Girlfriend drowned, boyfriend still missing.
Girlfriend drowned, boyfriend still missing.
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AB

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20,598 posts

225 months

Thursday 1st September 2011
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Story goes like this;

- 17 year old girl and 21 year old boyfriend go to Mathew Street Festival on the Sunday;
- Drink lots;
- Decide to go for a swim when they get back over to the Wirral;
- Girl ends up washed up on beach 7am.

http://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/liverpool-news/loca...

- It takes some time to name her;
- Following which it comes to light that her boyfriend didn't make it home;
- His shoes and mobile phone are found next to her body.

Various other news stories emerge over the coming hours and days, his FB is filled with people begging him to come home and telling him he's not in trouble, FB makes some groups appealing for info, everyone tweets his picture so we all know what he looks like.

http://www.wirralnews.co.uk/wirral-news/local-wirr...

He's been missing since Sunday night.

A sad story, but I can't imagine there's any other possibility that he is, unfortunately, going to wash up somewhere soon.

I don't know either of them personally, they are both friends of friends who are understandably upset. I feel that social media has a lot to answer for, people jumping on the bandwagon and perhaps giving false hope.


Frankeh

12,558 posts

215 months

Thursday 1st September 2011
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Not to self, don't try and swim at next weeks bestival.
I can't swim, so it's highly unlikely I will but you never know.

Anyway, that's pretty tragic.

Eric Mc

125,796 posts

295 months

Thursday 1st September 2011
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Tragic - but drink and drowing accidents are not that rare.

Davel

8,982 posts

288 months

Thursday 1st September 2011
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It's very sad.

We were there on the Sunday afternoon and the water looked very choppy and uninviting.

I'm sure it was bloody cold too.

Tragic waste of a life - or maybe two lives.

AB

Original Poster:

20,598 posts

225 months

Thursday 1st September 2011
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Davel said:
We were there on the Sunday afternoon and the water looked very choppy and uninviting.
It got worse on the Sunday evening too. They apparently left the house at 8pm... so it was sometime after that.

AB

Original Poster:

20,598 posts

225 months

Saturday 3rd September 2011
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daemon

40,169 posts

227 months

Saturday 3rd September 2011
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AB said:
+1

The sea usually gives up its dead eventually.

AndrewW-G

11,968 posts

247 months

Saturday 3rd September 2011
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AB said:
Given the tides and currents off New Brighton, if he did drown, his remains will turn up eventually.

Hate to say it, but you'd have to be spectacularly drunk / stupid to swim in the sea off NB without a wet suit and a life jacket. . . . . and I say that as somebody who had a few post night out dips into the marine lake in WK when living on South Parade (even in the middle of the summer it was bloody cold!)

Otispunkmeyer

13,822 posts

185 months

Saturday 3rd September 2011
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AndrewW-G said:
Given the tides and currents off New Brighton, if he did drown, his remains will turn up eventually.

Hate to say it, but you'd have to be spectacularly drunk / stupid to swim in the sea off NB without a wet suit and a life jacket. . . . . and I say that as somebody who had a few post night out dips into the marine lake in WK when living on South Parade (even in the middle of the summer it was bloody cold!)
Aye you won't last very long thats for sure.... I do surf competitions for sport and even though I am used to swimming in the sea, Its horrible when there big swell or its choppy. Even with goggles its quite a task to see where exactly you are headed... I can only imagine what its like in the pitch black, drunk, no goggles, no wet suit.... yeah I'd be scared stless.

s3fella

10,524 posts

217 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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Sad case. The plea from the mother is unusual though, clinging to hope maybe, but do they perhps have evidence or suspeicions that this guy did get out, or not get in in the first place?
Reggie Perrin perhaps? Very sad for those that perished and their families.

ChiChoAndy

73,668 posts

285 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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AndrewW-G said:
Given the tides and currents off New Brighton, if he did drown, his remains will turn up eventually.

Hate to say it, but you'd have to be spectacularly drunk / stupid to swim in the sea off NB without a wet suit and a life jacket. . . . . and I say that as somebody who had a few post night out dips into the marine lake in WK when living on South Parade (even in the middle of the summer it was bloody cold!)
Yup... Pretty chilly. Remember New Brighton Baths? Now THAT was cold! I used to live up near the bowling greens pretty much opposite the marine lake, (where I used to kayak with the Venture scoutssmile

Miss the Wirral, really. Used to bike down the Prom to West Kirby every weekend to see my nan, and carry on along the Wirral way to Thurstaston. Lovely. cloud9

Uhura fighter

7,018 posts

213 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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ChiChoAndy said:
pretty much opposite the marine lake, (where I used to kayak with the Venture scoutssmile
Makes you wonder why they didn't swim in the lake. Sadly I can see him washing up at Morecambe Bay/Southport.



AndrewW-G

11,968 posts

247 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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ChiChoAndy said:
Yup... Pretty chilly. Remember New Brighton Baths? Now THAT was cold!
yes I grew up just down the road from the old Hoylake baths and remember the freezing water well . . . . . even in the height of summer, I must have been about 10-11 when they closed it, always thought it would have been a superb venue if they could have modernised and covered it, but hey ho at least nobody will ever accuse the Wirral council of acting in the best interests of the locals!

ChiChoAndy

73,668 posts

285 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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The baths in New Brighton were pretty much destroyed by that big bastid storm of [insert year here].

Ozzie Osmond

21,189 posts

276 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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Never mix alcohol and water.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

285 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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AB said:
Girlfriend drowned, boyfriend still missing
I worry about you...

AB

Original Poster:

20,598 posts

225 months

Sunday 4th September 2011
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mybrainhurts said:
AB said:
Girlfriend drowned, boyfriend still missing
I worry about you...
laugh

CooperD

3,190 posts

207 months

Tuesday 13th September 2011
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Body of boyfriend found and identified.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-merseyside-14...

AB

Original Poster:

20,598 posts

225 months

Tuesday 13th September 2011
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Yeah, sad story, but it was always going to be the case.

Jasandjules

72,651 posts

259 months

Tuesday 13th September 2011
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AB said:
Yeah, sad story, but it was always going to be the case.
Basically this.