"You're just jealous" *
"You're just jealous" *
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AW111

Original Poster:

9,674 posts

164 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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Why does someone inevitably come out with this, usually followed by an allegation of poverty, when they feel their beloved make / model of car is being unfairly criticized?

Do they really think every PH-er really aspires to drive what they do, and are only prevented by a lack of money, or is there another reason I am missing?

I've not been accused of that (here) yet, but seem to have seen it a lot recently.

  • Or should that be "your just jealous" to suit the PH style?

Rawwr

22,722 posts

265 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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The answer to the vast and overwhelming majority of questions asked on Pistonheads is; "Because some people are just dicks."

DMN

3,061 posts

170 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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In most cases of course, they actually mean envious, not jealous:

"Jealousy is the result or fear of losing someone or something that one is attached to or possesses to another person (the transfer of a lover's affections in the typical form), while envy is the resentment caused by another person having something that one does not have, but desires for oneself"

So not only are they a show-off, they're a thick one at that.

Dr Doofenshmirtz

16,952 posts

231 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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AW111 said:
Why does someone inevitably come out with this
Do they?
Got any links so I can have a good laugh please.

Betty Cumberdale

163 posts

165 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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Dr Doofenshmirtz said:
Do they?
Got any links so I can have a good laugh please.
Just read the latest Audi bashing thread, plenty in there.

AW111

Original Poster:

9,674 posts

164 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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I was carefully avoiding the "A" word, but similar comments also appeared on the "cars you irrationally dislike" thread, iirc, and I'm sure I've seen it on more than one supercar related thread.

Just did a google search on the word "jealous" for the PH site (60+ pages of results); only looked at the first two pages, but there are more people claiming to be jealous than accusing others of jealousy.
Approx 4:1, so I may have overreacted a bit, but the accusation is not uncommon.

DMN is right, of course - envious is the correct term. And a better insult, since envy is one of the seven deadly sins.

Mr2Mike

20,143 posts

286 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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DMN said:
In most cases of course, they actually mean envious, not jealous:

"Jealousy is the result or fear of losing someone or something that one is attached to or possesses to another person (the transfer of a lover's affections in the typical form), while envy is the resentment caused by another person having something that one does not have, but desires for oneself"

So not only are they a show-off, they're a thick one at that.
Quite right, it seems quite a lot of people have no idea that these words have different meanings.

PH :: Education Matters.

DaveH23

3,355 posts

201 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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Rawwr said:
The answer to the vast and overwhelming majority of questions asked on Pistonheads is; "Because some people are just dicks."
... and when 'Because some people are just dicks' doesnt answer the question, MX5 normally does.

SWoll

22,961 posts

289 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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Because in a number of cases it is very probably a fair comment?

At the end of the day you are conversing with a broad spectrum of society on PH, and let's be honest there is a lot of envy/jealousness out there that you will regularly encounter in real life so why not on PH?

deadtom

2,769 posts

196 months

Tuesday 26th March 2013
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Dr Doofenshmirtz said:
Do they?
Got any links so I can have a good laugh please.
here's a good'un from Rich_W; second comment from top, regarding the matter of people who don't like 'stanced' cars:

http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

read page 31 for context