Rattled this morning...
Rattled this morning...
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julianb

Original Poster:

311 posts

235 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Had the confidence knocked over the weekend, and couldn't face riding the bike.

My wife's best pal, a fun loving 41 year old lady, went out to a rugby match on her new SV650 on Saturday and didn't come back.

Don't have the details yet, but hope to see her boyfriend this evening and see how he's coping. I can't imagine how he's dealing with it.

Be careful out there people.

Julian

Chilli

17,320 posts

257 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Blimey, sorry to hear that mate. Hearing things like this (and imagine especially when it's someone you know) makes you think twice eh?

The Tramp

918 posts

238 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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sorry to hear about it, more so as it's someone so close.....does make you think.

julianb said:
Be careful out there people.
wise words....

black-k1

12,627 posts

250 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Sorry to hear your news. Condolences to the family and friends.

rumpelstiltskin

2,805 posts

280 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Sorry to hear about your loss.I've just become a CBT instructor,as soon as i hear about tragedies like this it makes me think if i really for one second stopped,in my working day,and thought of the 'huge' responsibility i'm taking on i'd probably collapse in a heap,once again,my thoughts are with her immediate family and friends.

anonymous-user

75 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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As always when tragedies like this happen, thoughts go to all who knew her . . .

julianb

Original Poster:

311 posts

235 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Thanks for your kind words, I'll pass them onto her boyfriend. Christ knows how I'm going to find the words when I see him.

She was a special person.


Julian

anonymous-user

75 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Really sorry about the loss mate. Condolences to all the family and friends.

shot2bits

1,273 posts

249 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Sorry to hear this Julian - hope all goes OK.

This is why I would rather ride track only to be honest...

RemaL

25,071 posts

255 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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like others have said, sorry to hear the news


996 sps

6,165 posts

237 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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So so sorry to hear this mate, my heart goes out to you, family and friends at this time.....

virgil

1,557 posts

245 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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May I add my condolences.

Neil.

Fire99

9,863 posts

250 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Condolences from here too!

F.M

5,816 posts

241 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Sorry to hear this....heartbreaking...the roads can be so dangerous...

Momentofmadness

2,370 posts

262 months

Monday 11th June 2007
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Tragic frown

julianb

Original Poster:

311 posts

235 months

Tuesday 12th June 2007
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Looks like there was a car involved, an Audi S3. Not that that means anything of course. Looks like she took avoiding action, left the road and hit a dry stone wall. Perhaps the car was overtaking something else coming towards her. The accident spot is notorious for near misses in this regard. No official explanation yet though, so it's only conjecture on my part.

It's heart rending. I pass the spot every day on the way to and from work. Really thinking hard about getting rid of the bike...

Chilli

17,320 posts

257 months

Tuesday 12th June 2007
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julianb said:
Looks like there was a car involved, an Audi S3. Not that that means anything of course. Looks like she took avoiding action, left the road and hit a dry stone wall. Perhaps the car was overtaking something else coming towards her. The accident spot is notorious for near misses in this regard. No official explanation yet though, so it's only conjecture on my part.

It's heart rending. I pass the spot every day on the way to and from work. Really thinking hard about getting rid of the bike...
Mate, I feel for ya, I really do. I was gonna ask how your mate was, but a stupid question I guess. Not a lot more I can think to say really, apart from repeating how sorry I am to hear this.

Cheers.

Fire99

9,863 posts

250 months

Tuesday 12th June 2007
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julianb said:
Looks like there was a car involved, an Audi S3. Not that that means anything of course. Looks like she took avoiding action, left the road and hit a dry stone wall. Perhaps the car was overtaking something else coming towards her. The accident spot is notorious for near misses in this regard. No official explanation yet though, so it's only conjecture on my part.

It's heart rending. I pass the spot every day on the way to and from work. Really thinking hard about getting rid of the bike...
as the other guys have said there isn't much that i can say apart from Really Sorry mate.

On the bike front, i wouldn't blame ya. But its all pretty raw at the moment mate so i wouldn't make any decisions either way at the mo...

julianb

Original Poster:

311 posts

235 months

Tuesday 12th June 2007
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Cheers for all the thoughtful comment.

It's just getting to be a lottery out there. Many car drivers these days are just so damn impatient, but worse than that, the car often becomes a weapon to intimidate and bully with. A bike is no match for a ton of metal.

Advanced training is an obvious answer. It would give me a skillset that I can build on to manage these threats. Is it enough though?

I think I need some time to cool down after losing a good friend.


Chilli

17,320 posts

257 months

Tuesday 12th June 2007
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julianb said:
Cheers for all the thoughtful comment.

It's just getting to be a lottery out there. Many car drivers these days are just so damn impatient, but worse than that, the car often becomes a weapon to intimidate and bully with. A bike is no match for a ton of metal.

Advanced training is an obvious answer. It would give me a skillset that I can build on to manage these threats. Is it enough though?

I think I need some time to cool down after losing a good friend.

Time is the key here, I think. Sure advanced training will reduce the chance of your making mistakes and increase your "road awareness" but it won't stop other road user's stupidity. It's a tough one mate, one that I've been thinking about quite a lot recently. But, 2 days on the train the other week, makes me wanna continue. Tough call mate...