so how many of you would have done the same??
so how many of you would have done the same??
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Petrolhead_Rich

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4,659 posts

214 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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so on my way home tonight, it's raining a bit and I see a car sat half off a roundabout with it's hazards on and a lost looking chap on his phone.

Initially I thought, lets get this guy pulled to a safer place (towrope in the boot) so stopped and walked back to offer him a tow....

his front tyre has ripped his arch liner out and the car is clearly going no-where with the tread wrapped round the suspension, so I offered to sort it for him (rather than him wait an hour for the AA to come)

moved the car to a fend off position just behind him for safety (rather have a truck hit my car and be deflected than be squashed under his while changing the tyre.

pulled his tyre off and fitted his spare, all in less than 5 mins.

Yes I'm blowing my own trumpet but I bet 99% of you would have driven past thinking "what a knob stopping there"!

MJK 24

5,670 posts

258 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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I've helped people numerous times but I wont do it if either myself or my vehicle would be in danger.

Hard to see without a photo but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have stopped on a roundabout especially if it was busy and dark/wet. For me, it's just not worth it.

blaineuk

2,615 posts

269 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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Not sure if I would have stopped, but well done for helping.

e8_pack

1,384 posts

203 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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I've often thought i should but haven't because:

a) my help may not be required or appreciated
b) might be helping harold shipman get to his next patient

Petrolhead_Rich

Original Poster:

4,659 posts

214 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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MJK 24 said:
I've helped people numerous times but I wont do it if either myself or my vehicle would be in danger.

Hard to see without a photo but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have stopped on a roundabout especially if it was busy and dark/wet. For me, it's just not worth it.
The thought process was pretty much, this guy with fading light just off the exit for an hour Vs 5 minutes of my car with every light on, just off the roundabout giving approaching vehicles warning of a hazard as they approach the Roundabout, rather than half way round!

As for the car, its a piece of metal and if someone hits an S60 with rear fogs and hazards on under a streetlight, They will be at fault!

Also saved the AA a call out, meaning they can go and help someone else in need!




Petrolhead_Rich

Original Poster:

4,659 posts

214 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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e8_pack said:
I've often thought i should but haven't because:

a) my help may not be required or appreciated
b) might be helping harold shipman get to his next patient
or C, might be helping a patient get away from harold shipman?

robsco

7,875 posts

198 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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I fear I may have driven passed this chap, which I'm rather embarrassed about now... Was it an A4?

e8_pack

1,384 posts

203 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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Petrolhead_Rich said:
or C, might be helping a patient get away from harold shipman?
d) helping a patient on his way to Harold Shipman

jimxms

1,635 posts

182 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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I'd probably be more inclined to help a woman than a bloke. Not because of *that* reason, but more because a lot of blokes have the attitude that if they can't fix it then nor can any other metre moral, and only the AA man with his 'specialist' tools can set him right

wackojacko

8,581 posts

212 months

Thursday 8th December 2011
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Petrolhead_Rich said:
Yes I'm blowing my own trumpet but I bet 99% of you would have driven past thinking "what a knob stopping there"!
Probably...

Petrolhead_Rich

Original Poster:

4,659 posts

214 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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robsco said:
I fear I may have driven passed this chap, which I'm rather embarrassed about now... Was it an A4?
Yep, black one!



JMGS4

8,878 posts

292 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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Have often stopped to help, often it's females who can't or don't know how to change a spare wheel.
BUT had a stupid bint scream at me once when I stopped. It was a filthy night, with a howling wind, mid December, blowing snow on the A703 between Penicuik and Peebles, she was stopped with emergency flashers on top of the moor by Leadburn at 12pm. I passed the car and stopped in front so they could see me and offered to help (had 4x4 and a rope on board). She ranted and screamed and told me to "go away".... obviously pretty scared, but with my wife and daughter there couldn't have been any danger.... Ungrateful to say the least. I don't expect laurel wreaths or anything, but a polite thanks is in order.... I hope she froze her proverbials off.....

philmots

4,660 posts

282 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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It's a good deed IMO. I'd be tempted to help if I was in no hurry but most of the time when I'm in the car I need to be somewhere.

I did give away a car park ticket today though. Had 21 hrs left on it.!

IceBoy

2,452 posts

243 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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Well done Rich, I would do the same, providing there was no danger to me or my car and I did not have the kids in the car.

Good Fella, well done.
IceBoy

Classic Grad 98

26,041 posts

182 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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I like to help but I don't work on other people's cars any more- last time I did, The wheel bolts had been overtightened and the threads tore in the hub as I removed them. Cost my mate £120 to put right and something like that could happen on any car.

Lordbenny

8,733 posts

241 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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What did you charge him? Did he give you a 'drink'?

LuS1fer

43,153 posts

267 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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Props to you for stopping but here's an idea, all drivers responsible for their own vehicles should be able to change their own wheel or give up driving. Yes, that means you, ladies and you, metrosexuals.

CypherP

4,421 posts

214 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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I stopped to help a middle-aged woman in a Fiesta last christmas on my way to a works do in Pyrford. She had just stopped in the road with hazards on, and as it had been snowing and was icy, I thought I'd stop and check she was ok in case she had been there a while and was cold.

I let her sit in my car once I'd parked in a near lay-by and keep warm and went to push her car further down the road to a parking space. I waited until her husband got there to pick her up and the guy insisted I take a fiver for a pint.

It isn't about some kind of reward. Its more hoping that helping others may in turn provide me heplp in the future, should I need it.

Tuvra

7,926 posts

247 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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LuS1fer said:
Props to you for stopping but here's an idea, all drivers responsible for their own vehicles should be able to change their own wheel or give up driving. Yes, that means you, ladies and you, metrosexuals.
Women are great aint they? Mine bangs on about "its 2011" and woman are equal to men, she never has or never will learn how to even fill her own washer fluid up let alone change a wheel, her reason why? "Its a mans job".

She lied to pass her test basically, she had a question about checking the oil on the car and blagged it as her actual response wasn't there E) Phone BF or Daddy to do it.

Back OT: I have driven past many people broken down, basically because A I never have a tow rope, B I am always busy, C I usually have silly cars unable to tow. I did once tow a Transit to safety when driving another with all the gear on me.

If there is a crash and I fear someones hurt, I will always stop, I also always phone the Police If I spot something dangerous on the roads, as I did yesterday when I almost hit a Christmas tree at 70mph in the middle of the M4!! It had fallen off a jeep & trailer which was on the hard shoulder about a mile down the road all of which was made clear to the Police.

Classic Grad 98

26,041 posts

182 months

Thursday 15th December 2011
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Tuvra- I know a girl who is working as a trainee Aeronautical engineer. She's worked on most aspects of modern aeroplanes during her training, but will she do any maintenance on her car? will she fk! I have jump started her car for her in the past and have checked her engine oil!