Xmas Pressie (food) Advice for a Muslim
Xmas Pressie (food) Advice for a Muslim
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northwest monkey

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6,370 posts

218 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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A couple of Muslim friends of mine run my local PO & being a seasoned Ebayer / Amazonner, I use them a lot & they help me out a lot.

I wanted to get them something just to say thanks really & I know they like a brew so was thinking a tin of biscuits.

Is there anything that's a no-no with regards to biccies - e.g are just normal choccy ones ok?

Maybe I should know this stuff, but I don't & that's why I'm asking!

Ta,

Davo


jontymo

848 posts

179 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Not sure on biscuits but at work when there is a celebration the guys bring in an assortment of really sweet cakes, they get them from the asian baking shops in Bradford.

Marf

22,907 posts

270 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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You won't go wrong with some decent Baklava

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baklava

obob

4,193 posts

223 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Biscuits will be fine!

northwest monkey

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6,370 posts

218 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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obob said:
Biscuits will be fine!
Brilliant - cheerssmile

My OH makes them flapjack from time to time but we thought a box of biscuits might be nice!

Papa Hotel

12,760 posts

211 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Erm... have you thought that a couple of Muslims might not really care for a gift in honour of Christmas? The clue is right there in the name, CHRISTmas.

Shotgun Rider

816 posts

199 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Papa Hotel said:
Erm... have you thought that a couple of Muslims might not really care for a gift in honour of Christmas? The clue is right there in the name, CHRISTmas.
Or on the other hand they might appreciate his generous gesture for the support they have given him through the year.

Papa Hotel

12,760 posts

211 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Shotgun Rider said:
Or on the other hand they might appreciate his generous gesture for the support they have given him through the year.
Call it an end of year gift or something then, the Christmas aspect may offend.

skinley

1,681 posts

189 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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obob said:
Biscuits will be fine!
I used to work for a muslim, one day he asked me to go and get some biscuits to have with a cup of tea.
I gave him the biscuits and he read the ingredients then told me to take them back as they contain animal fat, some of which may have been from pigs.

Marf

22,907 posts

270 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Papa Hotel said:
Erm... have you thought that a couple of Muslims might not really care for a gift in honour of Christmas? The clue is right there in the name, CHRISTmas.
Christ is a prophet in Islam, so it'd be a real prick of a muslim to take offense at an xmas gift.

Do you also complain about Xmas lights in case a muslim is offended?

Situation

25 posts

171 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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I doubt is offensive to any Muslims, bar Uncle Anjem

Papa Hotel

12,760 posts

211 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Marf said:
Christ is a prophet in Islam, so it'd be a real prick of a muslim to take offense at an xmas gift.

Do you also complain about Xmas lights in case a muslim is offended?
No, I don't give a monkey's if a Muslim is offended or not by Christmas lights. It's hardly the same though, the OP is talking about purposefully giving someone a gift to celebrate a festival contrary to their religion.

skinley

1,681 posts

189 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Papa Hotel said:
the Christmas aspect may offend.
Depends whether they read the Daily Mail or not.

Slink

2,947 posts

201 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Papa Hotel said:
Erm... have you thought that a couple of Muslims might not really care for a gift in honour of Christmas? The clue is right there in the name, CHRISTmas.
you do no, christmas was originally a pagen festive thats christians like the idea off so decided to call it there own, nothing to do with christ

Marf

22,907 posts

270 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Papa Hotel said:
Marf said:
Christ is a prophet in Islam, so it'd be a real prick of a muslim to take offense at an xmas gift.

Do you also complain about Xmas lights in case a muslim is offended?
No, I don't give a monkey's if a Muslim is offended or not by Christmas lights. It's hardly the same though, the OP is talking about purposefully giving someone a gift to celebrate a festival contrary to their religion.
You're ignoring what I said. Christ is a prophet in Islam, he is mentioned in the Quran more times than Mo' and many muslims believe just like Christians do that Christ will return to rid the earth of the antichrist.

So like I said, it'd be a prick of a muslim to take offense at a gift given in relation to a figure who features in their religion and you're coming off like the people who complain about things just in case they offend another religion.

Papa Hotel

12,760 posts

211 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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skinley said:
Depends whether they read the Daily Mail or not.
You know what they're like. One minute, they're happily charging 80p for a Twix, the next, they're exploding with rage.

GALLARDOGUY

8,160 posts

248 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Papa Hotel said:
No, I don't give a monkey's if a Muslim is offended or not by Christmas lights. It's hardly the same though, the OP is talking about purposefully giving someone a gift to celebrate a festival contrary to their religion.
Well if they (or anyone else for that matter) can't accept a gift in the manner it's intended, then sod them.

It's a gesture of friendship and appreciation of their efforts, religion should have fk all to do with it.

Marf

22,907 posts

270 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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GALLARDOGUY said:
It's a gesture of friendship and appreciation of their efforts, religion should have fk all to do with it.
Exactly. My dad's Muslim and he buys people Xmas gifts. Maybe he shouldn't in case he offends himself?

Papa Hotel

12,760 posts

211 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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Slink said:
you do no, christmas was originally a pagen festive thats christians like the idea off so decided to call it there own, nothing to do with christ
Er... no.

Christmas was always a Christian thing, the clue is still there in the name. It just happens to be held over the time of a defunct pagan festival.

slomax

7,246 posts

221 months

Thursday 6th December 2012
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My housemate is Muslim, he likes to be included in what us lot do over Christmas and i give him a Christmas card for sts and giggles. Over the last 2 years we have had a Christmas party. We get Halal chicken (SO TENDER), sage and onion stuffing (instead of sausage meat) and cook everything in butter and olive oil instead of using lard and goose fat etc. Its great! everyone has a good time and much food is consumed!

The only things he doesn't have are the sausage wrapped in bacon and the alcohol, but tbf, we usually have loads of coke/7up as well.

Most Muslims are really nice people who like to get involved. Its only the very few who get on the news for being tts.

I take an interest when he celebrates Eid too, but he usually goes home for that, so my participation is very limited hehe


I think its a really nice gesture buying your local PO owners some biccies, but yes, just take note of the animal fat as someone mentioned. My girlfriends mum runs her local PO and sometimes it can be pretty hard work! biggrin

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