Female travelling alone to Turkey

Female travelling alone to Turkey

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Craphouserat

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1,496 posts

202 months

Tuesday 30th October 2012
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Hi - similar thread to the Morocco one.

My wife is thinking of travelling to visit her expat. father out in Turkey in a week or two. I can't go with her and I'm concerned about the hassle she is going to get. Travelling from Edinburgh to Istanbul - 2 hour wait there and then onto Izmir. Where she will get a taxi - on her own - to her dads place.

She is dark haired and busty - despite her not being blonde I am worried the hassle she might get at airports on her own and the travelling by taxi.

Is it likely to be bad? We aren't big travellers and neither of us have been to Turkey before but her dads ill and I want her to spend some time with him just the two of them.

Still can't help but worry.

ChrisBMW

328 posts

149 months

Tuesday 30th October 2012
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I wouldn't want my wife travelling to their alone.

Bec

194 posts

199 months

Tuesday 30th October 2012
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I went to Istanbul this summer with my Mum. Now I'm not particularly busty, but I am fair, so expect to receive a reasonable amount of attention even ff I'm covered head to toe. I didn't find Istanbul to be at all bad in this sense - I've travelled in Tunisia, and found this to be much worse.

Some sensible suggestions - make sure shoulders and knees are covered, you don't need to wear trousers or long sleeved shirts necessarily, a knee length skirt and short sleeved blouse/tshirt is fine. The hassle level generally goes down if you do at least stick to this.

I'd say that being sensible in this regard would make the positives of the trip outweigh the risks

Edited by Bec on Tuesday 30th October 21:58

Craphouserat

Original Poster:

1,496 posts

202 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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Bec said:
I went to Istanbul this summer with my Mum. Now I'm not particularly busty, but I am fair, so expect to receive a reasonable amount of attention even ff I'm covered head to toe. I didn't find Istanbul to be at all bad in this sense - I've travelled in Tunisia, and found this to be much worse.

Some sensible suggestions - make sure shoulders and knees are covered, you don't need to wear trousers or long sleeved shirts necessarily, a knee length skirt and short sleeved blouse/tshirt is fine. The hassle level generally goes down if you do at least stick to this.

I'd say that being sensible in this regard would make the positives of the trip outweigh the risks

Edited by Bec on Tuesday 30th October 21:58
Thanks for this. I can't go with her (work in same dept - I'm not getting time off) so can't help but worry. It doesn't help that when she gets to Izmir she has to travel by taxi at 10:30pm for an hour to get to her dad's.

Anyway - thanks again.

SimonMaidenhead

2,582 posts

204 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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There must be a good reason why her Dad can't pick her up, but surely he must know someone who can or at least know of a local taxi driver/firm that he trusts and can send them.

TEKNOPUG

18,973 posts

206 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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Burka

PatrickOUFC

179 posts

154 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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She is dark haired and busty

Photos needed wink

Rosscow

8,774 posts

164 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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TEKNOPUG said:
Burka
hehe

Rosscow

8,774 posts

164 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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PatrickOUFC said:
She is dark haired and busty

Photos needed wink
+ 1 biggrin

mrmr96

13,736 posts

205 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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Rosscow said:
PatrickOUFC said:
She is dark haired and busty

Photos needed wink
+ 1 biggrin
Here's a clue, put "dark haired and busty" into google images and pick the one you like the best. Then have a nice wk to get it out of your system. Then leave the OP alone, this type of isn't going to help him.

Rosscow

8,774 posts

164 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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mrmr96 said:
Here's a clue, put "dark haired and busty" into google images and pick the one you like the best. Then have a nice wk to get it out of your system. Then leave the OP alone, this type of isn't going to help him.
Lighten up you tt! rofl

Landlord

12,689 posts

258 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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Bec said:
I went to Istanbul this summer with my Mum. Now I'm not particularly busty
Anyone else stop reading after this bit?



wink

Sorry Bec. Couldn't resist and I did continue reading, really.


Marf

22,907 posts

242 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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My sister just got back from Turkey. She's an attractive young lady with ahem, assets and she was pestered constantly by the locals proposing marriage, asking for dates, trying to get her to go home with them etc.

grumpyscot

1,279 posts

193 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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TBH, Turkey is no worse than Spain. Just don't show any cleavage or above the knee

miln0039

2,013 posts

159 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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Sadly Turkish men will assume that because she is alone she must be a slut and is fair game. I wouldn't let my OH go there. Time to tell your boss you're taking the time too or to have a serious would with Daddy.

PatrickOUFC

179 posts

154 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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@mrmr - any need for this sort of reply?! rolleyes

condor

8,837 posts

249 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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SimonMaidenhead said:
There must be a good reason why her Dad can't pick her up, but surely he must know someone who can or at least know of a local taxi driver/firm that he trusts and can send them.
This ^^^

...or she could have pre-booked a local hotel with airport pick-up for that night and travel onwards the next day.

mrmr96

13,736 posts

205 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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PatrickOUFC said:
@mrmr - any need for this sort of reply?! rolleyes
A thread from a man concerned that his wife may be subject of unwanted attention whilst alone abroad, and you want to ask about a photo so you can knock one out? It may well be a joke, but given the subject and reason for posting the OP don't you think it's a tad inappropriate that you should exhibit such lecherous behaviour, even in jest?

LuS1fer

41,140 posts

246 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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If you give me her flight number, I can drop down and harass her to break her in gently if you like. wink

Craphouserat

Original Poster:

1,496 posts

202 months

Wednesday 31st October 2012
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Thanks for the replies all.

Today she has managed to speak with her dad and she put across our worries about the travel - from my point of view the travelling alone in a taxi at 10pm not knowing where she is going was the most worrying part - however her dad is managing to get to the airport with a friend ( he is ill and isn't allowed to drive ) to take her back to his place. Hurrahh!

Not so worried now - thanks to all who replied. She will be suitably dressed for the travelling and hanging about Istanbul airport etc. Wish I could be with her but at least she is getting to go over...after a 4 hour wait on Saturday at Glasgow passport office ! Lucky her!

Thanks again for the advice on this.

Cheers

CHR