Schools and taking my lad out of school during term time
Schools and taking my lad out of school during term time
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dfen5

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2,398 posts

243 months

Friday 2nd August 2013
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Got a sporting even to attend with my son in Holland in October. Will need a Friday and a Monday during term time.

Will the School kick up? Should I keep schtum or be honest?

paolow

3,262 posts

289 months

Friday 2nd August 2013
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Edit - deleted as not 100% accurate

Edited by paolow on Friday 2nd August 21:57

arfur daley

834 posts

197 months

Friday 2nd August 2013
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Tell the school you are going on strike for two days.

SwanJack

1,958 posts

303 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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My kids school (primary) 'allows' 10 days term time holiday (but not in a piecemeal way). From what I have read there can be really no objection, and if there is, you just say that the cultural benefit will outweigh what he'd do in those two schooldays.

ChrisBMW

328 posts

179 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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Depends on his age I think, we use to take our son out for two weeks on a regular basis to go to orlando but that was when he was in primary school I wouldn't consider it now he's 15

LuS1fer

43,566 posts

276 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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Most schools have a standard leave request slip (I used to write lovely letters of request and they sent back these shonky slips to fill in).

They are cracking down on it more but 2 days should be fine. Just remember it's 30 hours a week of education they are missing so age is important.
My daughter's mother put a blanket ban on it when she went to secondary school.

deckster

9,631 posts

286 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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Bear in mind that most schools these days will automatically deny these requests, in line with LA policy. You'll also get a nice letter telling you what a bad parent you are and reminding you that you have a legal duty to ensure that your kids are in school, you can be fined or imprisoned for failing to make your child attend. And then, assuming that you have otherwise good attendance records, will say that they've noted that the kids won't be in school that day and it will go down as unauthorised absence.

surveyor

18,707 posts

215 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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Depends on the school. Some take the hard line, some don't. I'm sure other parents will tell you which way your is.

If your lad happens to be ill on those days what are the odds!

I've also written some fantastic 'reasons for absence' explaining how important it is to enable a child to experience different cultures, and how educational it is, brushing over that Disney is not that different... I assume they were amused, or maybe not.

cailean

917 posts

204 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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From September the Gov't is cracking down on this, more than 4 days (in a year I think) and you can get a "fine"...quite right too...

dfen5

Original Poster:

2,398 posts

243 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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He's ten soon, working hard getting ready for his eleven plus next year.

Last year he was off only three days with tonsillitis. Think I'll do it official soon and if they say no hopefully they'll have forgotten by the time wink

wiggy001

7,404 posts

302 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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cailean said:
From September the Gov't is cracking down on this, more than 4 days (in a year I think) and you can get a "fine"...quite right too...
Intrigued to know why you feel this way as I really can't see an issue with it to be honest.

Middle of exams or exam prep is different but a couple of days out of normal lessons isn't going negatively impact their education.

croyde

26,527 posts

261 months

Saturday 3rd August 2013
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It's a sod for a parent like me who can't take time off during the school hols.

Did it a few times when they were younger and the school sympathised with my position but I probably wouldn't take them out now.

LuS1fer

43,566 posts

276 months

Sunday 4th August 2013
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wiggy001 said:
Intrigued to know why you feel this way as I really can't see an issue with it to be honest.

Middle of exams or exam prep is different but a couple of days out of normal lessons isn't going negatively impact their education.
I think much depends on the child and how far behind the curve they are. Some children really do need every bit of education they can get.
The contrary argument is that such children actually benefit more from cultural diversity and are going to man the factories in the future, regardless. the pretence that all children can achieve is a fundamental load of cock and the reason why this nation ids full of inept managers aspiring beyond their capabilities.

So I say let them go.
Mt actual agenda is to make school full-time by reducing the summer holiday to 2 weeks and allowing parents to take them out of school for 10 days through the year. This will stop travel agents inflating holidays too.

Kenty

5,287 posts

206 months

Sunday 4th August 2013
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I think it depends on the local council policy. Lincolnshire for instance has a strict ban on term time holidays but applications can be made, but what criteria allows them to take time off is anyone's guess!

Sealine South

534 posts

170 months

Sunday 4th August 2013
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My Son's school used to let you take 10 days (effectively 2 weeks) - he is about to start year 1.

Apparently from September it will be banned. Its a bit ridiculous. They can have inset days during term time but thats ok I guess......

It will be interesting to know what the fine will be - if its less than the cost difference of going on holiday during school holidays I can't see it working!

bobt

1,323 posts

234 months

Sunday 4th August 2013
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As well as inset days, most schools seem happy to close their doors for a few cms of snow, because some of the teachers are two pathetic to drive a few miles, resulting in hundreds of children missing out on education and hundreds of working parents having to take leave, just for a few pathetic teachers.

SwanJack

1,958 posts

303 months

Sunday 4th August 2013
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bobt said:
As well as inset days, most schools seem happy to close their doors for a few cms of snow, because some of the teachers are two pathetic to drive a few miles, resulting in hundreds of children missing out on education and hundreds of working parents having to take leave, just for a few pathetic teachers.
Furthermore, my son's teacher (and others I've found out) only teach four days a week, the fifth being used for 'preparation' WTF's all that about rolleyes

Cupramax

11,007 posts

283 months

Sunday 4th August 2013
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bobt said:
because some of the teachers are two pathetic to drive a few miles,
Obviously not English teachers then... wink