Counter Offers
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...Mole...

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2,780 posts

220 months

Tuesday 3rd September 2013
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So I just accepted a new job the other day as I felt I was going nowhere in my current position and supporting employees who did no work whilst I handled it all etc etc. 25% increase in pay and a nice benefits package at the new role, an extra 10 miles on the commute but that's no issue.

However I have been informed by my boss that they dont want to see me leave and that I can forge a better role for myself and have more of a leadership role, money no issue etc etc. To me it's all a bit too little too late as I have raised my concerns several times and they have not been acted on. Still it's a difficult situation especially if they start waving a lot more money under my nose.

Anyone taken a counter offer and regretted it or vice versa?

944fan

4,962 posts

214 months

Tuesday 3rd September 2013
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I was always told it is never a good idea to accept one. Managers get offended when their people leave and often want to control them or make then leave under their terms.

On the other hand I almost left my company just over two years ago, was given a counter offer, accepted and have been promoted again since. My earnings are now 50% higher than they were two years ago.

It sounds like their track record isn't that good.

The flip side is to go back to the new company say you have been made a counter offer and see what they say. I did that when the above happened and they upped their offer. The CEO even invited me out for beers to try and convince me.

Good luck with whichever you choose.

mondeoman

11,430 posts

295 months

Tuesday 3rd September 2013
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Generally, unless the underlying reasons for the move are substantially changed (and mostly its not about money), then you'll regret staying and will be looking again in 6-9 months, Guaranteed.

If you've raised these concerns before and they haven't acted, why do you think they'll act now? If you truly believe that they'll get rid of all the issues that pissed you off and got you looking for something different, then stay. Any doubt, at all, and GTFOOT.

HTH

Odie

4,187 posts

211 months

Tuesday 3rd September 2013
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Never accept counter offers. Their really is no point.

rog007

5,829 posts

253 months

Tuesday 3rd September 2013
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If it were me, I'd continue with the move on the existing terms. If you're good, you'll get your rewards. Good luck!

Podie

46,649 posts

304 months

Tuesday 3rd September 2013
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If they really valued you, they would have helped develop you in role.

You decided to move for a reason. Don't burn any bridges if you can help it, but time to move on.

...Mole...

Original Poster:

2,780 posts

220 months

Wednesday 4th September 2013
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Thanks for all the replies general consensus seems to be not accepting a counter offer which I'm pretty dead set on anyway. Even if they do offer more money the role I am moving to is very much a new position for the company so I have much more scope for advancement.
Thanks for the help.

Matt UK

18,084 posts

229 months

Wednesday 4th September 2013
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The only thing a counter-offer is useful for is in the final pay negotiations with your new employer.

So you may as well use it for that purpose. Most people get the biggest salary jumps when moving company, and seeing as most of us don't do that very often, make sure you make it count for you.

fridaypassion

11,457 posts

257 months

Thursday 5th September 2013
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I accepted one once. Never again! Is always better at least seeing if the grass is greener. If you don't burn bridges you might still get the counter offer anyway in the future.

Council Baby

19,746 posts

219 months

Thursday 5th September 2013
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I accepted a counter offer 3 years ago when I resigned. It was a fantastic offer but in hindsight (which is a waste of time anyway) I should have just left then. I'm currently looking for another role as virtually nothing has changed!

fridaypassion

11,457 posts

257 months

Thursday 5th September 2013
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Nothing changed. Sounds very familiar!

Rude-boy

22,227 posts

262 months

Thursday 5th September 2013
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Council Baby said:
I accepted a counter offer 3 years ago when I resigned. It was a fantastic offer but in hindsight (which is a waste of time anyway) I should have just left then. I'm currently looking for another role as virtually nothing has changed!
The only person I have heard of who was happy to accept a counter offer was a Client who was due to retire in March one year but was asked to stay on a further 3 months until his replacement arrived. Given that they were offered 12 months pay for those 3 months they decided to stay. Given the level of their job that was enough to buy their house on the front in a very expensive Seaside town along the East coast...

Council Baby

19,746 posts

219 months

Thursday 5th September 2013
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Rude-boy said:
The only person I have heard of who was happy to accept a counter offer was a Client who was due to retire in March one year but was asked to stay on a further 3 months until his replacement arrived. Given that they were offered 12 months pay for those 3 months they decided to stay. Given the level of their job that was enough to buy their house on the front in a very expensive Seaside town along the East coast...
hehe It's a deal, where do I sign?

Mine was to come to work 3 days a week for the same money and do what I wanted the rest of the time as long as I dealt with the necessary when I wasn't there... it worked well for quite a while.

Can't say I was hard done by.