Super dads help - daughter - poo - knickers problem
Super dads help - daughter - poo - knickers problem
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DSLiverpool

Original Poster:

16,497 posts

231 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Guys my just 3 daughter is killing me, she is very intelligent for 3.2 years but has an "I've crapped so clean me attitude"

We've tried potty, loo and various locations for both, with us without us she won't crap on a potty or loo.

Bribery worked with her twin brother choc for poo was easy but not for daughter, she will wee on a potty or the loo but will swear she doesn't need a dump then do one in her tights (we stopped daytime nappy a while back)

Come on super dads - I need help.

FreeLitres

6,128 posts

206 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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This is in GG. Wrong forum?

Motorrad

6,811 posts

216 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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I'm glad I don't have children and this thread cements the thought that I don't think I'll ever bother.

Good luck. smile

User33678888

1,147 posts

166 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Refer to mother, grandmother or mother in law. This is their department.

DSLiverpool

Original Poster:

16,497 posts

231 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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FreeLitres said:
This is in GG. Wrong forum?
Your right - but I couldn't work out which one and the house smells of st (again)

Motorrad

6,811 posts

216 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Isn't this what fking off to the pub is for?

RammyMP

7,698 posts

182 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Electrotherapy. Is that still allowed?

DSLiverpool

Original Poster:

16,497 posts

231 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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User33678888 said:
Refer to mother, grandmother or mother in law. This is their department.
All near given up, we have a daddy's girl relationship but she is taking the piss, not today though I left her pooped up in the playroom or an hour

0a

24,133 posts

223 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Kids are repulsive

Bayleaf

2,339 posts

194 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Wrong website - mumsnet may be better for your pooey needs?

DSLiverpool

Original Poster:

16,497 posts

231 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Nah PH has never let me down yet - someone must have Had a st caked little princess experience.

anonymous-user

83 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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PH is amazing in that many of its members were never children, and will never become old (see all the threads slagging off older drivers)

OP, it may be that your current tactic of aversion therapy will work, but I appreciate that you may be reluctant to be too heavy with your daughter in case she comes to resent you. I do not encourage medicalisation, but have you had a chat with your GP?

Generally, any child will develop to the next stage with time, each moving at his or her own pace, and patience may be all that works in the end.

anonymous-user

83 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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PS: maybe revert to nappies for the time being. Then try to place the child in social settings where she realises that other children her age do not wear nappies.

Monty Zoomer

1,459 posts

186 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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0a said:
Kids are repulsive
yeshurl

I prefer dogs.

Instead of trying to make her poo when you put her on the pottie, isn't there a way of making her tell you when she needs a poo? That way, you can put her on the pottie when she wants, rather than when it's convenient for you.

DSLiverpool

Original Poster:

16,497 posts

231 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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She has started nursery where this is evident and her twin bro doesn't wear a nappy during the day, we have to put jess back in a nappy as its too risky.
She reminds me of Steve McQueen in solitary doing her time without fuss as she just accepts early bed etc without fuss - Christ this at 3 god help me 14

DSLiverpool

Original Poster:

16,497 posts

231 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Monty Zoomer said:
yeshurl

I prefer dogs.

Instead of trying to make her poo when you put her on the pottie, isn't there a way of making her tell you when she needs a poo? That way, you can put her on the pottie when she wants, rather than when it's convenient for you.
Today she dumped within 5 mins of daddy saying "does jess need a poo poo" no daddy she said - lying bh

anonymous-user

83 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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My daughter never used a potty. She preferred to move straight to using a loo.

Ignore all toddler advice books, as there is no standard issue toddler.

Monty Zoomer

1,459 posts

186 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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DSLiverpool said:
Monty Zoomer said:
yeshurl

I prefer dogs.

Instead of trying to make her poo when you put her on the pottie, isn't there a way of making her tell you when she needs a poo? That way, you can put her on the pottie when she wants, rather than when it's convenient for you.
Today she dumped within 5 mins of daddy saying "does jess need a poo poo" no daddy she said - lying bh
laugh

I don't know then.

Take her to a kennel and PX her for something a bit nicer...

Freakuk

4,732 posts

180 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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Rub her nose in it, she'll soon get the gist of it

anonymous-user

83 months

Wednesday 13th February 2013
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The sad thing is that some of those comments might even be semi serious.

OP, it may be best to avoid letting this becoming a major battle. One strategy might be to affect unconcern.