You lot on the match.com thread... Your thoughts please!
You lot on the match.com thread... Your thoughts please!
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KingRichard

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10,146 posts

262 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Good afternoon chaps,

I know there are a fair few on here that are into internet dating, or have at least tried it.

Most seem frustrated with the whole experience and some feel cheated out of subscription fees (just to clarify, not necessarily match.com).

I'm toying with the idea of setting up a site, and I was hoping you guys would be kind enough to share your experiences with me.

Would you be more likely to keep an account active if it was a nominal amount each month, rather than £40 or £50 per month?

What irritates you about the current sites and what could they do better?

Have you tried the free sites such as plentyoffish, and how do you think they compare to paid sites?


Moddy woddys... I know this is probably a business thread, but if you could give it some air time in the lounge that would be great smile

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ShadownINja

80,110 posts

312 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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KingRichard said:
Would you be more likely to keep an account active if it was a nominal amount each month, rather than £40 or £50 per month?

What irritates you about the current sites and what could they do better?
I don't know if money is the issue. There are so many sites making a lot of money so money can't necessarily be the issue. That said... how about some sort of guarantee. If you don't get a date after 3 months of using the site, you get your money back. Not sure how you'd monitor this. I guess you could store emails even if they are deleted by the user.

Personally, I preferred the Gumtree model. I was considering setting this up as a free for all (in both senses of the phrase). I'd be more ruthless with spammers as you can often tell spammers from genuine posters.

Steameh

3,155 posts

240 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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I tend to find the free sites are full of average to large girls just looking for sex.

Funnily enough thats probably why i've never progressed to the paid sites biggrin

GTIR

24,741 posts

296 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Hmmm. Fat girl. Hmmm

lick

Rach*

8,824 posts

246 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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I'm sick of all the retards emailing me, some kind of idiot filter would be good

soad

34,689 posts

206 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Steameh said:
I tend to find the free sites are full of average to large girls just looking for sex.

Funnily enough thats probably why i've never progressed to the paid sites biggrin
That sums it up pretty well for me too.
Only tried the free ones.

It really depends on what one is looking for!

soad

34,689 posts

206 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Rach* said:
I'm sick of all the retards emailing me, some kind of idiot filter would be good
Received any pervy e-mails lately then? wink

GTIR

24,741 posts

296 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Rach* said:
I'm sick of all the retards emailing me, some kind of idiot filter would be good
They may well be filthy rich retards.

So..

Rach*

8,824 posts

246 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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soad said:
Rach* said:
I'm sick of all the retards emailing me, some kind of idiot filter would be good
Received any pervy e-mails lately then? wink
Only from you and JagD wink

Mobile Chicane

22,015 posts

242 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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KingRichard said:
Good afternoon chaps,

I know there are a fair few on here that are into internet dating, or have at least tried it.

Most seem frustrated with the whole experience and some feel cheated out of subscription fees (just to clarify, not necessarily match.com).

I'm toying with the idea of setting up a site, and I was hoping you guys would be kind enough to share your experiences with me.

Would you be more likely to keep an account active if it was a nominal amount each month, rather than £40 or £50 per month?

What irritates you about the current sites and what could they do better?

Have you tried the free sites such as plentyoffish, and how do you think they compare to paid sites?


Moddy woddys... I know this is probably a business thread, but if you could give it some air time in the lounge that would be great smile

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How about 'mong-free dating'?

Any use of text speak or LOLZ either in your profile or messages and you're barred from the site.

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

260 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Mobile Chicane said:
How about 'mong-free dating'?

Any use of text speak or LOLZ either in your profile or messages and you're barred from the site.
Oh god yes.

And some kind of filter to weed out the mentalists would be nice.

I know, I'm asking a lot.

Rach*

8,824 posts

246 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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GTIR said:
Rach* said:
I'm sick of all the retards emailing me, some kind of idiot filter would be good
They may well be filthy rich retards.

So..
If they can't string a sentence together or think of anything interesting to say, they still get deleted.



Maybe that's why I haven't been on many dates.... delete, delete, delete hehe

soad

34,689 posts

206 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Mobile Chicane said:
How about 'mong-free dating'?
That'd be good too. Some can't be bothered to put any effort into typing properly.

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

260 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Rach* said:
Maybe that's why I haven't been on many dates.... delete, delete, delete hehe
Rach, you've tried the rest, it's time to try the best.

soad

34,689 posts

206 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Cock Womble 7 said:
Rach* said:
Maybe that's why I haven't been on many dates.... delete, delete, delete hehe
Rach, you've tried the rest, it's time to try the best.
That didn't take long. rofl

Cock Womble 7

29,908 posts

260 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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soad said:
Cock Womble 7 said:
Rach* said:
Maybe that's why I haven't been on many dates.... delete, delete, delete hehe
Rach, you've tried the rest, it's time to try the best.
That didn't take long. rofl
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

KingRichard

Original Poster:

10,146 posts

262 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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What about a rating system on messages? Similar to 'I like this' on facebook?

So you get a spacktard send you a message, you click the thumbs down... We have a cut off level and if enough people are clicking 'thumbs down' we go and check their messages. If it's full of LOLZ or inappropriate or whatever we can bin the member?

Maybe we could have a big red button with 'spacker alert' printed on it!

Users would then get a visible credibility rating on their profile - ie; if they just send out a million messages asking for a shag, everyone can see that because they have 6% credibility or whatever...

Edited by KingRichard on Monday 12th April 18:07

GTIR

24,741 posts

296 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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But I spackers have to get girlfriends somehow!

Let's face it. You need to be a liitle unhinged (no offence Rach*) to think dating sites will actually get you your future partner. What's wrong with talking!




Edited by GTIR on Monday 12th April 18:11

KingRichard

Original Poster:

10,146 posts

262 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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GTIR said:
Let's face it. You need to be a liitle unhinged (no offence Rach*)
rofl

Rach*

8,824 posts

246 months

Monday 12th April 2010
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Cock Womble 7 said:
soad said:
Cock Womble 7 said:
Rach* said:
Maybe that's why I haven't been on many dates.... delete, delete, delete hehe
Rach, you've tried the rest, it's time to try the best.
That didn't take long. rofl
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I'll meet you at Morrisons, Bracknell