The waiting is the hardest part...
The waiting is the hardest part...
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MrAdaam

Original Poster:

1,094 posts

195 months

Tuesday 20th March 2012
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Well I recently have an interview and think that it went very well. I was expecting to hear back at some point this week. Naturally, I am stting my pants over this as it's something that I really want. Fingers crossed they come back and tell me that I have it.

How do you deal with the 'waiting'? What do you prepare for? Good news/bad news? It's a large step up in pay and will open up a lot of doors.

I need the wisdom of PH to put my mind at rest...

randlemarcus

13,646 posts

260 months

Tuesday 20th March 2012
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If you haven't heard by now, you've not got it.


Nah, it's something out of you control, so don't get stressed about it. I've had great interviews with a "no thanks" and what I thought were dreadful ones with a "yes please".

rog007

5,828 posts

253 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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Difficult I know, but never have so much hanging on the success of one interview. Always have an overlap of options so you are in a position of strength rather than weakness; it will show at interview if you look/sound desperate. Good luck!

MrAdaam

Original Poster:

1,094 posts

195 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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The interview went well and there always are other options. My issue is that it is within the correct security field that I want to be in (IT) and is reasonably local to me.

lestag

4,614 posts

305 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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People get busy and forget about candidates.... breath.. what will be will be...

Podie

46,649 posts

304 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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randlemarcus said:
If you haven't heard by now, you've not got it.
I went through the job hunting mill in early 2010. Basically, if they don't come back to you within 48 hours, consider it dead.

Hoofy

79,993 posts

311 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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The person who is making the final decision is possibly busy with other projects and may not have got round to reviewing the candidates' interviews. You know how it is.

singlecoil

35,826 posts

275 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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The correct procedure is to assume that you have not got it, and take it from there, do all the other job searching that is available to you. If you get some good news in the meantime, great, otherwise you haven't lost anything.

iphonedyou

10,406 posts

186 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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Podie said:
I went through the job hunting mill in early 2010. Basically, if they don't come back to you within 48 hours, consider it dead.
If only there was even a modicum of truth in that. Then we might know where we stand.

SlimRick

2,277 posts

194 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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It may be that you're not the first choice of candidates, but they are waiting to see of #1 accepts or not.

Podie

46,649 posts

304 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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iphonedyou said:
Podie said:
I went through the job hunting mill in early 2010. Basically, if they don't come back to you within 48 hours, consider it dead.
If only there was even a modicum of truth in that. Then we might know where we stand.
That was my experience over a three month period. If they were interested in progressing the application they got back to you quickly. If you didn't hear, then in a week or so you got the rejection.

This applied to both corporates and recruitment bods.

iphonedyou

10,406 posts

186 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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Podie said:
That was my experience over a three month period. If they were interested in progressing the application they got back to you quickly. If you didn't hear, then in a week or so you got the rejection.

This applied to both corporates and recruitment bods.
Perhaps the grad scheme mill is different, in that case. Everything takes forever!

singlecoil

35,826 posts

275 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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SlimRick said:
It may be that you're not the first choice of candidates, but they are waiting to see of #1 accepts or not.
Good point

MrAdaam

Original Poster:

1,094 posts

195 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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Thanks for the advice guys. Some people were, erm, a little blunt. I've come to the realisation that there is nothing really I can do.

Let's hope I hear something shortly. It's a busy place, so maybe they are just taking there time to reply! If it comes towards the end of the week then I shall be making an offer towards the company with regards to salary etc.

Great Pretender

26,140 posts

243 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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MrAdaam said:
Thanks for the advice guys. Some people were, erm, a little blunt. I've come to the realisation that there is nothing really I can do.

Let's hope I hear something shortly. It's a busy place, so maybe they are just taking there time to reply! If it comes towards the end of the week then I shall be making an offer towards the company with regards to salary etc.
I would wait until you have heard something from them before doing that.

Have a Plan B if it doesn't work out. That way you won't fall to pieces if Plan A isn't to be.

However, I wish you the best of luck. Give it at least a few days first. IME a week is perfectly normal, especially if your assignment requires various interal approval sign-offs before HR can make the call.

Podie

46,649 posts

304 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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MrAdaam said:
Thanks for the advice guys. Some people were, erm, a little blunt. I've come to the realisation that there is nothing really I can do.

Let's hope I hear something shortly. It's a busy place, so maybe they are just taking there time to reply! If it comes towards the end of the week then I shall be making an offer towards the company with regards to salary etc.
Apologies if that was me, I know I can be a little direct.

It's hard going, but keep at it - the rewards are there. Good luck. smile

MrAdaam

Original Poster:

1,094 posts

195 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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Unfortunately I never got the job. It was a position advertised within AVG and the feedback, although brief, seems to relate towards my technical and customer facing experiences.

I'm absolutly gutted.

Great Pretender

26,140 posts

243 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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MrAdaam said:
Unfortunately I never got the job. It was a position advertised within AVG and the feedback, although brief, seems to relate towards my technical and customer facing experiences.

I'm absolutly gutted.
Genuinely really sorry to hear that.

However, the best thing to do is get back on the horse asap and sniff out more jobs. Thinking about why they didn't want you or where you went wrong won't help you.

Best of luck.

MrAdaam

Original Poster:

1,094 posts

195 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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I've had a look around already and in Lincolnshire it is very sparse on anything regarding IT. I would've been travelling 80 miles a day for this one. I'll be calling the agency and then AVG tomorrow to discuss further what they wanted from me. They have already confirmed by email that they will hold my CV on file, for what it's worth.

rog007

5,828 posts

253 months

Wednesday 21st March 2012
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'Sparse' could mean a barrier to some or an opportunity to others; what's your view? Good luck either way.