To sell, or not to sell?
To sell, or not to sell?
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JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Hi everyone,

I would appreciate some other perspective on this situation as I really am stuck and totally on the fence about it.

I'm going through some frustration on whether or not to sell my car? It's a BMW M140i 2017 plate and great condition, its reliable and fun. The problem is, I sometimes just can't justify owning it to use so little of the time. I mean, some days I drive it up the motorway and back again just purely to drive it. When I do, I can be reckless and sometimes go faster than id like. One day it will probably kill me! I work close enough to walk or cycle, so it's a weekend car, no kids (just yet) and have the wife's car too. Then I worry about depreciation, constantly freaking out about how much money i'm losing (purchased the car with cash as I dont like the idea of car debt, just my view on it). So this takes away from the enjoyment ... then I worry about things breaking and how much it might cost me. I cant seem to enjoy my car because of this, is it just me?

I also get comfort knowing I have money in the bank and currently after some house renovations, I'm a little light, and feel vulnerable as that cash was my safety net. Now looking at the car and thinking that could be the safety net for a long time and get that comfort back.

I taken my car to an appointment to sell it, but the drive there made me a bit emotional to sell it so decided to drive away last week and keep her, but the thoughts are back.

It's this constant battle between ... life is too short, just keep it and enjoy it and then, you need money in the bank and to feel safe and secure, sell it and take the depreciation into account and you dont drive it enough. Also keeping me awake at night too worrying over what to do.

Finally, going through a rocky time with my job in the sense that I dont may want to change careers at some point and having the cash behind me would provide me with that additional comfort. so appreciate it's multi-faceted

Help frown

Edited by JB33 on Thursday 23 July 11:35

talksthetorque

10,821 posts

164 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Sell it and buy something cheaper and more fun.
If you don't need the practicality, then consider something impractical!


Unbusy

934 posts

126 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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The men in white coats are on their way ...

JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Unbusy said:
The men in white coats are on their way ...
It does bring me anxiety and increased frustration and im prone to it without going into detail but yes, maybe it's time to depart from it and save myself the worry

kaese

727 posts

216 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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From what you've said, the car seems to be causing you more stress than enjoyment. Get rid, and have the peace of mind you seem to want.

anonymous-user

83 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Can't help but think you've answered your own question. Sell it. It's a great car, but you can have just as much, if not more fun with something much cheaper - actually too many to list here.

Of course, that doesnt get rid of the breaking down anxiety but get something simple, reliable and fun - again, not going to suggest something, but perhaps Japanese, small roadster. I believe there is a popular one available.

Keep the cash raised in the bank.

JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Argleton said:
Can't help but think you've answered your own question. Sell it. It's a great car, but you can have just as much, if not more fun with something much cheaper - actually too many to list here.

Of course, that doesnt get rid of the breaking down anxiety but get something simple, reliable and fun - again, not going to suggest something, but perhaps Japanese, small roadster. I believe there is a popular one available.

Keep the cash raised in the bank.
Thanks - yes it does appear that way. I owned a GT86 a few years back but felt cheap and rattly, now thinking of a little MX5 soon enough next year at some point and bank the rest.

Meeten-5dulx

3,330 posts

85 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Sell it.
You clearly don't 'need' it, and if it is causing more grief (anxiety) than enjoyment, it's a weight around your neck.

Its not going to appreciate sitting in your drive, so just get rid.

Then if you feel the need to get into something, you have the ability. Something not so cash intensive so these worries shouldn't come back.

I'll give you £5k for it... hehe

CrippsCorner

3,371 posts

210 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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This could have been me writing this thread a few years back!

Spent all my savings on a car and it was awesome, but scared me and made me paranoid at the same time - I realised I wasn't enjoying my purchase so decided to get out. Bought something 1/4 of the price and felt like a weight lifted! Really enjoyed driving a car I wasn't so precious about.

Since then I've gradually increased the price of cars I bought but still got nowhere near the original.

Time to move on me thinks smile

JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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CrippsCorner said:
This could have been me writing this thread a few years back!

Spent all my savings on a car and it was awesome, but scared me and made me paranoid at the same time - I realised I wasn't enjoying my purchase so decided to get out. Bought something 1/4 of the price and felt like a weight lifted! Really enjoyed driving a car I wasn't so precious about.

Since then I've gradually increased the price of cars I bought but still got nowhere near the original.

Time to move on me thinks smile
Thanks smile yeh, I think so. So worried about leaving it and marks on it etc whereas my wife's car is a heap .... but love driving it and its cheap, costs almost nothing and a hoon to throw about

hothatch1.6

73 posts

114 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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Likely swap you a 2017 Mk7.5 Fiesta ST (most fun I've had in a car at legal speeds) and some £££ for it

JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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hothatch1.6 said:
Likely swap you a 2017 Mk7.5 Fiesta ST (most fun I've had in a car at legal speeds) and some £££ for it
Appreciate the offer; however, I'm going to be car free for a while and sell up. I'm selling to Arnold Clark this weekend for £17,200, a bit low but saves the hassle of private sale.

hothatch1.6

73 posts

114 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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No worries - winging one as usual, that price is probably about right to be honest

CrippsCorner

3,371 posts

210 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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I'm in another situation now where I'm moving closer to work where to be honest I could walk in... but I love having a car. Seems silly to keep it if it's never being used though (we use the other half's 'family' car if we go out at the weekend)

BlueJ

406 posts

74 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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JB33 said:
Hi everyone,

I would appreciate some other perspective on this situation as I really am stuck and totally on the fence about it.

I'm going through some frustration on whether or not to sell my car? It's a BMW M140i 2017 plate and great condition, its reliable and fun. The problem is, I sometimes just can't justify owning it to use so little of the time. I mean, some days I drive it up the motorway and back again just purely to drive it. When I do, I can be reckless and sometimes go faster than id like. One day it will probably kill me! I work close enough to walk or cycle, so it's a weekend car, no kids (just yet) and have the wife's car too. Then I worry about depreciation, constantly freaking out about how much money i'm losing (purchased the car with cash as I dont like the idea of car debt, just my view on it). So this takes away from the enjoyment ... then I worry about things breaking and how much it might cost me. I cant seem to enjoy my car because of this, is it just me?

I also get comfort knowing I have money in the bank and currently after some house renovations, I'm a little light, and feel vulnerable as that cash was my safety net. Now looking at the car and thinking that could be the safety net for a long time and get that comfort back.

I taken my car to an appointment to sell it, but the drive there made me a bit emotional to sell it so decided to drive away last week and keep her, but the thoughts are back.

It's this constant battle between ... life is too short, just keep it and enjoy it and then, you need money in the bank and to feel safe and secure, sell it and take the depreciation into account and you dont drive it enough. Also keeping me awake at night too worrying over what to do.

Finally, going through a rocky time with my job in the sense that I dont may want to change careers at some point and having the cash behind me would provide me with that additional comfort. so appreciate it's multi-faceted

Help frown

Edited by JB33 on Thursday 23 July 11:35
Imagine it's 2 years from now. Your job / career is stable, bit of cash in reserve, house is done up. Will you regret selling the M140i and want to buy another one, treat yourself to something different, or sit on the cash?

If the answer is one of last two options, sell now. If not ride it out unless / until you actually need to sell it. Good luck either way!

JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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BlueJ said:
Imagine it's 2 years from now. Your job / career is stable, bit of cash in reserve, house is done up. Will you regret selling the M140i and want to buy another one, treat yourself to something different, or sit on the cash?

If the answer is one of last two options, sell now. If not ride it out unless / until you actually need to sell it. Good luck either way!
I can't wait the two years, I can barely wait a month without worrying about losing money on it depreciating ... it's just how I feel ... think i've answered my own question frown

BlueJ

406 posts

74 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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JB33 said:
I can't wait the two years, I can barely wait a month without worrying about losing money on it depreciating ... it's just how I feel ... think i've answered my own question frown
Yes I'd agree. And I must admit I'd missed your earlier post re Arnold Clark. For what it's worth I think that's an OK price in this climate.

JB33

Original Poster:

90 posts

94 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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GreatGranny said:
I really appreciate you taking the time to post these up smile some great options I never even thought about.

fido

18,824 posts

284 months

Thursday 23rd July 2020
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I have the same problem .. with two/three cars. smile

Also the 140 is super-fast but still a plain ol' easy-to-drive hatchback. Had the same issue with my Audi S1 - the manual 'box was an absolute joy but too easy to drive and therefore not special enough. I found the '1 too soft and unsatisfying at the rear end [?hmmm?]. Something a bit less practical, quirky or hardcore would be a more tantalising w'end prospect.