Need to buy the (STBX) wife a car
Need to buy the (STBX) wife a car
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thelawnet1

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1,539 posts

184 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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So erm as per title. V8 is going. She said she drove what she describes as a 'Golf' rental, and said it was nice. I guess this was the Mk7 facelift.

I'm not sure which engine this would have been but she said she was happy with the performance.

This is not on the menu as I don't see any reason to spend more than £3,000 probably £2,000 would be better.

Er, otherwise, I think small rims would be a good idea (she won't shop around for a good deal on tyres), and hence also brake discs, etc.

Not probably going to get too much TLC so something that's not temperamental/inclined to explode? Insurance isn't much of an issue,the V8 is about £250, but the tax is £50/month so that's no good. And erm only about 3500 miles a year so doesn't want to be a diesel. Though even with 3500 miles, at 17.5mpg or whatever you can still save a few hundred a year.

Don't need too much legroom is too necessary as son is off to uni and anyway he's only 5'8 or something and daughter won't necessarily be taller than that.

I don't really care because I'm not driving it, but STBX definitely seems to prefer something small and sporty over something big and bargeish. OTOH I had a quick look on Autotrader and a 6 year old 100bhp petrol Seat Leon is £4500, which seems a bit like silly money to me.


Any thoughts?

Zad

13,005 posts

265 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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A smallish sporty car that is reliable, robust, cheap to repair with easily available parts, and around £2-3000?

Would 2 seats be okay or does it need more space?, because you know that car that everyone always mentions on PH? That springs to mind.

livinginasia

966 posts

139 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Fiesta ?

Thales

619 posts

86 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Stbx?

Plate spinner

18,084 posts

229 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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What’s an STBX?

voyds9

8,490 posts

312 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Thales said:
Stbx?
Container for faeces

T1berious

2,666 posts

184 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Thales said:
Stbx?
+1

Matt Cup

3,266 posts

133 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Plate spinner said:
What’s an STBX?
Can only assume “soon to be ex”... could be wrong though.

GT03ROB

14,019 posts

250 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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If she's a STBX does it really matter what she thinks? And why are you buying her a car?

MikeM6

6,018 posts

131 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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GT03ROB said:
If she's a STBX does it really matter what she thinks? And why are you buying her a car?
This was my thought (after a quick Google of what it meant).

She is an adult and can make her own decisions, look after her own transport and pay her own bills if she really is stbx. If not and I have misunderstood, then 3k is a low budget for anything 'Golf like' that isn't 15 years old. You could probably find a Vauxhall Astra in budget though.

kieranblenk

865 posts

163 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Any of the below will fit the bill:

Fiesta
Focus
Civic
Astra
Megane
Clio
Ibiza
Swift

gforceg

3,525 posts

208 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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I had to look it up too. He may mean it in the "this is my first wife" way. We can all dream.

Plate spinner

18,084 posts

229 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Matt Cup said:
Plate spinner said:
What’s an STBX?
Can only assume “soon to be ex”... could be wrong though.
Wouldn’t that be STBE though?

Anyway, sounds like some sort of engine code for a Subaru or something hehe

wiliferus

4,214 posts

227 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Buy her a unicycle without a seat and get yourself over to this thread
https://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&...

thelawnet1

Original Poster:

1,539 posts

184 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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GT03ROB said:
If she's a STBX does it really matter what she thinks? And why are you buying her a car?
It's not so much that I'm buying her a car but more that I'm flogging the old one. And if I leave her with no car then she'll probably buy something stupid. It just seems like the best way to leave something 'in place', rather than have her p*** all the money up the wall and then come back to me in a year or two and say she needs more money for our daughter (who is now 12).

Cos I'm literally not driving the thing the only things that really matter is that it doesn't cost too much to run and buy (because why) and it doesn't break down (because she has no clue).

Plate spinner

18,084 posts

229 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Honda Civic / Ford Focus / whatever then.

Personally I’d give her the money to buy whatever she wants. Whatever you buy will need work / maintenance and she’ll blame you for a st decision whenever there’s a service / MOT spend.

I’d proceed with caution.

yajeed

5,057 posts

283 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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thelawnet1 said:
It's not so much that I'm buying her a car but more that I'm flogging the old one. And if I leave her with no car then she'll probably buy something stupid. It just seems like the best way to leave something 'in place', rather than have her p*** all the money up the wall and then come back to me in a year or two and say she needs more money for our daughter (who is now 12).

Cos I'm literally not driving the thing the only things that really matter is that it doesn't cost too much to run and buy (because why) and it doesn't break down (because she has no clue).
Surely 3 things then? The first being safe to carry your children around in?

thelawnet1

Original Poster:

1,539 posts

184 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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not that bothered about safety tbh, I mean in an ideal world you probably have an XC90 or something but I don't think theres anything really truly unsafe out there. Plus they don't do many miles at all, and I live in Indonesia where I'm sure the vehicles are all death traps compared to anything in the UK

ZX10R NIN

30,522 posts

154 months

Wednesday 1st January 2020
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thelawnet1 said:
not that bothered about safety tbh, I mean in an ideal world you probably have an XC90 or something but I don't think theres anything really truly unsafe out there. Plus they don't do many miles at all, and I live in Indonesia where I'm sure the vehicles are all death traps compared to anything in the UK
As I said the Astra ticks all the boxes.