?

and sadly, i think he was in the right too mate. but i wouldnt shed any sleep over it

Bluebarge

4,519 posts

193 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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He had right of way. There is no obligation on him to run to get out of your way. You were in the wrong. It happens.

Mazdarese

21,109 posts

202 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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Symbolica said:
I would've just let him go personally and not bothered to enter into a conversation over it, what's the point?
This.

Let him cross, chuckle to yourself at the 'dancing' momemt, then drive on home.

No anger, no thread on here, no problem.

Peace, man.

Tuvra

Original Poster:

7,926 posts

240 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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Mazdarese said:
Symbolica said:
I would've just let him go personally and not bothered to enter into a conversation over it, what's the point?
This.

Let him cross, chuckle to yourself at the 'dancing' momemt, then drive on home.

No anger, no thread on here, no problem.

Peace, man.
I let him cross eventually, and he vented fury at me? I generally wanted to know what his concerns were. I was under the impression the bus stop was not actually part of the highway so therefore I was actually in the road first, only when i stopped dead and signalled him across he entered the road.

I wont be losing sleep smile

DullBoy

89 posts

178 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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Tuvra said:
Ill just show you the scene:

I had just visited the bank and was parked where the BMW is (lower right corner), I check my mirrors and pull out, In the distance (in the corner of the bus stop marking) I see a bloke making progress into the road so I ease off expecting him to jog, he acknowledges me and goes to stop, I in turn go to accelerate again only for him to continue walking again. This is like that thing where you "dance" with someone in the street, you go right, they go right etc.

In the end I just stopped and let him walk in front of me - I gave him a look of bemusement as in "what are you doing? you clearly seen me and this is a road" he then starts gobbing off something at me rather angrily, he moves out of the way so I wind the window down to hear his opinion. It was at this point I noticed how tasty the guy looked, a 45-50 yo old school doorman type. The exchange went a little something like this:

Him: “What are you doing? You could see me crossing the road you d*ck!”
Me: “You also seen me coming why did you continue to walk in front of me?”
Him: “I had already started crossing the road, If I am in the road already its my f*cking right away not yours”
Me: “That’s funny, I thought roads were for cars, theres also a pedestrian crossing 20 metres away (by the saab in the pic) and you were not actually in the road, you were in the bus stop”
Him: “IT WAS MY RIGHT AWAY – I WAS ALREADY IN THE ROAD YOU F*CKING C*CK”

To which I just laughed and pulled off. Considering it was only 20m away from where I pulled off you can imagine the speed involved (15mph max) so it wernt as If I really gunned for him. And the turn of events clearly showed that I had acknowledged the threat he posed by slowing first and then eventually stopping.

Did he actually have the right away?
Interesting, I had a similar experience...
I had just visited the bank and was parked where the BMW is (lower right corner), I check my mirrors and pull out without looking at what is happening in front of me, In the bit of road I am about to occupy (in the corner of the bus stop marking) I see a bloke crossing the road so I ease off and wait for him to finish, he acknowledges me with a thumbs up and a smile.
I am not a gay man, yet It was at this point I noticed how tasty the guy looked, a 45-50 yo old school doorman type.
I just laughed and pulled myself off.


Tuvra

Original Poster:

7,926 posts

240 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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DullBoy said:
Interesting, I had a similar experience...
I had just visited the bank and was parked where the BMW is (lower right corner), I check my mirrors and pull out without looking at what is happening in front of me, In the bit of road I am about to occupy (in the corner of the bus stop marking) I see a bloke crossing the road so I ease off and wait for him to finish, he acknowledges me with a thumbs up and a smile.
I am not a gay man, yet It was at this point I noticed how tasty the guy looked, a 45-50 yo old school doorman type.
I just laughed and pulled myself off.
So hilarious you had to say it twice?

Baryonyx

18,103 posts

174 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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You should have just leaned out the window and shouted "move fatty, I don't have enough petrol to drive round you"!

DullBoy

89 posts

178 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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damn, what happened there, failed myself frown

I woulda swerved around him

Pork

9,453 posts

249 months

Friday 21st January 2011
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DullBoy said:
I am not a gay man, yet It was at this point I noticed how tasty the guy looked, a 45-50 yo old school doorman type.
I just laughed and pulled myself off.
rofl