Unsafe sex
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duckers26

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992 posts

202 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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A friend of mine works in a sexual health clinic and said that there has been a huge rise in HIV diagnosis in those in their early 20s and even younger, particularly girls. I was of the generation where casual sex equals protection but the kids now see the advances in treatment and see HIV as something curable or which won't impact their lifespan. Girls in particular have little knowledge of sexual health. There is also risk of transfer between higher risk groups as people become more open and I know a bi guy who will have bareback sex with guys and girls which is a ticking bomb. So for those with teenage kids you need to make sure they know the facts and can make educated decisions, even if the conversation is one you'd rather not have. Lecture over!

Carrot

7,294 posts

231 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Thanks.

Disastrous

10,208 posts

246 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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You're cool if you have a hot bath immediately afterwards still, right?

storminnorman

2,357 posts

181 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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It's because the only thing girls care about is not getting pregnant, they think they're sorted if they just go on the pill/get an implant. As far as they're concerned STDs only happen to the village bicycle. As far as sexual health education, well from experience people just don't take it seriously - when you're talking to a bunch of teenagers about "hehe penis hehehe vagina" well, you get the idea.

Hoofy

79,991 posts

311 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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storminnorman said:
As far as they're concerned STDs only happen to the village bicycle.
And they think that the village bicycle is only someone who has had two more partners than them. biggrin

Happy82

15,078 posts

198 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Can't say I'm surprised, the drugged up chav scum look seems to be in amongst young girls / women.

I heard a couple of girls saying "Wow, dat guy iz fit in'e?"

He looked like this pond life



WTF? laugh

Pickled

2,059 posts

172 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Happy82 said:
Can't say I'm surprised, the drugged up chav scum look seems to be in amongst young girls / women.

I heard a couple of girls saying "Wow, dat guy iz fit in'e?"

He looked like this pond life



WTF? laugh
He's going for 2 in the pink 1 in the stink...

Pints

18,451 posts

223 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Disastrous said:
You're cool if you have a hot bath immediately afterwards still, right?
A dose of raw beetroot will sort it all out.

Halb

53,012 posts

212 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Disastrous said:
You're cool if you have a hot bath immediately afterwards still, right?
It's OK, just get someone else to suck off all the bad stuff and it gives it a clean automatically.

Zad

13,005 posts

265 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Those of use who were kids in the 80s saw what happened to people who contracted HIV. Even those of us who didn't know anyone personally saw the toll it took on Freddie Mercury and Kenny Everett etc. It was a powerful lesson. It isn't the death sentence it was, but the side-effects from the drugs alone can be pretty awful.

Engineer1

10,486 posts

238 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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I think the Aids and HIV ads of the 80's over egged it and now things have slid to the point people don't think about it so much as it is now a background risk rather than a headline scare.

Fozziebear

1,840 posts

169 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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It went out of fashion to educate on std's. Jordan and x factor are more important, and I also blame the bankers wink

Halb

53,012 posts

212 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Maybe we're just on a downward swing? We had a great run of changing things since WW2, but then it hit a glass ceiling and now it's dropping back down.

B17NNS

18,506 posts

276 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Pickled said:
He's going for 2 in the pink 1 in the stink...
hehe two in the goo, one in the poo.

scdan4

1,299 posts

189 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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Fozziebear said:
It went out of fashion to educate on std's.
Disagree. Look up the sex and realtionships gubbins that is now curriculum taught, in all (except faith) schools, to 11, 12, 13, 14 and 15 year olds.


Media and society is another, (the), problem.


Fozziebear

1,840 posts

169 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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scdan4 said:
Disagree. Look up the sex and realtionships gubbins that is now curriculum taught, in all (except faith) schools, to 11, 12, 13, 14 and 15 year olds.


Media and society is another, (the), problem.
That's what I was trying to say, the media, rather than school smile

scdan4

1,299 posts

189 months

Saturday 15th September 2012
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ahem.

i agree.

woosh parrot for one etc etc etc.

(it's been a long day! off now.....)

Pints

18,451 posts

223 months

Sunday 16th September 2012
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scdan4 said:
Disagree. Look up the sex and realtionships gubbins that is now curriculum taught, in all (except faith) schools, to 11, 12, 13, 14 and 15 year olds.


Media and society is another, (the), problem.
Would be interested to see the problems which exist ITO sexual activity and STDs in ordinary co-ed schools vs. faith schools.